80’s Black women are responsible for the destruction of the black community due to then men they chose- Wallo

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

Is it misogyny to say women have the power to control our community?

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

They eventually would've got over it. Or drug dealers would've became more conscious of moving their money, starting legit businesses/getting decent jobs and appearing like regular citizens. Drug dealing/scamming culture is more than just the actual act of doing those things for money....it's an image, a "look", a lifestyle for many black men and that's what gets them caught up.

For example I know plenty of non-black men who grow/trap pounds of weed on the side but have tech jobs or local businesses. They don't parade around like kingpins because their community would mostly look down on it. So they trap but make sure they move and appear to society like regular guys. I've literally been inside a trap distro in LA and seen an Indian dude with a google polo on walk in after work with a big trash bag of weed he grew in his garage. He was there to sell to the distributor. He's trapping but he's not outside looking and acting like a pack boy because his women wouldn't like it. A lot of non-black women grow out of the bad boy phase by mid-20s. You got 35+ year old black women still fetishizing trappers, or pretending they didn't know their new man was a scammer even though he's on IG posing in front of maybachs. Black men get trapped into portraying themselves a certain way because they know it'll attract women, simple as that.



Go outside then. Y'all say naive shyt on here that only sounds good on the internet.



They found a woman who wasn't into all that No one said ALL black women are like this, and make no mistake a black man who has his shyt right, is confident, know how to dress, etc, will be able to pull most black women just fine. .But what's being discussed in this thread IS something that goes on in our community, it's something that's amplified through pop culture and it's something some black folks like to act oblivious about.

So it's 100% black women's fault the way things are? There is no fault on black men?


Im not trolling at all, I'm genuinely curious because these discussions always seem to go one way

 

[spliz]

Look. I'm not gonna say that's the full reason cause the govt definitely tricked the black man out of the homes if the women needed assistance. But what he's saying isn't ENTIRELY wrong. nikkas front like alot of the shyt they do ain't to impress bytches but that's cap.

"Yea u know, it's always over dough, u sure? I coulda swore it was over a hoe, nah nah that ain't my style, nikka u stay frontin, but u still my man's, I aint gone say nothin...." -DMX.

 

[spliz]

Double post.

 

[Pure Water]

Do Asian, Hispanic, White women dictate who their men want to be? If not what about the black community made its women the voice of reason?

There's a stereotype that Asian women dictate who they want their men to be.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Black gangs and drug dealers don't even get women like that anymore. Only the upper upper echelon, e.a. BMF. Your average drug dealers don't have a whole bunch of bad bytches lined up at his door. He'll even most rappers ain't getting bytches like that, they sharing the same prostitutes.


So why are black men still going that route?

 

[Shadow King]

Men should cease being motivated by p*ssy after adolescence.

Adolescence is the stage where most if not all of what Wallo is speaking on gets picked up and ran with.

 

[10bandz]

So it's 100% black women's fault the way things are? There is no fault on black men?


Im not trolling at all, I'm genuinely curious because these discussions always seem to go one way

Imma keep it 100....it kinda is their fault that nikkas aspire to be blatant dealers/scammers. It just what it is And i think you are trolling because I broke down my case pretty detailed and your only rebuttal is that weak shyt.

Why don't you address what I'm saying though? You got a segment of black men and also mexican (cartel) men who have no issue at presenting themselves as professional trappers. And it's for a reason. You know how many bad latin chicks I know from HS/college that randomly be in Sinaloa and other mexican trenches just hanging out doing luxury shyt? shyt El Chapo's wife did a bid for him. Other races of women dont really have that subgroup that attaches themselves to street shyt for long periods of time. If they do, they grow out of it by mid 20s, which is why the men of those races dont aspire to be 30-35 promoting themselves as trap gods on IG.

shyt as an LA nikka I'll even add Armenians to this. They blatant with their trapping and their bytches follow. Armenian hoes be ready to fukk with trapper Armenian men for the long haul lol. And as a result, (young) Armenians have a low key bad reputation in LA for being scammers, etc.

But you got square Asians, Indians, Persians, Whites who do trap shyt and you'll never know. That's because they know they would never get a serious women from their culture being career trappers.

