Accepted to 122 colleges with $5.3 million in scholarships. His choice came down to music

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How the hell did he pay all those application fees?

*checks immigration status*

Probably didn’t.

My kids could only apply to 10 schools a piece because that’s all we could afford.
This shyt melts my brain. You're only supposed to apply to your top 5-10 options. People are just doing this for internet clout (“ooh look I got X million in scholarships!”).

You’re just wasting school resources. And it looks like this is becoming a trend. 2nd article I've seen this week with someone pulling this.
 

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This shyt melts my brain. You're only supposed to apply to your top 5-10 options. People are just doing this for internet clout (“ooh look I got X million in scholarships!”).

You’re just wasting school resources. And it looks like this is becoming a trend. 2nd article I've seen this week with someone pulling this.
shyt hit home and got me tight

I just spent more than 2k total just on the application process and I had to wipe away tears as my daughter couldn’t apply to every school she wanted to try.
 

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For now.

They will groom him for their specific purposes as his skill level and level of lack of morality reveal themselves.

All tethers have been imported strictly as insurance for when us native negroes wake up and rejoin the Republic.

A tether for what?
The white establishment that decides whom enters isn't trying to see any more Blacks coming in :mjlol:
And what Republic?
If the maga's take power in November they'll make sure this time they never lose power. You'll be under a far-right White dictatorship for a generation to come..I don't know how well that spells for any Black person in the US no matter where they were born.
Good luck with that scenario.
 

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He doesn't want to just be a musician, he wants to be a POP STAR.

I can't recall what colleges any true pop stars went to:

Prince, Michael Jackson, Britney Spears, Usher, Lionel Richie, Madonna, Drake, Ricky Martin, Celine Dion, Mariah Carey, Justin Timberlake, Diana Ross, Paul McCartney, Sonny & Cher, Bobby Brown, Milli Vanilli, Rick Astley, and so on and so on



boy has the grades but not the wisdom to realize how foolish it is.
Well he is young and susceptible to popular culture.

I wish him the best in whatever.

But if it were my kid, i wouldnt be took happy about a music degree.
 

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I mean, pursue your dreams, but none of this makes sense. Why apply to 150 schools to be a "pop star"?

Just get out there and make music...I wouldn't advise the route he's taking, but sometimes you have to bump your head.
 

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How the hell did he pay all those application fees?

*checks immigration status*

Probably didn’t.

My kids could only apply to 10 schools a piece because that’s all we could afford.
don't start this bullshyt

his father is paid... wtf does "checks immigration status" mean they don't waive fees for immigrants. :dahell:
 

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shyt hit home and got me tight

I just spent more than 2k total just on the application process and I had to wipe away tears as my daughter couldn’t apply to every school she wanted to try.
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And for others who also didn't read he said he applied to many because he had doubt about his chances of being accepted. Great determination 👍🏽, I'm sure he will do something in music if he keeps that determination
 

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For now.

They will groom him for their specific purposes as his skill level and level of lack of morality reveal themselves.

All tethers have been imported strictly as insurance for when us native negroes wake up and rejoin the Republic.
look at this shyt

imagine being Black speaking about other Black people like this and thinking you not some soulless compromised c00n.

you big mad homie.

your daughter crying because her father is a loser. i hope she marries a tether :umad:
 

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He moved to the US just before the pandemic shut down everything​

Ategeka immigrated to the US from his homeland in Uganda in late 2000s to attend the University of California, Berkeley. He left Helms with his mother in the western Ugandan town of Fort Portal, where he lived until he joined his father in California five years ago.
Soon after Helms came to the US in 2019, the world largely shut down due to the coronavirus pandemic. He attended his new school via Zoom and missed out on a big part of interacting with others and learning the nuances of American culture. As a result, he wasn’t sure his college applications would resonate or meet a lot of the requirements, he says.
“I gave it my all with the application process. I reached out to the schools to make sure that they’ve received my application and made sure I gave my essays my best shot. But I did not expect so many schools to say yes, so I was not prepared,” Helms says.
His modern drama teacher, Ricky Lapidus, is not surprised that Helms has received so many offers.
“Helms loves learning — he’s interested in other people as much as he is in grades,” says Lapidus, head of the Upper School at Head-Royce High School. “He is a deeply empathetic person and that’s how he approaches school — how do I learn more so I can understand others more? What makes him stand out for a college is a combination of his brains, sure, but also his joy and willingness to explore new things.”

