Good example that this mentality revolves around the idea that every problem, every consequence, every obstacle can be overcome by simply dating/marrying a man with money. The result is ludicrous standards and expectations for some (not all) women that decide they don't need to offer anything of value. A man will magically fall in love with them and solve their problems because that's what good men do. It's fantasy thinking that is gonna lead to heartbreak, anger, and resentment.
You can see why the "saving it for marriage" card comes out too. If you have seven kids the reason most dudes are gonna entertain you is to fukk you. And once these women figure that out, they start gatekeeping sex behind marriage or a relationship. It actually makes sense when you think about it that way. They have to get you on the hook to make it worth their time. So...you should stay away. I don't care if it's one kid or seven, stay away.