i guess there simply isnt a better way...iunno
lol no dude is an a$$hole and should not be used as a litmus. dudes know when chicks arent attracted to them but will ignore it because she is the eye candy they like.
he saw her as a "hot piece of ass" (white boy voice) when all cues was saying "you a lick."
if you are any of these things: old, slob, a$$hole, broke, boring, fat .... then its even more imperative you ensure a woman likes you for you.
in most cases, women don't turn corrupted....that shyt is in them from jump but the moves they can make on the chess board change depending on each countries laws.