2 kids froze to death in a van in Detroit casino parking lot, mom said she got no help EDIT: GMA int.

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People not having kids results in negative shyt for the economy

Will have to be made up for with immigration

@Phitz already gave you other examples
When talking about negative impacts on society let's be honest.

Currently, what do you believe is a bigger issue in America:

Individuals such as myself choosing to wait until they are financially ready to have children

Or men of all races having children they are not mentally or financially ready to provide for?

Let me also reiterate have children if you want to. I don't care.
 

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Not watching the video why was she in a casino parking lot?
She wasn't gambling she was with her mom, and other kids and family, just homeless.
I watched her interview. Not one tear seemed to be shed by her. Her voice is quivering like she is crying, she states it hurts so bad, but there were no tears shed by her for those babies she lost.

I feel sorry for those children and the family that will miss them, but at the moment I am not certaIn that the mother is one of them.
Just because someone doesn't grief how you want them to doesn't mean they aren't experiencing grief.
I guess my question is why weren't they staying with relatives instead of waiting until now when two of them passed away.
Her, the kids, grandma, plus more. That's a lot of people to take it. Knowing the outcome (death) of course id do it. But and who knows 3 months is a long as time, she probably already stayed with whatever family was available for weeks at a time.

Knowing the outcome i bet a tone that could done something wishes they woulda done something
I just find it hard to believe that she couldn’t find any shelter or church anywhere that would take them in or help out.
Shelters get full when it's cold. And they try extremely hard not to separate mothers and children. Their literally might not have been anything available.
RIP to these kids

Please stop having kids when u not in a situation good enough to provide for the kids
Just because its bad now, doesn't mean it was always bad.

You can own a house now and work full time for the first 8 years of your kids life, then lose your job, lose your house and be struggling.
Not watching but there are better ways than a casino car park
Like what? It's an enclosed parking garage where their car ain't gonna get snowed on, plus if something happens there is security and camera and they are in a centralized location, not just a random Walmart parking lot or park parking lot.
She didn’t do enough for her kids. Plenty of places to go to get shelter especially for kids. You choose a casino parking lot? :comeon:
There's arent just places a plenty to go. If that was the case, many people would be off the streets. Many shelters cannot handle the load of transients when it gets really cold. Plus you got dumb fukk mayors and governors who thinks it's cute to bus transients to other cities and across state lines.
Ngl I wanna fukk that nikka up seeing how non chalant he acting.
Whats he supposed to do, he's crying, he's on TV doing an interview, is be more pissed if he was screaming and pounding his fist, acting a fool, asking why God why.
Then the whole casino parking lot thing Smfh
Have you ever been to a casino? If so where? Casino parking lots have cameras and security. This was was enclosed. Meaning they werent getting snowed on. If you can think of better places for a family that has to sleep in their car to be, please let me know.
How do you have kids and yet plan so poorly.

shyt probably went south.

It's 2025. No one is surprised to hear someone lost their job or their house or apartment. Just because they're homeless now doesn't mean theyve always been homeless.
 

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When talking about negative impacts on society let's be honest.

Currently, what do you believe is a bigger issue in America:

Individuals such as myself choosing to wait until they are financially ready to have children

Or men of all races having children they are not mentally or financially ready to provide for?

Let me also reiterate have children if you want to. I don't care.
I think the bigger issue is the country being ok with companies providing low wages and extreme housing prices.
 

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Dammit, why I clicked that shyt ..(I just wanted to hear the dad's part, only hot to like 20 seconds and couldn't watch) nygga, how you don't know yo kids sleeping in a van ?



SMH
Not justifying his actions, but toxic baby momma/daddy relationships can go scorched Earth when 2 people are immature and are not fit to be parents.

Dude could have helped, he had a roof over his head, he even said that his family could have taken them in, but she never told anyone that she was homeless. So there's the embarrassment of that for her and not clearly communicating what's going on with the father and his family that contributed to this. The shyt is stupid all around because as you can see, the kids suffer the most when the parents are dumbasses
 

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You can't be having small kids that's homeless in the midwest. It's too cold for all that. There are plenty of shelters around that would have took them in. I don't know what mom was thinking. Go to the damn police station if all else fails
 

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There's arent just places a plenty to go.
Yes there is my line of work specializes in this kind of stuff especially with kids. There is no excuse for children to be in a parking lot. None. Only excuse she can have is if she had no idea about any of the resources available and even then I find that hard to believe.
 

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You didn't answer my question.

Don't accuse me of not having reading comprehension.
:mjlol:

Im not confusing one thing with another

You can't even comprehend the phrase "reading comprehension"

I didn't answer your question because you tried to lock me in a binary question, on some well which is worse?

And i just went to the root of the issue instead
 

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Sad story.

Yall gotta understand, people are out here STRUGGLING. Majority of the country is one missed paycheck or a medical emergency away from losing everything.

I can’t even judge that woman in good conscience because I’m sure she felt rock bottom in her situation and prideful to try to escape it. There’s so many factors at play.

I got a sibling who’s experienced homelessness (living in motels). If there wasn’t a male significant other and so many kids involved, I would’ve easily stepped up and had her in my crib. We even tried to help them find housing. But people just have to be willing to make a change and progress in life
 
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