Data-Hawk
I have no strings on me.
I understand your experience. My mother's a second generation Ethiopian American, and my father's side is African American, but my mother is so removed from her culture that I never really grew up around my Ethiopian side. My mother was culturally African-American, and her family had a problem with her marriage to my father. She would make a few comments here and there about Ethiopian culture vs. African American culture, which showed how different they view themselves. It confused me. I've always just referred to myself as an African American but I don't fit in, and out of the few times I'd be around my Ethiopian side I could tell that they thought they were better than me. I'm tired of seeking acceptance from that side so I just ride with being African American. At the same time, Africans (West or East) really need to act right cause they need to realize that it's because of African Americans they have rights in this country. There's a disconnect between the two groups of people because the African American experience is vastly different from the West/East African experience. Most of these Africans come from mostly homogenous societies and didn't have to deal with white supremacy on the same level that my ancestors had to. So they come here and think everything's easy, without understanding the 400 years of bullshyt we done had to go through, and then try to call us lazy and join in with whitey. But they don't hear me tho.
This ^. My sons mother is from Trinidad and her mother hated me from the jump, no matter how well I sucked up to her or how well I treated her daughter. and it was definitely because I wasn't from Trinidad....She would always be on some " You americans don't have any values" blah blah............after sometime I just gave up...