27 Survivors of Sexual Assault Quoting their Attackers

[USSInsiders]

no i'm implying that RAPE implies the use humiliation and extreme violence. you did afterall just come into a rape thread talking that mess amirite?

I'm not talking about a legitimate rape necessarily, I'm just saying a lot of people are into weird sexual shyt and that the sword cuts both ways. That's it; nothing more, nothing less.

 

[USSInsiders]

uh.. consensually.. with permission. not against our will, buddy..

No shyt

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

you're thinking with an internet porn, strip club, wives and basketball, twerk video mindset. You think the average woman who is walking alone down the street in a vulnerable position, is thinking about courting the sexual attention of strange men? You think women appreciate having to remain leery of every invitation, advance, encounter, etc from a man for fear that he may bring her harm, and there wouldnt be a physical thing she could do about if he caught her slippin?

And how are these fears enforced? Well if she's standoffish out of self-protection, then shes a stuck up bytch. If shes friendly and trusting, and shes raped because of it, she will either be called stupid, or called a liar by her attacker's supporters, and most males.

Like being black in a white america, males have no idea the day to day mental strains that women have to go through as physically weaker beings, who are essentialized as fukk toys to play with and use.

Funny how you picked a very specific scenario for your argument. You must not go out much, because I see women dressing in a way that calls attention from them in every place, every single day of the week. Pretty much every where you go out:class, malls, restaurants, a party, work etc. Women purposely dress in a way that will draw attention, because they like that attention. You can't deny this, and you know it's true, which is why you went that route into only focusing on that specific scenario of "oh that poor woman walking alone down the street" so GTFO.
You overplaying that whole "oh she's a victim of random dudes looking, even though she wants them to look, that poor woman's existence" is nothing more than extreme simp pandering. You think women don't like attention?

I love how you also tried to imply my mindset is warped, when mine is that of a realistic one. Yours however, is one of an overly dramatic try hard, who's going to extremes to cape for women in an area they thrive and relish in. This is shocking, because aside from this area you're clearly intelligent, but when it comes to women you suddenly to extremes.

So how is that E p*ssy going to be delivered to you friend? Fed ex or UPS?

 

[Illuminatos]

@ some of the opinions in here.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

be women brehs. Real talk it must suck to be a female, especially an attractive one. My heart goes out to you.

Yeah it must suck to get dudes simping, paying for you, kissing your ass, getting special treatment in many areas, people envious etc.

As long as you use some common sense, stay among friends when you go out(especially at night), and don't trust people you barely know, then your chances of getting raped are slim if you are from a middle class background and higher in the US. Now obviously I can't speak for those who were abused by family members as children, but I'm talking about when you've already grown into an "attractive woman" that you're referring to. You ever notice how it's always a lot more white women that report getting raped then black women? I'm willing to bet that part of that is because black women tend to have better street smarts then white women so they're more aware.

 

[Elle Driver]

I used to work at a rape crisis center which also served as a women's health clinic, and shyt was too much for me. I thank God every day that I've never gone through that because shyt was honestly so soul destroying. Hearing stories from women, speaking to women on the phone trying to convince them not to take their own lives, helping them lead a normal life while being stalked by their rapist. It makes you hate literally everything, it was eye opening. Women are literally taught from birth to fear men. I couldn't even look past the first three photos.

 

[MikelArteta]

I used to work at a rape crisis center which also served as a women's health clinic, and shyt was too much for me. I thank God every day that I've never gone through that because shyt was honestly so soul destroying. Hearing stories from women, speaking to women on the phone trying to convince them not to take their own lives, helping them lead a normal life while being stalked by their rapist. It makes you hate literally everything, it was eye opening. Women are literally taught from birth to fear men. I couldn't even look past the first three photos.

the scary thing is many of these men are still out there, married men with kids, grandpas , uncles etc.

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

I used to work at a rape crisis center which also served as a women's health clinic, and shyt was too much for me. I thank God every day that I've never gone through that because shyt was honestly so soul destroying. Hearing stories from women, speaking to women on the phone trying to convince them not to take their own lives, helping them lead a normal life while being stalked by their rapist. It makes you hate literally everything, it was eye opening. Women are literally taught from birth to fear men. I couldn't even look past the first three photos.

