I need help
I need help
lol at me busting in under 45 seconds. i'm like
I had to hit the eject button on my side peice today. Old lady was sniffing the sitch out.
55 days into rehab. Pray for me brehs...
day 1 smh
I fell today man, porn and two nuts. I was on the grind since April 15th, Starting over. You know what though, no condemnation though, the more we keep at it, the longer we go. We will be over the hump eventually. We are going head to head with something we have been used to doing for.years. its going to be a war. We will go for a month here, two weeks there, eventually we will be free. Not easy, but niccas deserving certificates for this Shyt lol
I just stumbled upon this, someone enlighten me.
What's the purpose of the No Porn or FAP challenge. Is it cause regular bytches don't do it for you anymore because porn has desensitized you? Genuinely curious
That's what it is for me. On two different occasions last year I had a chick butt ass in my bed, and didn't even feel like doing shyt with her. It's not just that I couldn't get it up, I wasn't turned on at all. Meanwhile, if I loaded up some pornos I was good to go. It was the weirdest shyt.
I did some research and found out that internet porn is desensitizing dudes from regular chicks. Mainly because with internet porn you can go from one scene or chick to the next in seconds (You could never do that before the internet). It causes a sensory overload and makes your brain release abnormally high dopamine levels. Once your brain gets used to those levels, it has to reach them every time you're trying to fukk. It's virtually impossible to reach those levels with just a female in front of you, regardless of how dope she is. So you basically have to retrain your brain by not looking at porn for an extended period of time. It's actually similar to heroin addiction.
My 90th day is tomorrow, and while I've seen big improvements, I'd say I still got a couple months AT LEAST til I'm back to normally. I was talking regularly to this bad chick recently and pretty much had to dead the situation because I knew there was no way I'd be able to fukk her. Viagra and Cialis don't even help because they help with bloodflow to the dikk. This aint a bloodflow problem, it's a brain problem. I realized I had to pretty much stop watching porn or deal with this shyt for the rest of my life.
That's what it is for me. On two different occasions last year I had a chick butt ass in my bed, and didn't even feel like doing shyt with her. It's not just that I couldn't get it up, I wasn't turned on at all. Meanwhile, if I loaded up some pornos I was good to go. It was the weirdest shyt.
I did some research and found out that internet porn is desensitizing dudes from regular chicks. Mainly because with internet porn you can go from one scene or chick to the next in seconds (You could never do that before the internet). It causes a sensory overload and makes your brain release abnormally high dopamine levels. Once your brain gets used to those levels, it has to reach them every time you're trying to fukk. It's virtually impossible to reach those levels with just a female in front of you, regardless of how dope she is. So you basically have to retrain your brain by not looking at porn for an extended period of time. It's actually similar to heroin addiction.
My 90th day is tomorrow, and while I've seen big improvements, I'd say I still got a couple months AT LEAST til I'm back to normally. I was talking regularly to this bad chick recently and pretty much had to dead the situation because I knew there was no way I'd be able to fukk her. Viagra and Cialis don't even help because they help with bloodflow to the dikk. This aint a bloodflow problem, it's a brain problem. I realized I had to pretty much stop watching porn or deal with this shyt for the rest of my life.