That was not what the statement was that I quoted. Of course she is selfish. The statement was, "But ya'll will say women are selfish if they don't want children."If she wanted them kids they wouldn't be dead. You think a non selfish woman gonna let her kids freeze to death? come on now.
Meaning, we will admonish them as being selfish for not having children. Not, we admonish them for not taking care of children they have. Do you see the difference. The latter yes, I have seen that on this website and that is a perfectly logical stance to take. The former, I have not seen men on here pushing women to have children and claiming they are selfish if they do not want them.
So to be clear, again, do you understand the difference between stating men are calling women selfish who do not want children versus men calling women selfish who have children but are not taking care of them?