This is an ad hominem attack. I've already that I'm pro black people, not just pro black men. You need to get your head out of your ass as listen for a change. You can't tell me how I feel.How was I insulting you by saying you are only pro-Black male? Everyone can see that already. Don't mistake me being the first one to tell you for me being the first one to know it.
My thoughts and feelings concerning gender roles is irrelevant to this discussion. This "according to you...." bullshyt is what you're tryin to project on to me. You ask me how I feel, you don't tell me.And you don't have a point. In your nonsensical world, the Black male, no matter his character no matter his qualifications no matter his intentions, deserves title of leadership and head. His decisions and thoughts on matters automatically count for more and hold more weight than any woman. According to you, this is just nature and the order of things. You even said Black women are less of a threat and thus Black women's movements and achievements matter less when it comes to white supremacy, and its really Black men's movements and achievements that can defeat it.
In this white male patriarchal society, black women are less of a threat than black men. That's just a fact of the matter that has nothing to do with my personal opinion of gender roles. It's obvious that you have major resentment toward traditional gender roles and all of that, but don't let that resentment keep you from being honest with yourself.
You're a babbling fool. Your comments are embarrassing. I'll sai it again for you. My point in this discussion has nothing to do with my personal opinion on gender roles or the position that men and women should play in relationships with each other. I'm simply commenting on the reality of life here and now in America. Whether you like it or not this is a society that is ran by white men who have instituted a system of supremacy/racism that ensures their supremacy. That is the context in which I'm speaking. Regardless if I like it or not(obviously I don't) black men are not the leaders of our communities courtesy of white supremacy. The system of white supremacy has taken major steps to prevent black men from leading the black community. I didn't say that black women carry more weight. What I said was bat black women who choose to be with white men are perpetuating white supremacy. Again, white supremacy as about keeping white men at the top of the totem pole. A white woman who chooses a black man or non white man does not perpetuate white male supremacy, it threatens it. This is why white men go so hard on their women for dating out, especially when it's with a black man. You're trying to call me a hypocrite for acknowledging the hypocrisy in white men and their system of racism. What part of what I'm saying don't you get? Do you not understand that white men are in control of this society? Do you not understand that white men are the main beneficiaries and perpetuators of the system of white supremacy? Do you understand that gender and traditional gender roles do matter even if you don't agree with them? I'm really disappointed in your level of intellect or lack thereof.Now, suddenly in this instance where Black men can potentially be more sought after and desired by other women, something that would do nothing other than feed their ego, its not the decision of the man that holds more weight, but the decision of the woman. How can this be?
The man is the ultimate leader and head to you, but his choosing to marry out means LESS to his community than a woman choosing the same? It can't be that you believe that the white women who Black men marry take on Black culture because they don't, and it certainly can't be that you are saying their biracial children marry Black, because they overwhelmingly do not. So explain how these two things can work at the same time without you being a raging hypocrite and fraud: 1) Black male leadership >>>> 2) Black men choosing to date and marry out is not as harmful as Black women choosing to do so.
I am interested to see how many sides of your mouth you can talk out of to defend your delusions.
Last edited: