A Step Dad is by far the Ultimate Simp. EDIT- or maybe not...

[Pazzy]

A lot of yall on this board are just miserable. I never seen so many people, especially men complain about something day in and day out

This. My issue is these dudes will be miserable and all this toxic shyt and lie saying thats not them and claim that its other people. Grown ass adults who never own up to their bullshyt. Losers always look for other people to say they are better than because by themselves, they arent shyt.

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Damn I ain't know how many step dad's were here


My bad y'all, I'll let y'all cook

Goes so show you how much simpish mentality is embedded in the community. You get roasted for not wanting to take care of another man's nut.

 

[Mastamimd]

Goes so show you how much simpish mentality is embedded in the community. You get roasted for not wanting to take care of another man's nut.

No one necessarily is pressuring you to be a stepfather, I think the premise of everyone's posts is that we shouldn't shame those that are stepfathers.

 

[Umoja]

funny u said that

Years ago the baby mamas I dealt with used to spend the child support they got on me.. buying me clothes and shoes in order to keep me around.. I eventually bounced on them off the fact they was trying to rush for marriage instead of just letting things work out

Dead beat shyt.

 

[Voice of Reason]

Those people are fukking losers. It's commendable to step in and be a parent to a child who isn't yours and frankly we should be cheering that. I have no idea why dudes look down on these people. We really have to get this mentality and the losers that perptuate it out of our community.

Yeah it's commendable but from the prospective of a man it's a hell of a sacrifice.



Something that should be avoided if possible.

 

[Voice of Reason]

How is raising another man kid NOT alpha
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money . I don't see it as simp'ish

The spin

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Childish take.

1) I’m 31 with no kids or step kids. But if you’ve never mentored a child you won’t know the feeling. I still get texts and letters from my young boys I mentored in the C.A.R.E.S. Group I was in. Felt like it was more of a benefit to me than them.

2) A lot of these boys don’t have their bio fathers. If you provide a home for them, food for them, take care of their mother, teach them how to ride a bike, make sure their homework is done, and generally be a father figure for them and give them game you are 100% a father. Even if technically not their biologically father.

I hate y’all little kid threads and posts. I really do

1. Mentoring is different from fatherhood

2. You are at most a father FIGURE. Not a real father. You cannot discipline and install your own imprint on that child. Especially if the biological father is around.

So there still has not been a benefit exclusive to stepfathers listed

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

Benefit of a man being a step dad? Lot of these females are on assistance. He can make all his money and keep it. Him, her & the kid(s) can live a life of luxury on the tax payers dime.

So you really think as a stepfather that your finances will be separate?

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

The reward of seeing your child succeed.




Dumb ass

How is that exclusive to stepfathers? You can get the same feeling with your biological children..... Dumbass

 

[invincible1914]

How is that exclusive to stepfathers? You can get the same feeling with your biological children..... Dumbass

I don’t get your point. Children aren’t like puppies where you can just swap them out. If you’ve invested in that child’s wellbeing rather it is yours biologically or not, it’s rewarding. Their success is your success. Well not you cause the concept of being a father is something you don’t understand, even though you think you do.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

I don’t get your point. Children aren’t like puppies where you can just swap them out. If you’ve invested in that child’s wellbeing rather it is yours biologically or not, it’s rewarding. Their success is your success. Well not you cause the concept of being a father is something you don’t understand, even though you think you do.

My point is trying to find out what are the exclusive stepfatherhood benefits a man receives. You are talking about a benefit that a biological father can receive as well.

What is a benefit a man gets being a stepfather that a biological father cannot not get?
It's a simple question that does not have an answer.

 

[HARLEM AL]

How is raising another man kid NOT alpha
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money . I don't see it as simp'ish

Fairy tales

 

[semicko82]

The only thing yall dont find simpish is sleeping with a sea of random whores

Pretty much

 

[Voice of Reason]

Alot of in here



From the perspective of the man most times he's selling himself short if he's childless and gets involved with a woman with a child

 

[invincible1914]

My point is trying to find out what are the exclusive stepfatherhood benefits a man receives. You are talking about a benefit that a biological father can receive as well.

What is a benefit a man gets being a stepfather that a biological father cannot not get?
It's a simple question that does not have an answer.

What could a stepfather gets that a biological father couldn’t.... you’re not going to get an answer for this “sea lion” question. You don’t want an answer. Your mind is already made up. So you’re coming from this angle so you can feel like you won the debate.

“Sealioning (also spelled sea-lioning and sea lioning) is a type of trolling or harassment that consists of pursuing people with persistent requests for evidence or repeated questions, while maintaining a pretense of civility and sincerity. It may take the form of "incessant, bad-faith invitations to engage in debate".

The troll feigns ignorance and politeness, so that if the target is provoked into making an angry response, the troll can then act as the aggrieved party”