Fixed.Why would I knowingly want to share penis and my man? Keyword: knowingly
I'm flat out not mature enough.
Also, reasons listed.... Its not about sex
Allow me to tell you ladies about Polygamy...
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Also, reasons listed.... Its not about sex
But their alpha nature would be pushed to greater heights in a modified continued competition for their wife.
And she could sooth the rougher parts. I could see the bonding happening.
Also they wouldn't have to worry about who she's cheating with b/c he would know who she is with.
Biologically a woman's cries during sex are intended to alert other male lovers.
It's our biology to sleep with as many of the best males as possible and secure them to maximize provision and protection for offspring! A surplus of males in society equals violence in competition for women.
Wives with multiple loving husbands ensures each man has a wife to provide for and protect. One big happy family
Lol okay @Booksnrain
xoxodede
Superstar
Fixed.
Also, reasons listed.... Its not about sex
you are right
But, sex is apart of the package right? or does everyone abstain?
Ms.CuriousCat
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She manages shared acct, somewhat. She makes the comment "i never touch the money in there"
But then she Suggest madddddddddd shyt that needs to be bought
Well, Money from my gibill, military disability, real estate, rentals, business, and wife1's business (not really much from her) goes into joint.
Random other money goes to rest. Wife 2 has wealthy parents so- she had a lil money and had some from when she was a manager at a major corp. So idk what she really has going on.
There is no real budget.... Just a lifestyle, we dont spend much. Plus, I made some sacrifices to Actually own our properties, no mortage or rent so that helps.
Who gets the house if something happens to you?
my oldest son. And his mother til hes 18.
(But under monogamy ill be the same way)
xoxodede
Superstar
To set up the 3 situations:
I met a girl in college. Got married young. Got her preg, went to military, got her preg again. I was trifling... Cheated and was too young. She was too young. We split up because we both wanted to travel the Earth and do us. I went all over Mid east n afrika. She did the South Amerika Caribbean stuff. We came back when our seeds were toddlers (we traded back n forth while they were babies)
We divorced. But remained cool and friends because we gave each other opportunity and space. She went to grad school and lived a normal live... I went off to be a whore.
During whore phase, I met a super dark skin young girl. I thought her skin was beautiful but She was just too young and i was already early 20s. I was 'allegedly' moving weight at this time (I had military background and a degree but... Wanted a certain lifestyle). Before this girl I only dated High Class Grad school level black girls. This youngin was a str8 up RAT. She helped me w my new venture. Plus she was 16 but smart as hell. Was doing better than nikkas who I trusted. I never smashed her (at this point) She ended up getting kicked off campus at 18 because she was busted... Got caught with madd 'stuff'
She never snitched. She took that charge. Ruined her education
By then I was in Corp Amerika and sorta legit. So I helped her out w money n stuff. Felt obligated to her. My homies also helped her cuz she didn't rat. She grew up to look beautiful at age 20ish. We hung out. I started hitting, cut off all other women. But I still didn't wife her. She never pressed the issue and I left for Grad School. Had another hoe phase.
Grad school... I was righteous by now. No whore phase. Just wack negro.. Studying, becoming spiritual. Wasn't even trying to go out, stopped drinking, stopped eating meat. Just growing up.
But then some west afrikan queen... Came in the next class w long braid and i honestly fell in love after she did a presentation to the cohort. I never met a Classy woman
But then discovered that she was a white jesus loving, not "aware" and "conscious" , c00n
I was gonna bush her, but she was madd cool.
Eventually she started readed outta my book collection and developed her own ideology. She didn't take on my extreme militant muslim ideas... But at least she wasn't a c00n.
I married the girl from grad school, we had children. She became cool w my BM. They developed a very close relationship (both being former wack sheltered people).... Started coordinating with children n stuff
Im like
But I was scared to bring it up
But then I decided.... To have the talk. Of course the first BM was down (i think she figured she had her hoe phase (i can only imagine)... And she figured She didnt come from split up parents and she should be w the father of her sons)).
I coped a big crib. We did it.
The whole time Im faithful, but keeping in touch w the hoodrat shorty- but by now I been sending her money every few months... We were friends (I knew she was in love w me but I didn't know if she'll be down with me being married already).
Then I took a business trip- met up w her , seen that she Turned into a mature beautiful Queen. I was a lil shocked. And also realized I knew her for damn near a decade and she's been low key loyal and down. And madddd men have tried to wife her and I felt she was holding out.
So we had a talk, she admitted that she felt the universe kept bringing us together for a reason.
The transition into her being in my fam was Rough As shyt- because it wasn't organic like the first 2. I sorta forced it,
But a man can't force it, its low key up to the women to allow or accept it.
But, lucky for me by now I had been righteous, and cool for so long, my 1st wife knew I wouldn't be trying to bring someone in for thot reasons.
That's wonderful it all worked out for y'all though.
So, nobody gets jealous? Couldn't be me -- but if it works for them and they are happy. I am happy for you
Ms.CuriousCat
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And his mother til hes 18.
(But under monogamy ill be the same way)
Do the others know that?
WomenThat's wonderful it all worked out for y'all though.
So, nobody gets jealous? Couldn't be me -- but if it works for them and they are happy. I am happy for you
Live in the land of jealousy
Even if they pretend they don't.
Even in monogamy, women dont like their man associating with other women in a friendly way.
Only 1 wife is jealous, but she doesn't act like it. Shes cool, but i just know her , so i know how she feels. But she has her own set up and sorta separate life and reality so she's good.
You think it's gonna end up like this?
(The other two arent as materialistic... So i doubt they think on it. Plus its not like its some huge Mansion. It's big but not like Puffy house or something. Nothing to fight over)
Ms.CuriousCat
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You think it's gonna end up like this?
(The other two arent as materialistic... So i doubt they think on it. Plus its not like its some huge Mansion. It's big but not like Puffy house or something. Nothing to fight over)
Did you say something about building wealth as a positive of polygamy? What are wife 2 and 3 and their kids getting out of this in the long term?
xoxodede
Superstar
Do you all have certain days set up to be alone? Do you sleep in separate beds?
I just wanted to talk in general on the topic
Anyway, naw... Not the same bed. My talk game n mouth piece isnt That Dope.
Lol. Plus 2 aren't into women sexually At All.. So it would be pointless from a man's POV
xoxodede
Superstar
But their alpha nature would be pushed to greater heights in a modified continued competition for their wife.
And she could sooth the rougher parts. I could see the bonding happening.
Also they wouldn't have to worry about who she's cheating with b/c he would know who she is with.
Biologically a woman's cries during sex are intended to alert other male lovers.
It's our biology to sleep with as many of the best males as possible and secure them to maximize provision and protection for offspring! A surplus of males in society equals violence in competition for women.
Wives with multiple loving husbands ensures each man has a wife to provide for and protect. One big happy family
This does sounds nice --- but having one man is way more than enough to deal with - so to have multiple ones -- i'm good.
It would be nice to have one and a few approved side pieces. But, I wouldn't allow him to have any side's -- so it wouldn't work.