How about you just go out and find a good partner. And if that partner isn't growing at the same pace as you, or vice versa, you have a talk about it, get on the same page, or move on. fukk blame. Just accept life and keep it moving. Too much bullshyt excuses for people being POS.
80’s Black women are responsible for the destruction of the black community due to then men they chose- Wallo
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IsThatBrothaMouzone?
Superstar
Chicken or egg question.
The sistas that dated Alpo and em....what kind of fathers did they have at home? Maybe they didn't know how to pick right.
Every generation has young women that chase bad boys. Those women are for the streets.
In Jay-Z’s book he wrote about how he and his friends selling drugs used to look down on guys their age who worked at McDonald’s and would wear the uniform going to and coming from work. He said he regrets making fun of them because of how much courage it took to work those jobs while getting clowned despite just trying to improve their circumstances.
Some of y’all don’t realize the hood and the dysfunctional mindsets that derives from it that some of y’all defend to the death (eg clowning service industry jobs, wasting money on clothes, knocking up multiple women out-of-wedlock) are by design to keep Black people a permanent underclass.
We know even if brehs deny it...
africngiant
All Star
ohh man when i tell u how them tables turn
those same nikkas always try to one-up me in my life pursuits now and those bytches hate seeing me come back around
the ones who all thought they were so much better than me when i was broke with innocence
Marco Zen
Black Privilege
It's complete nonsense.
I never not once said "I need to be like such and such to get hoes"
This nikka wildin
I never not once said "I need to be like such and such to get hoes"
This nikka wildin
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
Can someone tell me what a grown man is?
I feel like a grown man shouldn't be pointing fingers. A grown man shouldn’t lack some accountability. A grown man should lead by example.
Them dudes in the op don't show any of that.
I feel like a grown man shouldn't be pointing fingers. A grown man shouldn’t lack some accountability. A grown man should lead by example.
Them dudes in the op don't show any of that.
This is a serious thread, but it reminds me of that Chappelle skit where they were shytting on Calvin. 
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
He's right,
But do the drug dealers not taking any blame for the negativity they spread
africngiant
All Star
This is a serious thread, but it reminds me of that Chappelle skit where they were shytting on Calvin.
i’m fukkjn crying
A man can justify whatever it is he's doing out here as long as he's getting p*ssy from it. It's just like athletes nowadays that dress like fakkits, it's not stopping them from getting p*ssy right?
If the women in question here were to up their standards, the men in question would probably do the same. Aint nobody drug dealing and scamming if they can't trick on bad hoes with the $.
Ezekiel 25:17
Veteran
So if black women weren't giving p*ssy to drug dealers, they wouldn't have sold a product that destroys families and communities for p*ssy?
I didn't know p*ssy could control a man's life and impact his decision making enough on selling a destructive product that kills people
And what about the black men that didn't sell drugs, but still had a black wife and kids?
CreepyMcCreeperson
Veteran
Black men in Detroit were working in those auto pants too. But once Japan snapped back from WW2, the US auto industry took a hit. The white men were able to migrate to other areas, the black men weren’t.
I think it depends on what kind of black woman. If you want a hood girl, yeah, she’s going for Future. If you want a suburban, or educated woman, and those are the most wifable, she’s smashing Future, but wants to marry Grant.
They eventually would've got over it. Or drug dealers would've became more conscious of moving their money, starting legit businesses/getting decent jobs and appearing like regular citizens. Drug dealing/scamming culture is more than just the actual act of doing those things for money....it's an image, a "look", a lifestyle for many black men and that's what gets them caught up.
For example I know plenty of non-black men who grow/trap pounds of weed on the side but have tech jobs or local businesses. They don't parade around like kingpins because their community would mostly look down on it. So they trap but make sure they move and appear to society like regular guys. I've literally been inside a trap distro in LA and seen an Indian dude with a google polo on walk in after work with a big trash bag of weed he grew in his garage. He was there to sell to the distributor. He's trapping but he's not outside looking and acting like a pack boy because his women wouldn't like it. A lot of non-black women grow out of the bad boy phase by mid-20s. You got 35+ year old black women still fetishizing trappers, or pretending they didn't know their new man was a scammer even though he's on IG posing in front of maybachs. Black men get trapped into portraying themselves a certain way because they know it'll attract women, simple as that.
Go outside then. Y'all say naive shyt on here that only sounds good on the internet.
They found a woman who wasn't into all that
No one said ALL black women are like this, and make no mistake a black man who has his shyt right, is confident, know how to dress, etc, will be able to pull most black women just fine. .But what's being discussed in this thread IS something that goes on in our community, it's something that's amplified through pop culture and it's something some black folks like to act oblivious about.