Somewhere on earth there is a stepdad who is happier in his life than you.
Childish take.
1) I’m 31 with no kids or step kids. But if you’ve never mentored a child you won’t know the feeling. I still get texts and letters from my young boys I mentored in the C.A.R.E.S. Group I was in. Felt like it was more of a benefit to me than them.
2) A lot of these boys don’t have their bio fathers. If you provide a home for them, food for them, take care of their mother, teach them how to ride a bike, make sure their homework is done, and generally be a father figure for them and give them game you are 100% a father. Even if technically not their biologically father.
I hate y’all little kid threads and posts. I really do
Still ducking me in the other thread like a coward
How is raising another man kid NOT alpha
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money . I don't see it as simp'ish
The reward of seeing your child succeed.I ask about the benefit for the MAN and the 1st response is what the child gained....of course.
How is raising another man kid NOT alpha
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money . I don't see it as simp'ish
funny u said that
Years ago the baby mamas I dealt with used to spend the child support they got on me.. buying me clothes and shoes in order to keep me around.. I eventually bounced on them off the fact they was trying to rush for marriage instead of just letting things work out