A Step Dad is by far the Ultimate Simp. EDIT- or maybe not...

[semicko82]

Benefit of a man being a step dad? Lot of these females are on assistance. He can make all his money and keep it. Him, her & the kid(s) can live a life of luxury on the tax payers dime.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

So black kids should remain fatherless if their biological dad isn't in the picture?
Or they should be stuck with a dad that is barely doing his part?

 

[Wildhundreds]

Oh of course. Same ol coli mentality. Let's shyt on the OP instead of talking about the topic. This is why this site is dead.

Topic is dumb as hell breh.. You can't and will not get any woman you want in the world..

 

[Wildhundreds]

Brehs better be careful of the friends you keep.. A lot of snake mfers lurking to destroy your satisfaction of the choices you've made..

 

[semicko82]

Some step dads I’ve met you could tell was the back up plan for the mom
With that being said if the man is getting a family and sense of purpose who am I to judge?

 

[Voice of Reason]

So black kids should remain fatherless if their biological dad isn't in the picture?
Or they should be stuck with a dad that is barely doing his part?

We need more mentoring and community programs. But childless men should make their own nuclear families with childless women.


Or the kids dad need to make it work with the mother.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

What could a stepfather gets that a biological father couldn’t.... you’re not going to get an answer for this “sea lion” question. You don’t want an answer. Your mind is already made up. So you’re coming from this angle so you can feel like you won the debate.

“Sealioning (also spelled sea-lioning and sea lioning) is a type of trolling or harassment that consists of pursuing people with persistent requests for evidence or repeated questions, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity. It may take the form of "incessant, bad-faith invitations to engage in debate".

The troll feigns ignorance and politeness, so that if the target is provoked into making an angry response, the troll can then act as the aggrieved party”

My point exactly. There is not an answer because it does not make sense when you stop the babble. There is no benefit to being a stepfather for the man. The mother benefits greatly, the child(ren) benefits, but the stepfather does not have one single benefit for himself at all. At least not any exclusive to stepfathers. And when asked to explain one, you will get reasons as to why the child or mother benefits. What people like you do is dangerous. You tell people that something is great and fun, but cannot explain why it is so. That is called False Advertisement.


"False Advertising misleads the consumer or includes false statements. The legal definition of false advertising from the federal Lanham Act is, "Any advertising or promotion that misrepresents the nature, characteristics, qualities or geographic origin of goods, services or commercial activities".

 

[Commish]

OP..

Check this out...

I understand the underlying point of your thread, however..

You may want to consider the following factors:

First, a man has a right to become a step father, if he so chooses. Now, is it a good choice for a man? Maybe or maybe not. It depends on the man and whatever situation his is in.

Next, being a step father may not be an ideal choice to be in for some men, but it could be beneficial for a child as opposed to said child being raised in a one parent household.

I would rather a child be raised in a household with a strong male presence and/or father figure than not. Of course there are no guarantees that a step father will be a good role model to a child or even a husband, but for those of them who are, then perhaps a child or children may have a chance to witness how a marriage is supposed to be, in addition to, possibility being taught discipline, morals, values and so forth.

Lastly, if you are adamant about not dealing with a single mother, then cool.

Just know this...

I hope you are young enough to find an attractive, cooperative, submissive, educated and inspirational childless woman. If you are, then I strongly suggest that you wife her up ASAP because the older you get, the least likely you will find one.

Once you get into your 30s and especially in your 40s and beyond, the majority of women you come across will have at least one child. Said child may be grown, but more than likely, that woman will be done having kids.

You can call a step father a simp all you want, but even simps don't want to die alone. I am sure you don't want to either.

Let people do what they do and you do the same. In an ideal world, it would be great to see people stick with tradition and have children in wedlock along with seeing long lasting marriages, but we live in a different time now.

I will tip my hat to any man who chooses to become a step parent, be a positive example to a child as well as to a wife/single mother.

Maybe that will encourage the child(ren) to get back in line of tradition and start their families the right way...

To each one's own!

 

[InGodWeTrust]

Some of yall so #GMB overload. What you think gon happen if you want kids later as you get older?

Fine women have children eventually. I'm a good lookin dude in the A and I'm lucky to only have one kid myself living here for 10 years.
You gon sabotage yourself out a good chick. Don't be like those women that have an unrealistic checklist for dudes.

You want it one way, but it's the other way.

 

[KingFreeman]

Men choose what they want to do in life and stand by it. That said, being a stepdad is not for me. 90% of step situation I've personally witnessed in my life at all socioeconomic levels, either the 'dad' is a textbook simp who got what he could get, or is being taken advantage of.

A girl I'm currently seeing was raised by a stepdad for a while before her parents got back together and the disrespect ol boy would be subject to. The mom still was in love with the real dad the whole time, who would come right up in stepdaddys house he paid for and visit his kids whenever he wanted to.

Yall stepdad brehs understand that having a kid represents a connection to a man that is not easily replicated. Every dad you will wake up with a reminder that your 'woman' pushed out another man's kids that she was in love with, and you are putting your hard earned time and resources towards another males seeds, which is something not even animals do.

Plus, dad will almost always have dibs on that cootie cat

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

We need more mentoring and community programs. But childless men should make their own nuclear families with childless women.


Or the kids dad need to make it work with the mother.

You don't live in the real world. The once childless man and woman can end up having a fatherless child.

Making it work isn't a good choice. Making it work can be detrimental to either the man, the woman, or the child.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

So you really think as a stepfather that your finances will be separate?

It can be... People do it everyday.

 

[BigTyme Records]

I can’t imagine raising someone else kid. That’s some clown shyt

 

[buzzkill]

older u get the more likely u gonna be dating women with children unless u got hella options

i try not to but it is what it is

multiple kids im good on though

 

[Eastside Get The Money]

I can’t imagine raising someone else kid. That’s some clown shyt

Clown shyt is not raising your actual seed that you brought into the world. King shyt is stepping in as a man when certified loser won’t.