Well I’m going to give you the honest answer, so buckle up because it’s going to be a very uncomfortable ride.
Tl:dr: black men collectively have failed black women.
The reality is, from the moment we were dragged here, all we have faced is trauma but the black woman in my opinion has had it the worst.
Our ancestors watched black women get raped, mutilated, used as concubines, a wet nurse, as breeder by the white man. That trauma gets passed down. All they associate with us is struggle and failure. Yes we did fight back, but it doesn’t negate all that has happened.
Don’t believe all that black love performative shyt you see. Yes we are fighting white supremacy but what have we built to protect our women? They have to go to work to get paid by a white man, they look up to a white Jesus, they have to call their oppressors if they’re in trouble, with so many black men abandoning them to raise children by themselves…. Psychologically, how do you think that affects them?
Add to that they can’t even feel safe around black men because there are too many fukk nikkas on some bullshyt where the fear of being raped, murdered, attacked is very real.
Can you blame them for resenting us when the things they associate most with us is fear, struggle and failure? I haven’t even got into the whole interracial aspect because that would take too many paragraphs. Just remember, a lot of the women on here aren’t even married to/dating black men. I’ll leave it at that.
