A sister has figured dudes likes Chris.B out

[ChiefQueen]

Some of them genuinely hate their mothers while they simultaneously feel guilt about this. They blame their mothers for their Blackness that they subconsciously want to reject. But it’s practically unconscionable to speak against one’s own Black mother...

In some cases, the mother who stays is hated over the idealization of the father who left. There’s a conglomerate of negative feelings that they have for their mothers but cannot project them on their mothers without debilitating guilt. Thus, these feelings are projected onto any and all other Black women.

She hit the nail on the head.

 

[ChiefQueen]

Clearly you are not worthy of a response with the garbage you just typed

Nikka, you're officially done! Your trolling game is so transparent.

 

[mrken12]

She hit the nail on the head.

No she didn't. She's speaking empty rhetoric.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Not on the same level. A black woman is more likely to get hired over a black man. Black women are not frequently harassed by police or constantly depicted by the media as violent criminals. Black women receive far better treatment and the problems you mentioned for black women really are nowhere close to the same level.

And you know the people getting on black women about their looks? Other black women. Look at Gabby Douglas. Who were the people ranting about her hair? Black women. The ones who are putting relaxers and other products in their daughter's hair? The black mothers.

Black women are hired more than black men due to having more degrees, but black women with the same qualifications are turned down for white women. Let's not pretend like black women aren't being discriminated against.

Why do black women believe their looks are inferior? Because western media tells them it's inferior, end of story. Some (not all, let's be real) black women shat on Gabby not because they're a$$holes, it's due to them defending and living under western beauty standards their entire lives. I've seen black women hate on beautiful dread locks (like Lauryn Hill's) as being nappy or too black...that mental poison runs deep. Are you denying that? Because we all know black men also suffer from western standards as well. I'm just saying that for a girl/women, it must be beyond painful to deal with that shyt on the daily.

 

[↓R↑LYB]

Y'all nikkas

 

[mrken12]

Black women are hired more than black men due to having more degrees

No. It has to do with a black woman not being perceived as a threat.

Because western media tells them it's inferior, end of story. Some (not all, let's be real) black women shat on Gabby not because they're @ssholes, it's due to them defending and living under western beauty standards their entire lives. I've seen black women hate on beautiful dread locks (like Lauryn Hill's) as being nappy or too black...that mental poison runs deep. Are you denying that? Because we all know black men also suffer from western standards as well. I'm just saying that for a girl/women, it must be beyond painful to deal with that shyt on the daily.

I agree. However, black women are far more influenced by western beauty standards than we are.

 

[ChiefQueen]

youre such a troll, one day I hope you get exposed for having your black friend make a chris b sign for you cracka

No, I really believe he's Black. He's just severally mentally unstable. He needs to go see a doctor asap!

 

[Will Ross]

No. It has to do with a black woman not being perceived as a threat.



I agree. However, black women are far more influenced by western beauty standards than we are.

Black women don't feel sexy until someone white tells them they are.

 

[Gravity]

No she didn't. She's speaking empty rhetoric.

She was pretty much on point but her problem is that she calls out black men without including black women. You can't call out 1 gender without calling out the other. This is the problem that the Sotomayor cat has. A lot of the shyt that he says is completely on point but he loses all credibility because he he's not coming from a place of love. His generalizations and stereotypes of black women are made to tear black women down, not build them up. I don't even watch his videos but the I watched the one about Sheryl Underwood(by mistake actually), and that video is exactly what I'm talking about. His points about Underwood's comments being an unacceptable example of self hate were dead ass, but he then went on to use the incident to basically shyt on all black women and advise black men not to deal with them. You can't be pro black and anti black man/woman at the same time. There is no black men without the black woman and vice versa. I'm not sure why that continues to be lost on black people.

 

[Piff Perkins]

No. It has to do with a black woman not being perceived as a threat.



I agree. However, black women are far more influenced by western beauty standards than we are.

That's not true. Black women graduate from college at a higher rate than black men. Is it a surprise that they're getting better/more jobs?

Finally on beauty standards, sure I'd agree that as women, black women are certainly influenced more by western standards; the white woman is the avatar of beauty in western media, still. But black men are greatly influenced to, as it impacts how we view black women. Especially dark black women. How many popular dark black chicks are on TV in any medium? We have been conditioned to prefer straight hair, just as black women have been conditioned to want straight hair.

I'm not saying if you find white women attractive it's because you're brainwashed. I'm a straight man breh and so are you: we find beautiful women to be attractive regardless of race. But let's not pretend like we're immune to hundreds of years worth of revision and brainwashing.

 

[mrken12]

She was pretty much on point but her problem is that she calls out black men without including black women. You can't call out 1 gender without calling out the other. This is the problem that the Sotomayor cat has. A lot of the shyt that he says is completely on point but he loses all credibility because he he's not coming from a place of love. His generalizations and stereotypes of black women are made to tear black women down, not build them up. I don't even watch his videos but the I watched the one about Sheryl Underwood(by mistake actually), and that video is exactly what I'm talking about. His points about Underwood's comments being an unacceptable example of self hate were dead ass, but he then went on to use the incident to basically shyt on all black women and advise black men not to deal with them. You can't be pro black and anti black man/woman at the same time. There is no black men without the black woman and vice versa. I'm not sure why that continues to be lost on black people.

Sotomayor is a total troll. It's obvious and he's so over the top that I can't take him seriously.

 

[mrken12]

That's not true. Black women graduate from college at a higher rate than black men. Is it a surprise that they're getting better/more jobs?

That goes for other races as well. However, there are more black men with high salaries than black women. And there are more black men with higher level degrees.

Edit: Here's a link pointing that out.

http://racerelations.about.com/od/diversitymatters/a/Four-Myths-About-Black-Marriage.htm

 

[kermit da hustla]

Black women love robin thicke and Jt and not one of them are even with a black woman . But they call us out got Kim k a woman that is with a full black man.

paula patton is black.

 

[Dafunkdoc_Unlimited]

I don't care. More 'Black' women for me.............

 

[Spoonz]

I don't care. More 'Black' women for me.............

that woman is black, why the quotes?