After This Father’s Day I’m Officially Cutting Ties With My Dad…GMB brehs

[RickyDiBiase]

Generational daddy issues, you hate to see it.

Worry about why your man is always trying your makeup on when every your dishrag ass steps outside the house.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Worry about why your man is always trying your makeup on when every your dishrag ass steps outside the house.

 

[EA]

I empathize with the OP because I can relate to not getting along with your dad but the Coli, especially TLR, isn’t the place to genuinely discuss issues regarding parenting. You’ve got people on here that think the actions of people like Cam Newton and Nick Cannon are ok because they’ve got money. Healthy relationships with parents aren’t valued here

 

[CashmereThoughts]

I tried to rekindle

I tried to open a space for a dialogue

Tried to get him into counseling so we could have a third party, but he refuses cause word got out about how things went south with my last therapist and because he just doesn’t fw it in general

But this is the last straw

His hypocrisy knows no fukking bounds

For 20+ years he’s always been on some slick shyt towards me. Years years ago he made a remark about me being gay in front of the whole family while we was watching Low Down Dirty shame and it was during the part where Waymon met up with the cac and all that carrying on and this fool gonna laugh and say “that’s Ricky”.

Everybody other than my mama, my grandmama and my ratchet ass uncle Damien laughed. But everyone else was so tickled. He knew that shyt bugged me, so for YEARS he kept insinuating shyt that I was gay despite the fact I was getting hoes in high school while his ass was a virgin until he met my mother.

So fast forward, my younger brother comes out as “bisexual” (not a real thing) and now all of a sudden he wants to be accepting of his son being a fukking fruit basket despite the fact he has done nothing worthy of praise in his life other then be a clerk at Chase for five years.

So as far as I’m concerned, if its nothing involving my son, I want nothing to do with him. I’m fukking done. I’m tired all the bullshyt and gaslighting about how I need to “reserve my role” as being the head of tbe family when all I get is disrespect from the family patriarch who despite his education and military experience STILL chooses to work for white people, yet always hollering why he feels disrespected as a man when it comes to my mama and that’s because she married his clownin ass out of pity. If I didn’t love my father I would been told him just to see his bytch ass crumble.

But I do. So I just let him continue living on with the facade that he’s the man of the house and not just a glorifed sperm donating housesitter.

I had to cut my father off and didn’t think twice about it. When the negativity outweighs the positive qualities of the relationship it’s time to cut it, DGAF who you are

 

[HarlemHottie]

I empathize with the OP because I can relate to not getting along with your dad but the Coli, especially TLR, isn’t the place to genuinely discuss issues regarding parenting.

I had to cut my father off and didn’t think twice about it. When the negativity outweighs the positive qualities of the relationship it’s time to cut it, DGAF who you are

He's bytch made and his father smelt it on him. Consistently talks crazy to females he won't ever encounter irl. Feels like his guns make him a man to be feared. The epitome of dumb nikka crash outs. I hope yall can pull him back from the brink.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

He's bytch made and his father smelt it on him. Consistently talks crazy to females he won't ever encounter irl. Feels like his guns make him a man to be feared. The epitome of dumb nikka crash outs. I hope yall can pull him back from the brink.

Yet he's the one who ran to the courts to put a case on me Meanwhile you just a miserable, childless old hoe who can't face facts her nikka likes men.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

I tried to rekindle

I tried to open a space for a dialogue

Tried to get him into counseling so we could have a third party, but he refuses cause word got out about how things went south with my last therapist and because he just doesn’t fw it in general

But this is the last straw

His hypocrisy knows no fukking bounds

For 20+ years he’s always been on some slick shyt towards me. Years years ago he made a remark about me being gay in front of the whole family while we was watching Low Down Dirty shame and it was during the part where Waymon met up with the cac and all that carrying on and this fool gonna laugh and say “that’s Ricky”.

Everybody other than my mama, my grandmama and my ratchet ass uncle Damien laughed. But everyone else was so tickled. He knew that shyt bugged me, so for YEARS he kept insinuating shyt that I was gay despite the fact I was getting hoes in high school while his ass was a virgin until he met my mother.

So fast forward, my younger brother comes out as “bisexual” (not a real thing) and now all of a sudden he wants to be accepting of his son being a fukking fruit basket despite the fact he has done nothing worthy of praise in his life other then be a clerk at Chase for five years.

So as far as I’m concerned, if its nothing involving my son, I want nothing to do with him. I’m fukking done. I’m tired all the bullshyt and gaslighting about how I need to “reserve my role” as being the head of tbe family when all I get is disrespect from the family patriarch who despite his education and military experience STILL chooses to work for white people, yet always hollering why he feels disrespected as a man when it comes to my mama and that’s because she married his clownin ass out of pity. If I didn’t love my father I would been told him just to see his bytch ass crumble.

But I do. So I just let him continue living on with the facade that he’s the man of the house and not just a glorifed sperm donating housesitter.

First time seeing this. I'm sorry but I don't see any reasons why you should cut off your father in your vent. It sounds like him calling you gay under those circumstances you mentioned was sarcasm. From what I'm reading, it sounds like you don't want anything directed towards you....advice or jokes. I'm just going by what's written but for your sake I hope it isn't as bad as you make it.

 

[RickyDiBiase]

First time seeing this. I'm sorry but I don't see any reasons why you should cut off your father in your vent. It sounds like him calling you gay under those circumstances you mentioned was sarcasm. From what I'm reading, it sounds like you don't want anything directed towards you....advice or jokes. I'm just going by what's written but for your sake I hope it isn't as bad as you make it.

other than seeing his grandson, we have nothing in common. He put the case on me. We big done. Ma Dukes remarried. I'm in a much better head space now. Baby number two is due in March.

I'm contempt.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Yet he's the one who ran to the courts to put a case on me Meanwhile you just a miserable, childless old hoe who can't face facts her nikka likes men.

Our sex life has been consistently popping since before 9/11. If you got a case put on you, I believe it, fukking fakkit.

 

[Dad]

The Coli’s own