Spider-Man 2 is the breakdown of everyone's character and the struggle of linking who you are and the responsibility to maintain your dreams. Success and failure are so distant, yet ever presently linked in our lives, whether we are working on it from the bottom or have attained it at the top. The fall is as close as taking a step.
The contrast of Peter and Octavius sitting at the table, Otto with his life of science and his greatest love Rosie, the best of both worlds. Peter is gushing at what his life could look like until he's asked if he's in love. Then Spiderman takes at the seat at the table, his love life is complicated he replies.
Peter speaking with uncle Ben in his mind to close off the chapter of him wearing the mask and live life the way he wants.
This is something that bothers me about superheroes, they get the power and everything falls in line. They have the money, get the girl and their identity being revealed doesn't affect their lives. Peter lives in a typical NY apartment and can't afford the rent.
His aunt has to move out of her home because she can't help with the bills. His love interest is taken by an astronaut, someone who has their life in order and is committed to her.
His best friend despises him because of the Spiderman affiliation.
Loses his job trying to be hero and his grades are tanking.
He has to watch that and bear it all because he has powers that he has to be responsible to the world for.
The depth of character development and first person like script and cinematography puts this outside of the superhero genre.
The blend of CGI and reality is so smooth, real sets, real arm movements with Doc Ock.
The score and lighting of scenes, character's faces and environments was beautifully done. Characters are often layered with shadows or an orange tinge to broadcast their emotional state and hopefulness.
This all without diving into the brilliant casting and the pseudo father figure role Octavius provided and all that comes with it. The hope, disappointment and outgrowing each other.