It’s not that she’s infantilizing younger
women per sè, because I’m sure she feels the same way about younger
men.
She just never got the memo that men and women view age differently and men who are prepared to have families put more of a focus on other things besides our education/finances.
No one gamed her up.
Which is why some chicks get the message that they have to by a man’s side building and hoping that things work out (
absolutely nothing wrong with that), while her doctor friend is eyeing younger women and not giving a damn that they weren’t there by his side while he was on the come up.
Like I’ve said before- a lot of people didn’t tell millennial women what the game is. So you get older and realize yes, it’s good to have an education and money as a safety net, but that isn’t the deciding factor for a man who truly has it together.
Better find her a 43YO and keep it pushing.