I feel u but there's levels to everything. Can you say someone like maya angelou isn't Pro black when i believe she had 2 white husbands.
Me personally, i dont feel like you can be pro black and use the n word or listen to music that openly talking about killing and or selling drugs to other black people but that's just my opinion.
Facts. I came to this same conclusion years ago.
That single word is the smoking gun for me.
I don't care how "pro-black" somebody tries to sound, as soon as that word comes out I see right through you.
When you truly gain a deep love for your people that Nword becomes disgusting.
Claiming to be pro-black while still calling black people "n1ggas" , which is the most degrading and dehumanizing word in our language, is a complete contradiction.
I can't fully trust no black person who uses that word.