After 51 Years of Marriage, Judge Finds Out Children Aren't His... GMB

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And she is one of the first people to criticize others and "preach" the word to them. From what my grandmother said, he was raised to take care of home no matter what. I feel that he should have divorced her, but they don't believe in it.

I am sure they intended to take it to the grave, but her hand was forced. The biological father died, and my cousin's siblings apparently knew he was their father's child, as did the man before he died. She got word that they were going to publish his name in the obituary as one of his children and she just came out and told. My cousin never really forgave her, but they try to keep up appearances.

I believe in God to my core, but I think the formalities of religion can cause some people to behave in ways that are evil, under the guise of being forgiven of sins.
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I’ve always felt that way. It’s like folks think going through the motions of prayer and the sacraments without actually understanding, connecting and desiring to do and be better is ok. Get through the rosary and it doesn’t matter wtf you did or said 🤷🏾‍♀️

A lot of pomp and circumstance and pretentiousness. People do whatever they want. Especially if they can get away with it.
 

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The birth certificate is signed by that point if we are using a “one day just..”
You are not obligated to sign the birth certificate. You can refuse and leave it at that, waiting until you have confirmation on paternity to sign it when you know the child is actually yours. If she signs your name to the paternity without your consent, then you can resolve that issue in court if the DNA test confirms that you are not the father.

edit: Don't dally on it though, because there is a time limit on you being able to remove yourself from child support even if paternity is determined to be false in many states. You get the test done as soon as humanly possible to avoid that circumstance.
 

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No the answer is to get one done yourself. Don't put it in her hands. Don't argue with her about it. Just take the child one of the days you have him or her, and pay for the test. In the end, it is you and your money on the hook and just leaving her does not resolve the real issue of you possibly being put on child support for a kid that is not yours.

So do not resolve this the feminine way, by being passive and argumentative. Resolve this the masculine way, being active and moving in silence until the moment is right for you to show your hand.
See this is where "being masculine and tough" is stupid and ends up hurting men in the end

You'll already have the birth certificate signed if you do this. Just be upfront to your girl before you knock your girl up that you want a test.
 

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See this is where "being masculine and tough" is stupid and ends up hurting men in the end

You'll already have the birth certificate signed if you do this. Just be upfront to your girl before you knock your girl up that you want a test.
Why would the birth certificate be signed by you already, if you are going to get a DNA test to confirm paternity? Why waste your time arguing about getting a paternity test, when you can get one without the hassle?

You act like you have no agency. Like you are a mindless robot that will do what is commanded of you. So if they put the certificate in front of you, you will sign it without a thought? Oh, and you seem to not understand that a lot of women will be taken aback with the request to have a DNA test and argue about it. Why set there and argue like a female, when you have a solution to the problem?

Masculinity teaches a man to be proactive and accept his agency. You are seeking to have men act feminine, asking for permission for something that does not require it.
 

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:snoop:DAMN SO ALL THE WAY UNTIL 88
nikkaS WERE GETTING CASES PUT ON THEM
WITH NO WAY TO PROVE THE bytch WAS LYING.



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Not sure but i think back then you could get a blood test to compare your blood type with your kids or something like that. I think you could still have a compatible blood type without the kid being yours...
 

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Why would the birth certificate be signed by you already, if you are going to get a DNA test to confirm paternity? Why waste your time arguing about getting a paternity test, when you can get one without the hassle?

You act like you have no agency. Like you are a mindless robot that will do what is commanded of you. So if they put the certificate in front of you, you will sign it without a thought? Oh, and you seem to not understand that a lot of women will be taken aback with the request to have a DNA test and argue about it. Why set there and argue like a female, when you have a solution to the problem?

Masculinity teaches a man to be proactive and accept his agency. You are seeking to have men act feminine, asking for permission for something that does not require it.
You're being dumb.

There is nothing feminine about being upfront about your intentions and walking away if you're not I'm agreement.
 
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