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I know for me I would rather be with one person who likes me and I like them :manny:

I really can't be involved with a woman I don't share a emotional connection with

That's also one reason why I couldn't cheat. Also why I don't buy that all men cheat crap people like to preach.


Anybody else feel the same?



All the times Ive been out there having casual sex it was great, exciting , dangerous and most of all fun.... I got stories for days, I didnt envy anyone who was in a relationships

All the times including now that Ive been in a relationship, it was just as fun ... and I didnt envy anyone who was single....

everything has a purpose my dude....
 
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I honestly don't think you would because I don't live in Disney land. I'm not sure why you're trying to police people's dikks with shaming tactics but good luck. :mjlol:
I'm not, I said from the start that I'm for sexual freedom, it's like you're skimming my posts for buzzwords. I'm saying people don't need to be shaming men for not wanting to be promiscuous. Manhood is not a legitimate reason to shyttalk someone into being promiscuous. Let them live. It's childish and insecure.
 

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I'm not, I said from the start that I'm for sexual freedom, it's like you're skimming my posts for buzzwords. I'm saying people don't need to be shaming men for not wanting to be promiscuous. Manhood is not a legitimate reason to shyttalk someone into being promiscuous. Let them live. It's childish and insecure.
I'm not shyt talking anyone into anything. I even supported the breh in his thinking, but It's also not realistic all the time for him to think that way.
 

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People in this thread are dead-ass like "if you like getting p*ssy you got mental problems". If you like marriage and relationships, cool. The rest of us that just want to have sex here and there aint trying to stop yall. I don't understand how yall be looking at other people who have sex and are not hurting others in the process and yall like "that's wrong". Get over yourselves.

You don't have mental problems for wanting to get p*ssy just like it doesn't make you a bytch / a p*ssy nikka for not wanting to fukk any woman you find mildly attractive. It's that simple.
 
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I'm not shyt talking anyone into anything. I even supported the breh in his thinking, but It's also not realistic all the time for him to think that way.
I wasn't even talking about you though lol, even though I disagreed with you that men can't be sluts
I was more talking about the guys attacking op personally, like a bunch of angry women who got slutshamed
 

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A lot of the people who don't like casual sex, but still have a normal sex drive, are the type of people who jump into relationships quickly without even realizing it.

Just like a lot of the people who don't have sex before marriage get married at a young age.
yep

sex is a natural desire
and people make everything a moral issue

so they think they are cheating the game by getting married right out of high school so they can say "im not about casual sex and look i did the right thing"
when all they did was enter into a sacred partnership just to soothe their hormones

if you dont have a regular sex drive
then you are good
you can just chill and not have sex

but dudes out here legit going insane
because they do have a sex drive and not fulfilling it
so they begin to rot from the inside and become a bitter bytch
 

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I understand you.. Prince understood you. Now ask yourself, would the average Coli poster have the experience to really understand you here? :francis:

I don't know them. What I do know is that i most definitely am not into sleeping around or fukking random people. I've been single for way too long to settle for a wham, bam, thank you ma'am or anything less than a boyfriend or a relationship at this point.

I know my situation isn't the best but I'm working on it regardless. I deserve a shot. I know I will be partnered up or whatever very soon.
 

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I wasn't even talking about you though lol, even though I disagreed with you that men can't be sluts
I was more talking about the guys attacking op personally, like a bunch of angry women who got slutshamed
I'm aware I was just reiterating. I honestly don't condone them attacking him, but putting him on to game may help the guy.
 

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yep

sex is a natural desire
and people make everything a moral issue

so they think they are cheating the game by getting married right out of high school so they can say "im not about casual sex and look i did the right thing"
when all they did was enter into a sacred partnership just to soothe their hormones

if you dont have a regular sex drive
then you are good
you can just chill and not have sex

but dudes out here legit going insane
because they do have a sex drive and not fulfilling it
so they begin to rot from the inside and become a bitter bytch

To me, it's like if you are fukking the right person or at least they are doing you right, there's no need to keep searching. At least have that person as your main one if you're going to go the open relationship route. An open relationship is another way of saying I can't control myself or you aren't satisfying me enough. Some people need it though. Personally, i can settle down with just one and be faithful until the relationship ends. I wouldn't settle with someone who im not interested in like that.
 
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To me, it's like if you are fukking the right person or at least they are doing you right, there's no need to keep searching. At least have that person as your main one if you're going to go the open relationship route. An open relationship is another way of saying I can't control myself or you aren't satisfying me enough. Some people need it though. Personally, i can settle down with just one and be faithful.

i could have great sex but not have an emotional attachment or even like the chick
so, the sex is just a enjoyable time spent

for me sex is not emotional at all
it is a fulfillment of physical desire

there is no sex so great that it stops me from wanting others

that's like eating something so great that u never want to eat anything else






sex should be the bonus part of a relationship

i believe that sex is a basic human need
 
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