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Mr.Logic

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I know for me I would rather be with one person who likes me and I like them :manny:

I really can't be involved with a woman I don't share a emotional connection with

That's also one reason why I couldn't cheat. Also why I don't buy that all men cheat crap people like to preach.


Anybody else feel the same?
(1) If a woman is willing to consider casual sex with you, that means she is likes you A LOT...Most women are NOT sluts...Women have to worry about getting pregnant, so their nature is to chose mates carefully...

(2) Casual sex and emotional connection are not mutually exclusive...

(3) That's because you are closed-minded about relationships...There is ABSOLUTELY NO reason why a person can't be have an emotional attachment to many other people (even of the same sex)...

It all comes down to how open minded you chose to be...You can love Sarah, Jessica, Tamika, Mika, John, Jason and etc there is NO LIMIT on how many people you chose to love (except the number of people on Earth of consensual age)...
 

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You're not the only one. I want a relationship. I'm not laying with you and we're not together. :yeshrug:
 

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You're not the only one. I want a relationship. I'm not laying with you and we're not together. :yeshrug:
 

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It seems like from page 6 and onward this thread went straight into a degenerate territory.

Like I've said and will always say you can feel however you want to about relationships/sex you just better honest about it from the start.........or it won't end well for you.:sas2:
 
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Instant rep.



More instant rep.



You don't have to be but it certainly helps. Dudes who have their stuff together and actually get positive attention from women understand the dynamic.

Lame, ugly dudes (and girls) believe "casual sex" is just about men getting a nut off at the expense of women. Dudes who aren't good with women have a fukked up view of how women feel so they can never understand how "casual sex" is enjoyable for everyone involved.


Goddamn this dude is sad.

i wish i could rep you

Women LOVE casual sex
I've met several women who really just want dikk and nothing more
it's dumbass men who think women need a relationship..that's bullshyt.. most women "want" a relationship but all they really NEED is a orgasm
 

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It seems like from page 6 and onward this thread went straight into a degenerate territory.

Like I've said and will always say you can feel however you want to about relationships/sex you just better honest about it from the start.........or it won't end well for you.:sas2:

Most importantly, people have to be honest with themselves. Brehs gotta reach a certain level of self-realization and self-awareness in order to be good in a relationship.

Lot of folks are casually fukking and entering into shyt relationships in order to assuage their insecurities and avoid self-exploration.

:yeshrug:

i wish i could rep you

Women LOVE casual sex
I've met several women who really just want dikk and nothing more
it's dumbass men who think women need a relationship..that's bullshyt.. most women "want" a relationship but all they really NEED is a orgasm

fukkin right.

Likewise sometimes you think you love a girl but after you busssss and rolliver you realize that you don't even like her. :francis:
 

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In my teenage years/early 20s my life was a non-stop money and p*ssy chase, it was all about the conquest for me. But then I started seeing too many people having babies with girls they had no intention of wifing up or getting burnt in some way, and I had to slow all that down. Through slowing it down I've come to be less and less interested in casual sex, but I don't need to wife a girl up to smash, just needs to be some kind of connection, that can happen instantly with the right girl in the right place, sometimes it can lead to a fling, sometimes nothing. In summation I'm in no way chasing casual sex on a regular basis but if I meet a dope chick and we hit it off I'm all in.
 

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Y'all acting like I said all men should feel the same way I do :why:
Why does my personal opinion bother y'all so much :why:

They're literally in here digging up your old posts and getting upset because YOU don't like casual sex :dead:

But I agree with you, I couldn't imagine having casual sex, the thought of it makes me uncomfortable.
 

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http://www.thecoli.com/threads/im-done-with-being-a-nice-guy-manny.385818/

http://www.thecoli.com/threads/thinking-about-getting-a-escort.390657/

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Instant. Thread. Backfire. :banderas:

Crazy thing is I actually kinda agree with OP's original premise. OP reminds me of me when I was younger.

He's just gotta let shyt happen because any semblance of desperation is unattractive. Focus on you and moving your life forward. The hoes will come if you're making moves regardless. @Prynce I can tell you that firsthand.
 
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