80’s Black women are responsible for the destruction of the black community due to then men they chose- Wallo

[mag357]

Yeah a lot of the corporate and square black men like non-black women, but a big part of that is because that's who they get more play from between the ages of 17-35 lol. The issue isn't so much BW in that age range chasing thugs as much as ignoring the corporate and square BM who they desperately look for after 35. That's the irony.

Nah... I don't believe it wasn't about getting play.
Them nikkaz just didn't like black women.
U saw them type dudes growing up.
They was never gonna be with a sista.
It's like saying nikkaz turned gay cause women didn't holla at them.
Nope, we seen them lil nikkaz. They was always gonna be gay lol

But in regards to the young square dudes not wanting black women...
It probably was a good thing, because they didn't get caught up in the things in life that would attract most young black women.
Those things are usually detrimental

And they did things that would attract non blacks.
Computers, anime, studying, getting legit money etc.

Men subconsciously do things that will attract the type of women then want

 

[lib123]

Nah... I don't believe it wasn't about getting play.
Them nikkaz just didn't like black women.
U saw them type dudes growing up.
They was never gonna be with a sista.
It's like saying nikkaz turned gay cause women didn't holla at them.
Nope, we seen them lil nikkaz. They was always gonna be gay lol

But in regards to the young square dudes not wanting black women...
It probably was a good thing, because they didn't get caught up in the things in life that would attract most young black women.
Those things are usually detrimental

And they did things that would attract non blacks.
Computers, anime, studying, getting legit money etc.

Men subconsciously do things that will attract the type of women then want

Yeah there is a subset of those dudes who don't like BW. But if the fine young BW who chase the Chris Brown (looks and personality, remove the status) types chose up on the Grant Hill types at a young age, we would be seeing way more BW currently married. We actually see this IRL with African women. They pursue the Grant Hill types in large numbers at a young age and most of them are married.

 

[Shadow King]

Nah... I don't believe it wasn't about getting play.
Them nikkaz just didn't like black women.
U saw them type dudes growing up.
They was never gonna be with a sista.
It's like saying nikkaz turned gay cause women didn't holla at them.
Nope, we seen them lil nikkaz. They was always gonna be gay lol

But in regards to the young square dudes not wanting black women...
It probably was a good thing, because they didn't get caught up in the things in life that would attract most young black women.
Those things are usually detrimental

And they did things that would attract non blacks.
Computers, anime, studying, getting legit money etc.

Men subconsciously do things that will attract the type of women then want

You killing your own argument...

 

[mag357]

You killing your own argument...

Explain please

 

[mag357]

Yeah there is a subset of those dudes who don't like BW. But if the fine young BW who chase the Chris Brown (looks and personality, remove the status) types chose up on the Grant Hill types at a young age, we would be seeing way more BW currently married. We actually see this IRL with African women. They pursue the Grant Hill types in large numbers at a young age and most of them are married.

That's a fact...but water seeks its own level.

And people should be happy about that.
Good successful dudes would get fcked up dealing with the bytches who would want them other type dudes.

I always tell people, while ur praying for things that u want.
U should be busy thanking whatever is in control, for not giving u the things u wanted.

nikkaz be saying why they always go for thugs. That's what they like. Let them have it.
Ur better off

 

[Shadow King]

Explain please

Bro you don't get too crazy/disrespectful on here but to be frank I shouldn't have to explain that lol.

If you acknowledge that the things that attract young black girls are detrimental, then you can't point the finger at teenage black boys talking bout "simply didn't black women". Boys and men don't care what color a woman is. We care about what works.

On a macro level young women set the rules of engagement and young men do what works with slight personal variables.

 

[Sbp]

 

[mag357]

Bro you don't get too crazy/disrespectful on here but to be frank I shouldn't have to explain that lol.

If you acknowledge that the things that attract young black girls are detrimental, then you can't point the finger at teenage black boys talking bout "simply didn't black women". Boys and men don't care what color a woman is. We care about what works.

On a macro level young women set the rules of engagement and young men do what works with slight personal variables.

Yea. It's all good. I just like the conversations and sometimes I wanna make sure I understand properly before I respond.

The bolded I don't get now. "Point the finger"?
I wasn't pointing a finger.
Just stating what's true. Alot of black men dont like black women.

You said boys and men don't care about color, they care about what works?
Sir, with all day respect...that's B*llsht lol
Men/boys damn sure do care about everything pertaining to looks. Height, weight, t*ts, ass, complexion/skin color etc.
Those preferences start early. They may change or get set in stone over time, but we definitely have those preferences early on.
Men care about what they are attracted to, what works is some BS that u look for when they can't get what the want.

I'd actually will go as far as to say because we grow up in this European society, with their standard of beauty being pushed to the top, young black boys look at white women and exotic women as the highest standard of beauty. And black girls are just something they have easier access to.

This is why if they become good at sports and plucked from the community, they try to wife up craccaz, lighter skinned blacks and exoticals.

But back to my original point.
It is better that these boys chose to be attracted to non blacks and got involved in things that attract non black girls.
Because we see the type of sht nikkaz get into trying to be the man for black girls.

We talk about it all the time

 

[Blessings]

subs

 

[Shadow King]

Yea. It's all good. I just like the conversations and sometimes I wanna make sure I understand properly before I respond.

The bolded I don't get now. "Point the finger"?
I wasn't pointing a finger.
Just stating what's true. Alot of black men dont like black women.

You said boys and men don't care about color, they care about what works?
Sir, with all day respect...that's B*llsht lol
Men/boys damn sure do care about everything pertaining to looks. Height, weight, t*ts, ass, complexion/skin color etc.
Those preferences start early. They may change or get set in stone over time, but we definitely have those preferences early on.
Men care about what they are attracted to, what works is some BS that u look for when they can't get what the want.

I'd actually will go as far as to say because we grow up in this European society, with their standard of beauty being pushed to the top, young black boys look at white women and exotic women as the highest standard of beauty. And black girls are just something they have easier access to.

This is why if they become good at sports and plucked from the community, they try to wife up craccaz, lighter skinned blacks and exoticals.

But back to my original point.
It is better that these boys chose to be attracted to non blacks and got involved in things that attract non black girls.
Because we see the type of sht nikkaz get into trying to be the man for black girls.

We talk about it all the time

Again, killing your own argument lol.

Have to agree to disagree...heavily.

 

[DaHNIC82]

Ohhhhhh boy..

 

[DaHNIC82]

Crack and Rap has dropped the value and respecrability of hardworking fathers in the Black Community.

It's been over.

"You need a thug in ya life, them busters aint loving u right"

It started before him... He was the average coli breh. He switched up and became a sex symbol

 

[BunchePark]

Ya either living off the sins of the father or the wins of the father

What ya daddy left ya...did the nikka even bother?





I'll never forget many years ago training this one group of young adults and the one cat in the class was 19 with like 6 kids already and he was working on fukking one of the girls in the training class think they was getting paid like $14...he had no business

I was like damn jit I thought I fukked up when I started my family in my early 20s what are you doing

He didn't even have a vehicle yet

Quit mid training he only wanted that first check

All those kids gotta be like 13-14 now shyt crazy