 

[10bandz]

Do Asian, Hispanic, White women dictate who their men want to be? If not what about the black community made its women the voice of reason?

Yes, they do.

 

[lib123]

I think it depends on what kind of black woman. If you want a hood girl, yeah, she’s going for Future. If you want a suburban, or educated woman, and those are the most wifable, she’s smashing Future, but wants to marry Grant.

lol the convo is about most (keyword most) BW between the ages of 17-30. Most (keyword most) are gravitating towards the hood Future as opposed to the Future with the Grant Hill personality, educated or hood. That’s a big reason why there’s an excess of highly attractive BW who are still single 30+. Many (not all, but keyword many) of the single attractive 30+ BW could’ve been wifed if they completely stopped dealing with the hood Future types at 22 and laser focused on the Grant Hill personality while ignoring the Future’s from 22-30. That’s literally what every other demographic of women (including African women) does in large numbers. That’s a big reason why they get wifed. Even women on here such as @Gloxina have said this.

 

[spliz]

Respectfully, I think some of us are being a tad bit too high minded and idealistic and unrealistic. Most men are gonna strive to be what women want. Sure you should have the confidence to stand on your own two and be you regardless. That sounds wonderful and is something to aspire to but is it realistic for most people. The majority of people in any community are followers. Children are programmed to recieve whatever info they are fed. So if BS runs rampant in a community you are gonna raise children that follow and perpetuate the BS.

That said, what women gravitate towards a reflection of society. They value social standing. So who women choose is moreso a symptom of a larger issue than the cause.

White folks love their criminals too. You think Gotti and his dudes didnt have hoes? You think Mrs. Romano and Mrs. Polinski werent waving at the gansters when they pulled up? Same qualities that make you succesful in the street make you successful in the legit world...gift of gab, determination, fearlessness, cunning, connections, psychopathology. Difference is white folks have always had plenty of legit options as well while we have been denied those same options.

Real shyt.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Imma keep it 100....it kinda is their fault that nikkas aspire to be blatant dealers/scammers. It just what it is And i think you are trolling because I broke down my case pretty detailed and your only rebuttal is that weak shyt.

Why don't you address what I'm saying though? You got a segment of black men and also mexican (cartel) men who have no issue at presenting themselves as professional trappers. And it's for a reason. You know how many bad latin chicks I know from HS/college that randomly be in Sinaloa and other mexican trenches just hanging out doing luxury shyt? shyt El Chapo's wife did a bid for him. Other races of women dont really have that subgroup that attaches themselves to street shyt for long periods of time. If they do, they grow out of it by mid 20s, which is why the men of those races dont aspire to be 30-35 promoting themselves as trap gods on IG.

shyt as an LA nikka I'll even add Armenians to this. They blatant with their trapping and their bytches follow. Armenian hoes be ready to fukk with trapper Armenian men for the long haul lol.

But you got square Asians, Indians, Persians, Whites who do trap shyt and you'll never know. That's because they know they would never get a serious women from their culture being career trappers.

I am certainty not trolling. These are genuine questions , I'm looking for a different perspective.


So the blame 100% falls on black women and white men?

Black men don't make bad life decisions purely on their own?

 

[NYC Rebel]

Women of all races gravitate to who THEIR MEN admire.

 

[spliz]

Black gangs and drug dealers don't even get women like that anymore. Only the upper upper echelon, e.a. BMF. Your average drug dealers don't have a whole bunch of bad bytches lined up at his door. He'll even most rappers ain't getting bytches like that, they sharing the same prostitutes.


So why are black men still going that route?

Scamming replaced drug dealing. And scammers who getting money def getting bytches.

 

[10bandz]

Black gangs and drug dealers don't even get women like that anymore. Only the upper upper echelon, e.a. BMF. Your average drug dealers don't have a whole bunch of bad bytches lined up at his door. He'll even most rappers ain't getting bytches like that, they sharing the same prostitutes.


So why are black men still going that route?

You're right. That's why they're scamming now. And you're not gonna tell me top scammers aren't getting bytches lol. What city are you in?