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[8WON6]

People in this thread are dead-ass like "if you like getting p*ssy you got mental problems". If you like marriage and relationships, cool. The rest of us that just want to have sex here and there aint trying to stop yall. I don't understand how yall be looking at other people who have sex and are not hurting others in the process and yall like "that's wrong". Get over yourselves.

 

[skeetsinternal]

I know for me I would rather be with one person who likes me and I like them

I really can't be involved with a woman I don't share a emotional connection with

That's also one reason why I couldn't cheat. Also why I don't buy that all men cheat crap people like to preach.


Anybody else feel the same?

That's just you. Cats like you built different. God said to be fruitful and multiply and I subscribe to that ideology.

#gyalfibreed

 

[Quiet Magician]

fronting to who to get ass? a bunch of men on the internet??? oh lord!

acting like a bytch for having an opinion, that was no even imflammatory in the least?
the peer pressure between men is real af

Oh lord? nikka.....

 

[Neuromancer]

@Prynce you my homey but they're not gonna hear you on the site like that. I for one have like a few FWB's when I'm single (women I'm actually friends with) But relationships are cool.

 

[Neuromancer]

Guys are funny sometimes. Some are really getting mad at op for not wanting to be a slut

What if you don't believe a man can be a slut?

 

[goatnole]

The point is to get that nut and get the fukk on.

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

This is easily top 3 most silliest, b!tch made'ist, most unrealistic bullsh!t I've ever read on this site thus far
What man would say such a thing
You don't see the point in having casual sex??
If you're not in a relationship at the moment wtf are you supposed to do, fap yourself to death until the right chick comes along?
When I'm single that's all I do is HAVE CASUAL SEX. And I do it almost every gatdamn night and morning as a matter of fact
I have fukk buddies. A team of 'em, actually. As every man should
I'd go fukking crazy if I didn't

I've said it before and I'll say it again, having a father and older brothers who've raised you is invaluable. I don't know where I'd be without mine
Wait, yes I do. I'd be on some internet forum decrying my dislike for having casual sex with women

For a nikka who gets ton of p*ssy, you sure do put it on a pedestal...

 

[( ິΦᆺΦ)ິ°˚(✿ *҉ manko｡✧)]

What if you don't believe a man can be a slut?

That would be your belief
But if in your head, you're brewing up plans to be up in a ton of mouths and crotches, you're a slut. How else can you describe such an intentional pursuit of meaningless sex? It literally has no purpose other than self gratification. Nothing wrong with a slut, but not everyone is meant to be one.

 

[Bless't]

I used to feel the same way. But after years of meeting women that I could not see myself with long term, I decided it's better to at least have some fun with randoms than waste it with one woman you can't really connect long term with. There is a lot of whorish aint shyt females out there.

This.

That's why there are so many butt hurt, mad-at-the-world, dry dikked dudes on this site. They want the IG thot with a heart of gold but when some gargoyle turns them down... all hell breaks loose in their mind. Then they come onto the internet and lash out.

I would love to meet a woman who has all the traits I'm looking for in a wifey. Someone who I can be monogamous with and build with. But those are few are far between.

So in the mean time... I meet other women, have fun and keep it pushing when we decide to part ways.

 

[Bless't]

Here's why OP fukked up.

Why do you think girls only get emotional and go crazy over a guy AFTER he's been having sex with her?
Because women build sex up and make it sacred to them. Sex to women is very important. It's more important to them than it is for men. We just want it more.

Not having casual sex as a man means you are building up sex to be the most important thing to you in your relationship. So in turn gradually you will start behaving like a woman.
And contrary to what you might think, women don't like men that act like them.

Also remember, women are the ones who get fukked. So they always want a man that knows what he's doing. Casual sex teaches you a lot.

Great response.

 

[Bless't]

Sex is a beautiful sport to me. I enjoy making women have orgasms. Unfortunately, I'm not always lucky enough to have a woman I call my girlfriend or am in a serious relationship with, so I casually give women magical sexual experiences and memories. Altruism, I say.

I think casual sex can be therapeutic actually. Its the almost the only time we're allowed to be animalistic again, and allow the instinct to take over. And great stress relief. Cues R. Kelly's The Zoo.

I def prefer to be in a relationship, so I can be more unfettered. And Im not running around accepting everything thrown my way. But I do enjoy some casual sex on occasion.

 

[Neuromancer]

That would be your belief
But if in your head, you're brewing up plans to be up in a ton of mouths and crotches, you're a slut. How else can you describe such an intentional pursuit of meaningless sex? It literally has no purpose other than self gratification. Nothing wrong with a slut, but not everyone is meant to be one.

I call it a man, then again I don't believe men and women are the same so I guess this is a moot convo.

 

[Elle Driver]

I am like that now ... getting married this year. Can't wait to be a husband

But from 19 to 25 I was a slut

You got the hoeness out of your system.

 

[( ິΦᆺΦ)ິ°˚(✿ *҉ manko｡✧)]

I call it a man, then again I don't believe men and women are the same so I guess this is a moot convo.

Tbh, blaming your gender for wanting to make shallow and sometimes irresponsible decisions about sex is a copout to me. Men and women are different, yes. But that doesn't mean men aren't supposed to have self control over their thoughts and actions. If something tastes good, is it really okay to just eat it nonstop with no discretion over how it affects your health, wellbeing, and how you look at food?

 

[Serious]

Lol I know the feeling man. This girl I'm into right now. We went on our first date two days ago. She finally broke up with her man, after our date, lol, and she's a strong black woman. I think she might be the one. At first I just wanted to touch her butt, but we're becoming friends and I really respect this girl. I didn't know I could.

She challenges my beliefs and pushes me to be a better a black man. She has a great relationship with her mom. She's a fire sign. she's getting into fitness and clean foods. She already has a degree. She's working on degree number 2. She got child bearing hips too. I might have to lock this down with some baby batter.

nikka it's been two fukking days.....