Shameonyou
All Star
we should break this into 10 day intervals....so it feels easier to accomplish
90 Days: NO Porn or Fap Challenge
- Thread starter Steve Piffler
- Start date
This seems like it'd help. Everytime I think about going 90 days a part of me is like "
no more Kitten or Gianna or Jazmine Cashmere breh? Why would you do this to me?"I saw someone on here say that being able to delay pleasure is essential to becoming an adult, this I think is the lesson we learn in all of this.
Ski Mask
Friendzone: Collection 1
Day 1
malbaker86
Gators
Day 82 for me. My wife already like "when we going to be able to fap together again "
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Day 41
raidersreceiver
All Star
Day 3
The Midnight Marauder
All Star
Day 90!!!
I'm gonna go for Day 180 tho.
I'm gonna go for Day 180 tho.
Day 1. Gonna delete all my porn sometime this week
Sunalmighty
Superstar
That's what it is for me. On two different occasions last year I had a chick butt ass in my bed, and didn't even feel like doing shyt with her. It's not just that I couldn't get it up, I wasn't turned on at all. Meanwhile, if I loaded up some pornos I was good to go. It was the weirdest shyt.
I did some research and found out that internet porn is desensitizing dudes from regular chicks. Mainly because with internet porn you can go from one scene or chick to the next in seconds (You could never do that before the internet). It causes a sensory overload and makes your brain release abnormally high dopamine levels. Once your brain gets used to those levels, it has to reach them every time you're trying to fukk. It's virtually impossible to reach those levels with just a female in front of you, regardless of how dope she is. So you basically have to retrain your brain by not looking at porn for an extended period of time. It's actually similar to heroin addiction.
My 90th day is tomorrow, and while I've seen big improvements, I'd say I still got a couple months AT LEAST til I'm back to normally. I was talking regularly to this bad chick recently and pretty much had to dead the situation because I knew there was no way I'd be able to fukk her. Viagra and Cialis don't even help because they help with bloodflow to the dikk. This aint a bloodflow problem, it's a brain problem. I realized I had to pretty much stop watching porn or deal with this shyt for the rest of my life.
That is one of the most POWERFUL posts I have ever read on this site, SOHH, or any other site. This was me, I fell yesterday, but I know I'm gonna be free and clear over the hump, imagine your brain SO screwed because you know you aren't going to be able to get busy with a chick. Imagine the anxiety, the stress and pressure, etc. I've been through that.
the GOD for that post.
Sunalmighty
Superstar
How many times did you break your abstaining before you reached your mark? What improvements have you seen after three months?That's what it is for me. On two different occasions last year I had a chick butt ass in my bed, and didn't even feel like doing shyt with her. It's not just that I couldn't get it up, I wasn't turned on at all. Meanwhile, if I loaded up some pornos I was good to go. It was the weirdest shyt.
I did some research and found out that internet porn is desensitizing dudes from regular chicks. Mainly because with internet porn you can go from one scene or chick to the next in seconds (You could never do that before the internet). It causes a sensory overload and makes your brain release abnormally high dopamine levels. Once your brain gets used to those levels, it has to reach them every time you're trying to fukk. It's virtually impossible to reach those levels with just a female in front of you, regardless of how dope she is. So you basically have to retrain your brain by not looking at porn for an extended period of time. It's actually similar to heroin addiction.
My 90th day is tomorrow, and while I've seen big improvements, I'd say I still got a couple months AT LEAST til I'm back to normally. I was talking regularly to this bad chick recently and pretty much had to dead the situation because I knew there was no way I'd be able to fukk her. Viagra and Cialis don't even help because they help with bloodflow to the dikk. This aint a bloodflow problem, it's a brain problem. I realized I had to pretty much stop watching porn or deal with this shyt for the rest of my life.
malbaker86
Gators
the 40-60 day is the hardest part bruh. Be prepared. Twice a week during that time period I felt like cracking
Theabbot
#DemBootymeats
Mannnn... It's been two months since I've watched porn. I'm starting to get curious about what kinda scenes have been dropping. A lot can go down in two months....
I'm not gonna fall tho! NOT GONNA DO IT.
I'm not gonna fall tho! NOT GONNA DO IT.
Sickology101
Rookie
The Midnight Marauder
All Star
It took me a while to realize that porn was the reason for my problems. I would think it was from drinking too much caffeine, or some workout supplements I was taking. Once I discovered that it was the pornos, I stopped watching them cold turkey, and haven't gone back. One of the hardest things starting off, was getting the flashbacks of porn scenes out of my head. That took close to a month. It was also hard the first 6 weeks, because I wasn't ever horny AT ALL. But as I read, that is a normal part of the process. Now, at day 91, I SOMEWHAT get morning wood again, and I can see a bad chick just walking around and kinda get hard, but I still have a good way to go. Bad thing for me is, I won't know if I'm fully cured until I fukk another chick. And with my situation being what it is, I'm scared as hell to even attempt to fukk a chick given the fact I might not be able to get it up. It's a struggle brehs. That's why I really wanna wait until I'm at the six month mark before I start chasing ass again. I'm NEVER watching porn again. I know that for sure.