He used his father’s words against him​

Helms spent the past few months studying the websites and social media accounts of schools that accepted him.
He’s watched videos of their music programs on YouTube and TikTok to get a sense of where he fits in. And most importantly, he’s had candid conversations with his father about the realities of a career in music.
Helms and his dad Christopher Ategeka were born in Uganda and relocated to California.

Helms and his dad Christopher Ategeka were born in Uganda and relocated to California.
Courtesy Christopher Ategeka
“As an immigrant parent, I was thinking, ‘How are you going to pay your bills?’ But he’s a driven kid … and he used my words against me,” Ategeka says.
Through this process, Ategeka says he realized he was viewing his son’s academic quest through what he describes as an “African immigrant mentality” that prioritizes certain lucrative careers as markers of success.
“I always tell him that he can be whatever he wants to be and can do anything he puts his mind to. And he was like, ‘Yeah, this is what I really want to do.’”
Ategeka says he’s slowly been embracing his son’s dream to study music and become a pop singer. He says he still worries about his future, because he knows how difficult it is to become famous enough to earn a living from your talent.
But he admires Helms’ determination and focus, as does his mother in Uganda. Chris Ategeka says his son proved he’s serious about a music career by getting accepted to so many colleges.
He is really highlighting the idea that he’s not a kid who is failing out of school or running away from home to live in the subway to make the music thing work,” Ategeka says.
“He’s sent the message that, ‘I know I’m smart. I got the grades. I can get into college. I can do whatever I want. But this is my passion, this is my drive, this is what I chose.”

His college choice has a connection to his dad​

After months of research, Helms made his choice: He will stay nearby and study music at his dad’s alma mater, UC Berkeley. A spokesperson for Berkeley confirmed that he’s been accepted.
“I created a spreadsheet, and I wrote out the pros and the cons for each of the schools and really tried to weigh my priorities,” he says. “If I would like to be close to home, what kind of program each school has or doesn’t have, that kind of stuff.”
Watching social media videos of the schools’ concerts and other musical events revealed the quality and diversity of the programs offered, which helped in making his decision, he says. Videos of musical events at Berkeley had a certain joie de vivre, he says, which helped him see himself there. The school also has a wide variety of musical programs, including African music ensembles and a brass quintet.
As an immigrant, Helms is part of a growing demographic. Children born abroad or in the US to an immigrant parent accounted for 58% of the increase in the nation’s college enrollment between 2000 and 2018, a study by the Migration Policy Institute shows. “The face of US higher education is changing,” the study says. “Students are more likely to come from immigrant families than in the past.”
Helms’ new chapter comes at a precarious time for US colleges and universities as Berkeley and other schools grapple with the aftermath of pro-Palestinian student protests that have led to disruptions, arrests and debates about the limits of free speech.
But Ategeka says his son’s journey has reminded him to be open to new possibilities and ways of thinking. He believes Helms will find appropriate ways to be a part of difficult campus conversations.
“College is not about conforming to status quo … it is ground zero for training leaders who shape the future. It is in college that the young minds rethink the old and build the new for humanity and our planet,” he says.
Helms is excited to follow in his father’s footsteps at Berkeley, which has an admission rate of about 12%. Of the nearly 126,000 students who applied in fall of 2023, only about 15,000 were accepted.
But most importantly, he says, he’s looking forward to taking the next step toward being a professional musician.

:gucci:

Someone tell this kid music is dead and theres AI..we need doctors and engineers, not more pop stars.
look at that kid

he looks moist... shyt explains itself. father is an engineer. son is a fruit basket
 

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Yes, many schools will take the same application, I think it’s called the ‘common application’. I believe there’s some finite number that you can apply to for free then may need to pay a fee for more.

The main reason people apply to many schools even if they know (believe) they can get into better ones is because they want to see the scholarship/aid packages each school will offer.

100+ though. Come on, if you Berkley status there aren't 100 other schools you should be interested in. I went to GT, pretty good school, anyone there could easily get into a shytload of other schools.

But at ~$100 per application. Why spend $12,000 and waste folks time? It's kids who really want to go to some of those schools who have to wait on scholarship info because of these other kids spamming everyone.

I don't know, maybe I'm just not about the flex.
 
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