A Step Dad is by far the Ultimate Simp. EDIT- or maybe not...

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Somewhere on earth there is a stepdad who is happier in his life than you.

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n I’m a stepdad been in her life since she was 8months..
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I personally wouldn’t do it, but not for the same reasons as OP. It’s for the same reason why I don’t have children with multiple women either.

I just can’t live being a free man not being under the same roof as my children. Second, what little time, energy or inheritance I can give them, they shouldn’t have to share with anyone. Step brothers and sisters and what not. No time for that type of drama.
 

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Childish take.

1) I’m 31 with no kids or step kids. But if you’ve never mentored a child you won’t know the feeling. I still get texts and letters from my young boys I mentored in the C.A.R.E.S. Group I was in. Felt like it was more of a benefit to me than them.

2) A lot of these boys don’t have their bio fathers. If you provide a home for them, food for them, take care of their mother, teach them how to ride a bike, make sure their homework is done, and generally be a father figure for them and give them game you are 100% a father. Even if technically not their biologically father.

I hate y’all little kid threads and posts. I really do

I did mentoring for 2 years in Compton for kids and I was proud that at least 2 of the kids finished high school and went out of state for college

a lot of others didn’t want no advice and they out in the streets or in jail

The key thing if dating a mother with a child, u make sure that kid respects authority and on the right track.. u don’t want to fool around with a woman who son or daughter are in the streets and don’t value education… that tells u she’s a shytty mother and u should avoid her..

the girl I’m dating sister a single mom 46 and has a son 15 , is a shytty mom… she will dropped her son off over to his cousin house, while she go chilling in a hotel getting her guts rearrange by some random hookup she knows and even worse she’s in a relationship with a married man
 

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How is raising another man kid NOT alpha :why:
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money :dead:. I don't see it as simp'ish
 

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How is raising another man kid NOT alpha :why:
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money :dead:. I don't see it as simp'ish

Damn I never thought of it like this :ohhh:
 

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How is raising another man kid NOT alpha :why:
You got more influence and control over how his seed develops than he does. That's why BD be so mad when other men be around their kids
Being a step dad is not for me but they smashing the BM, influencing the kid, probably spending your child support money :dead:. I don't see it as simp'ish

funny u said that

Years ago the baby mamas I dealt with used to spend the child support they got on me.. buying me clothes and shoes in order to keep me around.. I eventually bounced on them off the fact they was trying to rush for marriage instead of just letting things work out
 

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funny u said that

Years ago the baby mamas I dealt with used to spend the child support they got on me.. buying me clothes and shoes in order to keep me around.. I eventually bounced on them off the fact they was trying to rush for marriage instead of just letting things work out

This sounds so much more alpha :ohhh:

I apologize brehs, I had it wrong :wow:
 
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