You should thank yourself for staying safe and using enough common sense not to be in vulnerable situations. God has nothing to do with this, your actions do. You can't trust people in general, because you never know what their ulterior motives are.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

and herein lies the problem. there's a certain segment of the male population that gets off on the idea of forcibly taking all control from a woman. i'm curious to know the pathology behind this and to know whether there are signals\signs that these types of men tend to exude so that women can avoid them.

This is true.

And some nikka in another thread was talking about how there's no rape culture.

 

[AquaCityBoy]

Why do women still not learn after seeing this many cases? Those dirtbags who do this are out there and will be out there, only way to really protect yourself is to respect yourself, don't run around like a whore and not expect to be treated like one. Be in the company of a male relative who you trust when you're out at strange hours. The blame goes go the victim also because they know the bad guys are out there, and still don't do anything to avoid the situation.

Yep. Certainly no such thing as rape culture.

 

[Mowgli]

How is this chick fukking her tennis coach every day for 3 years though. Is that rape or soured relationhip.

 

[Elle Driver]

the scary thing is many of these men are still out there, married men with kids, grandpas , uncles etc.

They lead normal lives and they blend in well with society, a lot of time they're really close to their victims prior to even raping them. They've plotted and planned before they've even pounced on them. You'll see a Patrick Bateman dude raping women on weekend's, going back to his normal life of being an investment banker on week days. You'd never expect it from them because you'd think someone with a great career going for them wouldn't jeopardize it by doing something like that. But it thrills them, they like the power. The psychology behind it is, I want that woman and I'm gonna show her how much power I hold over her. They're sociopaths.

You should thank yourself for staying safe and using enough common sense not to be in vulnerable situations. God has nothing to do with this, your actions do. You can't trust people in general, because you never know what their ulterior motives are.

Do you think it's as simple as that? Some people are just sick in the head. To them, it's a form of power dominance. To these nikkas the fact that they can grab any chick from the street and just force himself on her excites them. And usually, they're serial rapists. A lot of them will stalk the girl they've raped and do it again all the while threatening her life and her family. I've seen it for myself. I was threatened many times for helping rape survivors transition into a new life. It's like if they rape you once, you belong to them. It was simply luck. God forbid who's to say I'm not raped in broad day light just minding my own business walking home from the gym or something?

 

[Larry Lobster]

I'd like to be her daddy

 

[AITheAnswerAI]

Do you think it's as simple as that? Some people are just sick in the head. To them, it's a form of power dominance. To these nikkas the fact that they can grab any chick from the street and just force himself on her excites them. And usually, they're serial rapists. A lot of them will stalk the girl they've raped and do it again all the while threatening her life and her family. I've seen it for myself. I was threatened many times for helping rape survivors transition into a new life. It's like if they rape you once, you belong to them. It was simply luck. God forbid who's to say I'm not raped in broad day light just minding my own business walking home from the gym or something?

No, but it's the best protection you have.

Just because you can't control what others think and do, doesn't mean you can't take the best measures to protect yourself from them. It isn't all or nothing, you know what I'm talking about. If not, then start taking strolls down dark alleys at night, since we can't control how sick others are...or start getting black out drunk around a bunch of guys you don't know...see my point?

 

[NotaPAWG]

You should thank yourself for staying safe and using enough common sense not to be in vulnerable situations. God has nothing to do with this, your actions do. You can't trust people in general, because you never know what their ulterior motives are.

this victim blaming "if you didn't put yourself in so and so position" shyt your doing is stupid.

As long as you use some common sense, stay among friends when you go out(especially at night), and don't trust people you barely know, then your chances of getting raped are slim if you are from a middle class background

it's already been pointing out that most rapes aren't on some walkin down dark street at night type shyt soo? literally ANYONE could rape you. i've known girls who were raped by dudes they grew up with and went to high school with. guys they considered good friends. girls who were sexually assaulted by their boyfriends, people they have known all their lives.

you can be raped by someone who can be a potential boyfriend, someone you've went on a handful of dates with, and you'd have people in here like "well.. you should have been more precautions.. or maybe you shouldn't have worn a dress on your 4th date, it's not the males fault you were looking so sexy" kinda shyt

i understand that bad things happen in this world, but we can't hide from the world and watch our every damn move 24/7 out of fear of being raped. that's unrealistic.