A hateful mother shaves her daughter's head after the father won the custody battle

[KillerB88]

Eve was a black woman.

 

[ShackZilla89]

Well I’m going to give you the honest answer, so buckle up because it’s going to be a very uncomfortable ride.

Tl:dr: black men collectively have failed black women.

The reality is, from the moment we were dragged here, all we have faced is trauma but the black woman in my opinion has had it the worst.

Our ancestors watched black women get raped, mutilated, used as concubines, a wet nurse, as breeder by the white man. That trauma gets passed down. All they associate with us is struggle and failure. Yes we did fight back, but it doesn’t negate all that has happened.

Don’t believe all that black love performative shyt you see. Yes we are fighting white supremacy but what have we built to protect our women? They have to go to work to get paid by a white man, they look up to a white Jesus, they have to call their oppressors if they’re in trouble, with so many black men abandoning them to raise children by themselves…. Psychologically, how do you think that affects them?

Add to that they can’t even feel safe around black men because there are too many fukk nikkas on some bullshyt where the fear of being raped, murdered, attacked is very real.

Can you blame them for resenting us when the things they associate most with us is fear, struggle and failure? I haven’t even got into the whole interracial aspect because that would take too many paragraphs. Just remember, a lot of the women on here aren’t even married to/dating black men. I’ll leave it at that.

I refuse to accept blame for some bs I never contributed to. I'm my own man, accountable for my own actions, if a black woman is being hateful to me, when I did nothing to her, then it's fvck that person for life. I don't give a damn about these excuses you simps come up with. I didn't ask to be born into this and it's not my responsibility to sacrifice myself to attempt to fix broken people...they better find God or something.

And let's not disregard that our brightest are considered "lame" by our so called women unless they're outwardly showing monetary success, but by then it's too late. And please don't forget how black women statistically have more children than black men, yet outnumber us. Which means they're sharing the same type of men.

And y'all disregard the fact that historically speaking, black men "built" multiple times in this country, yet the efforts are always destroyed or sabotaged, even by other black people. And let's not forget the fact that black women have shown they will legit align themselves with the power structure against us. So I'm legit cool on making excuses for hateful people who will only be satisfied when you're black ass is worm food. It's a situation of damned if you do, damned if you don't, but peeped game a while ago and refuse to play.

 

[HTXBreh]

why though? i had to get a short cut at least twice due to lice. need more info before i fake outrage.

cuts arent the end of the world. my hair is down to my butt ever since tbh lol

#healthoverlength

I thought blacks couldn't get lice

 

[ThrobbingHood]

What makes you assume this happened to such an extent?

I’m not negating the number white supremacy has done to us over centuries, mentally and physically.

That being said, the majority of us can’t keep on using that as crutch. We all have the option to use our autonomy making better decisions and that starts with us men. By 1: not abandoning our women. 2: not knocking up ratchets. 3. Raising these children.

Yes, I know many of us already practice all 3 of those but there’s a sizeable amount who leave this trail of irresponsible destruction, where sociopathic boys become ruthless violent men and harlots without shame run the community.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

this is coming from a place of learning and not combating, as I agree with your initial post.

what do you say to those Black Leaders who have been ostracized, ignored, and ridiculed for providing direction and guidance? you work outside the system, you risk the chance of assassination (most brehs with African kings and Black revolutionaries as their avis on this site not even willing to intervere with a public domestic disrupt, nonetheless a movement to establish a foundation for the community)

you work inside the system and you’re just another pawn of the white man who is it in for your own self-interest (Ice Cube on Fox Soul)

Combine this with the ratchet wild behavior you stated in one of your posts with weak BM enabling said behavior — shunning you out as an incel or “beneficiary of the Patriarchy” — and you’re left with the leaders in this community fighting an uphill battle.

You can state “BM have failed BW” but what exactly is your answer to the present leaders? Focus on themselves/families then their respective communities? Begin with enforcing standards among BM before we even start to finger point at BW?

I’m not going to pretend as if I have all the answers. It’s too intricate to give a one size fits all solution. But like you said in your last paragraph, it has to start at home and then Build from there.

