80’s Black women are responsible for the destruction of the black community due to then men they chose- Wallo

[desjardins]

This is the thread where everyone is going to pretend he isn't right

Alot of people are allergic to personal responsibility, and it effects the you and the community you live in

Yea i'm starting to hate these kind of threads now due to lack of accountability

Anyone that grew up in an urban area in the 80s/90s can relate to this. It was a byproduct of the crack era
Women gravitate towards men with money, if we being honest it doesn't even matter what a drug dealer looks like he's going have motion with women. Period.
so if the black community is susceptible to consumerism as a means of exhibiting value in poverty stricken environments then how is what he saying outlandish. It's just another layer of the same mentality. He literally became a product of his environment through observation

 

[MicIsGod]

That doesn't work?

Trying to account for my non handsome gang brehs.

 

[Scipio]

So in other words, the so called lames weren’t checking for the lame and average looking girls either? Then when they ran off and married the white men, they get called wenches.

This works both ways.

Black men can pull women in sweats and t shirts if we look good enough. A lot of y’all are ugly gang, and you don’t want to admit it. Plenty of law abiding, intellectual black men have no problem attracting attractive black women. But y’all want hood girls to turn into church girls while looking like IG models.

Yeah, the glamorization of the criminal underworld that took off in the 80s and 90s had noooothing to do with any of this...

 

[Commish]

Personally, I'm sick of the finger wagging rhetoric being spewed online!!

Look, everyone in the community is responsible for what goes on in the community..

Women & men are humans. Humans do human iish!

Women like men pick and choose certain ppl who they wanna deal with, but with that comes consequences..

Some men wanna blame women for liking certain typea of men, but often omit mentioning that these sought after men step to these women whereas other men keep their mouthes shut. Closed mouths don't get fed!! Plain and simple!

I think that ppl just need to look in the mirror and address what they see in said mirror first. Seek counselling or guidance if necessary.

 

[Ol’Otis]

“I can't leave 'em alone
I tried that good boy game, but the dope boy's turning me on
It's just that he know what I want
So bad, I love that, I can't leave 'em alone”

Another song co-written by 2 nikkas

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

So in other words, the so called lames weren’t checking for the lame and average looking girls either? Then when they ran off and married the white men, they get called wenches.

This works both ways.

Black men can pull women in sweats and t shirts if we look good enough. A lot of y’all are ugly gang, and you don’t want to admit it. Plenty of law abiding, intellectual black men have no problem attracting attractive black women. But y’all want hood girls to turn into church girls while looking like IG models.

You really comparing casual sex to building a functional community? It takes functional families to build functioning communities

 

[Diddly Drogba]

So in other words, the so called lames weren’t checking for the lame and average looking girls either? Then when they ran off and married the white men, they get called wenches.

This works both ways.

Black men can pull women in sweats and t shirts if we look good enough. A lot of y’all are ugly gang, and you don’t want to admit it. Plenty of law abiding, intellectual black men have no problem attracting attractive black women. But y’all want hood girls to turn into church girls while looking like IG models.

I knew this simp would be in Here with his cape on

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

Yeah, the glamorization of the criminal underworld that took off in the 80s and 90s had noooothing to do with any of this...

So men were turned off by that lifestyle, but felt forced to because of women, or also to be accepted by fellow black men? Brehs get called lames on here all the time. Did the women pick up the guns first?

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

I knew this simp would be in Here with his cape on

If you are interesting, have a good personality, not boring, you can find a woman. Stop being mad you’re ugly. Even average black men can pull a decent woman when well dressed.

I’ve always been called corny, and never had a problem with women, because I’m not ugly gang. So y’all aren’t going to sit here and tell me the only black men who pull black women are thugs. All my friends have black wives, we’re all black professionals. Although one wife is a reformed hoe, the rest are all black professional women. Y’all are the ones dipping in the wrong pools, and probably using dating apps, which are full of birds.

 

[Pull Up the Roots]

"Men have no agency" - brain-dead entertainer.

 

[Jaguar93]

 

[The Fade]

At the same time it’s on you to tell yourself a phat ass is not enough


There’s that ugly fat chick in another thread with 8 kids driving drunk.. why????

In a lot religions and mystic babble man represents light and intellect and is the PRIME MOVER as a justification for ruling over women.. where was the intellect with that chick and chicks like her ?

 

[Scipio]

If you are interesting, have a good personality, not boring, you can find a woman. Stop being mad you’re ugly. Even average black men can pull a decent woman when well dressed.

I’ve always been called corny, and never had a problem with women, because I’m not ugly gang. So y’all aren’t going to sit here and tell me the only black men who pull black women are thugs. All my friends have black wives, we’re all black professionals. Although one wife is a reformed hoe, the rest are all black professional women. Y’all are the ones dipping in the wrong pools, and probably using dating apps, which are full of birds.

Thanks for the comic relief with the bolded. I almost thought you were being serious for a minute.

 

[Boonapalist]

This. Is. Nonsense.

The Black family was already having issues decades before the Crack Epidemic....

Origins of Post-1960 Black Family Structure | Du Bois Review: Social Science Research on Race | Cambridge Core

Origins of Post-1960 Black Family Structure - Volume 20 Issue 2

www.cambridge.org

Between 1880 and 1960, the proportion of Black children in single-parent families exhibited remarkable stability hovering in a narrow band around twenty percent. Abruptly, this demographic equilibrium shattered between 1960 and 1980 as the proportion doubled then continued its sharp rise to a new demographic equilibrium just above fifty percent about 1990.

Yeah wasn’t the Moynihan Report made in the late 60’s early 70’s.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

You really comparing casual sex to building a functional community? It takes functional families to build functioning communities

I’m not.

But there is has been a lot of discussion on here lately about expecting women to have no physical preferences, and only date men based on personality. This is where the whole idea that women choose the wrong man comes from. The woman won’t even talk to you if you’re not attractive. That’s normal. Relationships require physical things. Would you want to sleep with a woman you weren’t attracted to for the rest of your life just because she was nice, and had a good head on here shoulders?

You do not have to be a thug to pull black women. But you have to be interesting, take care of yourself physically. Keep up with haircuts. Wear nice clothes. Have a decent job. Some of y’all want to make 35-40K, look like Lil Wayne minus the tattoos, or pre weightloss Anthony Anderson, watch anime, not pay for dates, and pull Meaghan Good, with no weave, no makeup, who cooks and cleans for you, and is happy to go 50/50, and settle for a cup of coffee, or a beer.