Well, her parents
taught her how this thing works. They have EVERY expectation that her every need and desire will be fulfilled if she marries you, a man who is 17years older. As long as you hold up your end of that bargain and appreciate having a much younger woman there isn’t an issue . She has her MARRIED parents guiding her,
so she will probably approach this relationship with you differently than an 21YO who has no guidance . Those are the girls getting used up by older men who see them as playthings. Salute to her (and you, too lol)
That’s the difference. If every young woman had her parents, especially her dad, telling her exactly what it is and should be with a man who is older then there would be a lot less heartbroken women out there.
My uncle sat me down and told me what the deal is being with someone my age VS older and the decision to make.