27 Survivors of Sexual Assault Quoting their Attackers

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he's right though...the points he just made are points that a lot of males (particulally men of color) seem fine with overlooking look when they subcribe to sexist ideologies :manny:

Rape is obviously wrong, women obviously shouldn't be blamed for being attractive or dressing skimpily, that's all that needs to be said. Dude is a good poster but sometimes his posts are just
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See my previous post,

It's not victim blaming, it's using the best protection you have. Obviously some things are out of your control, but that shouldn't be a pass to say fukk it and do whatever. All I'm saying is that regardless of the circumstances, a female should be aware and put her safety first, I'm not really blaming anyone.
Stop victim blaming breh :troll:
 

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Rape is obviously wrong, women obviously shouldn't be blamed for being attractive or dressing skimpily, that's all that needs to be said. Dude is a good poster but sometimes his posts are just
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to each his own i guess. IMO it's nice to have a MAN on here that understands our perspective for a change and can counter some of the victim blaming that's rampant on here. Bammer and i don't always agree but i can appreciate anyone that presents their opinions in such an intelligent manner.
 

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whats really funny about this is that you are stigmatizing and stereotyping women in much the same way that white racists stereotype black people.

If it bothers you when white men portray blacks as violent thugs, who are seeking, or inviting violent confrontations, based on the actions of some, pop culture, or the dress, behavior, or attitudes of many, then how can you offer that opinion above? See what racism does is that it seeks to justify its injurious activity by blaming and problematizing THE VICTIM. Its all the victim's fault. Sexism is the same.

What does dressing to seek attention mean exactly? So a woman cant dress in ways that accentuate her body or features, w/o it being a problem? You see what the suggestion here is? You dont think it should be the responsibility of men to control their urges or behavior, so its incumbent upon WOMEN to do everything possible to not arouse those feelings within men. You are problematizing a woman's normal behavior as "wanting attention". This is very similar to how white people say that a black person's choice of clothes, slang, etc AROUSED their racist beliefs, so its the victims fault, and not the prejudicial social environment that informed them.

I am referencing power relationships. Males hold physical, economic, and social power, and they wield it against women daily. Your hostility towards women doesnt allow you to acknowledge this, so you'd rather feed into the misogynist system. Again, the same way that black racism vs. white racism are not one in the same, because of power asymmetry, and a historical context that has built prejudice against black people.

You're warping my words to suit your argument and galvanize female support in this thread. I never once tried to justify rape or blame the victim. I also never suggested that because a woman dressed a certain type of way, they they deserve to get raped like you're saying. You're getting ridiculous with this, and your fox news republican type of argument is nothing but sensationalism and jumping to conclusions. You're thoroughly misguided,
 

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he's right though...the points he just made are points that a lot of males (particularly men of color) seem fine with overlooking look when they subcribe to sexist ideologies :manny:

And simpletons like him will warp someone's argument just for the sake of performing on a soap box for female approval.:ld:
 

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*waits for the captin :cape: a rapist to come in and get mad about this comment* :banderas:

Are you referring to me snake charmer? Guess who came up with that nick name for you?:russ:

The only things I was advocating in this thread was for females to use common sense and street smarts because it's better than nothing. I also hold people accountable for misguided and warped arguments. That simp was using false and misplaced arguments to make a grand post about a subject he and you females are passionate about. For you guys to imply that I'm supporting rapists for being objective and advocating female personal responsibility and safety is ridiculous.
 

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Are you referring to me snake charmer? Guess who came up with that nick name for you?:russ:

The only things I was advocating in this thread was for females to use common sense and street smarts because it's better than nothing. I also hold people accountable for misguided and warped arguments. That simp was using false and misplaced arguments to make a grand post about a subject he and you females are passionate about. For you guys to imply that I'm supporting rapists for being objective and advocating female personal responsibility and safety is ridiculous.
actually i wasn't referring to you specifically. guilty conscience? :ld:
and i know EXACTLY who dubbed me snake charmer Einstein. i thought bammers comparison was funny so i took it the moniker in jest :umad:
 
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