If that’s what you negotiate from the beginning or those are shared values well yeah it makes sense. It’s better to have shared values and moral foundations than to guess on a chick you’re just attracted to on material level who just says the right things. If you are a resourceful, attractive man you can get the best mate from across all cultures. You can get men giving you land or paying you to marry their daughters just from not being a bum. You can be just a regular hard worker and people will try and set you up with someone if they feel your values match theirs. Values go beyond the material things like an income bracket or even geography
From what you have bolded for me, media has and is influencing men and women. Ever since “Romance” novels took off because of that French Revolution lady/Franz Liszt’s baby mama to Real Housewife shenanigans to “it ain’t tricking if you got it” to “sex work”. And nikkas feed into that bullshyt to attract them and stunt on other nikkas. I’ve talked to enough people on and off the internet. I remember when people said divesting and crazy feminism was just an internet thing but remember brothers in real life warning others about bell hooks and swirling waaaaaaay back. Also met women who word for word spit Chrissy talking points when nikkas was saying it’s just the internet. Also met dudes with “Black American” consciousness way before Yvette.
my thing is...
you only need a handful of women to get with your program...
people spend too much time worrying about shyt that has nothing to do with them.
I got a friend that got straight up used by a woman..
he moved her in when she lost her job...probably dropped like $100k on her in a littler over a year.
once lockdowns ended and she found a new job she was out.
the reason he got in that situation was he was coming from a place of feeling like he needed her...
the relationship was never solid...he just thought she was out of his league (looks wise).
at the end of the day you have to deal with people that want to deal with you...
and if they are doing you dirty cut them off
what women do in general doesnt matter...
they are always going to be followers