Whether that’s family, networking, building businesses… we have to realize that being interdependent on each other is the only way. Because lord knows WHEN repatriations does happen, the biggest tragedy would be seeing that money going straight back into CACs hands because we don’t have our economic infrastructure.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

I refuse to accept blame for some bs I never contributed to. I'm my own man, accountable for my own actions, if a black woman is being hateful to me, when I did nothing to her, then it's fvck that person for life. I don't give a damn about these excuses you simps come up with. I didn't ask to be born into this and it's not my responsibility to sacrifice myself to attempt to fix broken people...they better find God or something.

And let's not disregard that our brightest are considered "lame" by our so called women unless they're outwardly showing monetary success, but by then it's too late. And please don't forget how black women statistically have more children than black men, yet outnumber us. Which means they're sharing the same type of men.

And y'all disregard the fact that historically speaking, black men "built" multiple times in this country, yet the efforts are always destroyed or sabotaged, even by other black people. And let's not forget the fact that black women have shown they will legit align themselves with the power structure against us. So I'm legit cool on making excuses for hateful people who will only be satisfied when you're black ass is worm food. It's a situation of damned if you do, damned if you don't, but peeped game a while ago and refuse to play.

The operative word in my post is “collectively”. Did I say it’s every black man? Did I not clearly stay I’m not ignoring the impact of white supremacy?

Let me break this down into basketball terms:

We’re all apart of the oldest franchise in the business. We all got our jerseys assigned from birth and play on the same team. And it has been through the worst kind mismanagement, changes and embezzlement. We have all the talent to be the Bulls of the 90s but the lack of good management, GMs etc wastes the potential every year.

Now you may be the MVP, the franchise player who puts up 60 points a game, but the rest of the team are bums and therefor the team continues to lose. The management doesn’t have the team’s best interest at heart. He doesn’t care if we make the playoffs, because people still come to watch. Meanwhile, all the other teams are exceeding us at an alarming rate.

Yes, the organization is corrupt, they rig the referees against us, call a foul on almost every move we make and we’re always close to be ejected in the 1st quarter because of this. And yet, we still manage to overcome those obstacles and see out the game.

The fans (women) are still there by and large but they’re growing impatient and start booing and heckling. They’re now dipping off and putting on other team’s Colors. And why wouldn’t they? They want winners, not to be apart of a crumbling infrastructure, where the security is so bad anyone can walk in and out because there’s no gate keepers.

So yes, you can say it’s not you and do your own thing. Hell, even ask for a trade. The fact is, no matter how many Numbers you put up, this team will lose unless you build up the players around you.

If you want to leave and play for another team then do so, it they’ll never accept you, and you will always been seen as an outcast. Having to worry about the abuse and your safety playing in a different state that’s not negro friendly.

 

[Ill-Yaz]

Just give me 30 mins with her and my tire iron. Just 30 mins. That's all I require.

 

[The Exchanges]

that's sociopathic behavior to do that to your own child out of spite.

 

[Oatmeal]

Eve was a black woman.

That's a bad example

 

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

Why is #CharlestonWhite on the vid?

You know what - I don’t wanna know

TikTok automatically put those hashtags there when you post due to the top searched hashtags on the platform.

 

[MasterOfAllHeSurveyz]

What makes you assume this happened to such an extent?

It's bullshyt. There are thousands of slave narratives, with about a quarter recorded for or written by formerly enslaved women, that supplemented W.E.B. DeBois's The Philadelphia Negro and E. Franklin Frazier's The Negro Family In The United States that debunks all that shyt.

 

[DallasTxRep]

Stop fukking posting TikTok videos no one on their phone can see that shyt

I can

 

[Diyhai]

two sides to every story
can't trust a dude who puts this type stuff on the internet

 

[richaveli83]

Most women dont want their children in 2022. Perfect time to make your move if you are a black man. For a cool 10-12K + a monthly 200$ until the child turns 18. Your childs mother will gladly sign her parental rights away to you#BuyYourChildBack

 

[Taadow]

Most women dont want their children in 2022. Perfect time to make your move if you are a black man. For a cool 10-12K + a monthly 200$ until the child turns 18. Your childs mother will gladly sign her parental rights away to you#BuyYourChildBack

I laughed - but you might be right