Zendaya engaged to Tom Holland

[Gloxina]

Yea pointing out common sense means we trying to claim her when she already part black and identifies as so. Dude care way more about her personal life than us . He must want her. His post are nonsensical right now. Can’t even respond to it

I’m glad you caught that too cuz I’m no longer responding.


This was my exact point. Dudes are upset because they want sexual access to mixed women, so if they aren’t with a Black man they must’ve bushed all the Black ppl in their life, they “chose a side”, etc.

Naw. The girl is mixed. It’s only natural for her to have connections with both races and to feel comfortable dating both races.

No one is digging for info on her friend circle except him lmao

Again, the cute mixed girl is up now, so now ppl care about her being serious with Tom.

If anything, folks in here were playing around saying he wasn’t tall or cute enough for her, but NO ONE said anything about her circle, who she prefer, etc. No one even said shyt about him being white LOL It wasn’t that deep for ANYONE in here but him.

 

[Luke Cage]

Yea pointing out common sense means we trying to claim her when she already part black and identifies as so. Dude care way more about her personal life than us . He must want her. His post are nonsensical right now. Can’t even respond to it

You guys clearly disagree with me. But neither made any valid points against mine. In fact you still don't seem to know why you disagree with me. You decided to interpret what i said as an attack on Zendaya, when from the very beginning i simply presented it as her making a choice she is entitled to make.
Now having given up on that you are resort to being petty? "He must clearly want her?" Cmon breh, its not that serious. She clearly has an entirely white social circle why even argue this point?

 

[Luke Cage]

I’m glad you caught that too cuz I’m no longer responding.


This was my exact point. Dudes are upset because they want sexual access to mixed women, so if they aren’t with a Black man they must’ve bushed all the Black ppl in their life, they “chose a side”, etc.

Naw. The girl is mixed. It’s only natural for her to have connections with both races and to feel comfortable dating both races.

No one is digging for info on her friend circle except him lmao

Again, the cute mixed girl is up now, so now ppl care about her being serious with Tom.

If anything, folks in here were playing around saying he wasn’t tall or cute enough for her, but NO ONE said anything about her circle, who she prefer, etc. No one even said shyt about him being white LOL It wasn’t that deep for ANYONE in here but him.

This is a childish way to lose an argument. Present me with facts that prove me wrong and i will accept them. I don't have to desire someone sexually to notice all their friends are white people. you guys keep coming back to the sexual angle even though Jaime Foxx comparison i made proves even that irrelevant.

 

[Luke Cage]

Gotta pass out negs, because while i respect yall having a different opinion than me, and until now respected @Gloxina as poster in particular. I don't feel like like the attacks on me personally were warranted. I didn't insult Zendaya a single time with any of my observations.
I don't troll people on here, i just like debating. getting salty and passive aggressive with me just because you disagree, cmon yall

 

[Gloxina]

Gotta pass out negs, because while i respect yall having a different opinion than me, and until now respected @Gloxina as poster in particular. I don't feel like like the attacks on me personally were warranted. I didn't insult Zendaya a single time with any of my observations.
I don't troll people on here, i just like debating. getting salty and passive aggressive with me just because you disagree, cmon yall

It’s…not that deep babe. No one is literally attacking you. But ok.


The point was this was a pretty surface level conversation. Some of us were happy for them, some were saying he’s too short and unattractive, some were saying he didn’t want to be in movies anymore she she’s going to be the breadwinner, some were saying she didn’t have to get married yet, etc.



Literally NO ONE was talking about her choosing a side, preferring to be around one race over the other, finding random pictures online showing who her “best friends” are, etc.


I don’t even know how we got here.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

“She skinny”, “He short” They ain’t winning

This thread shows exactly how much eugenics is ingrained in how Black ppl perceive and navigate love.

Love, compatibility, attraction, enjoying eachother’s company, financial security and partnership ain’t enough to marry

nikkas so bitter and weird when it comes to love, we truly looking crazy out here.

It’s funny you mention this. I bumped into an old friend recently. Biracial too, fine as hell and cool as hell. She was with her recently married husband… and let’s just say he’s the complete opposite of her previous boyfriends physically.

She dated Morris Chestnut, Michael B Jordan looking men. This guy looked like a chubby Aziz Anzari. But she looked extremely happy and dude seemed chill and is a business owner.

So yeah, weird coincidence with this thread popping up.

 

[Luke Cage]

It’s…not that deep babe. No one is literally attacking you. But ok.


The point was this was a pretty surface level conversation. Some of us were happy for them, some were saying he’s too short and unattractive, some were saying he didn’t want to be in movies anymore she she’s going to be the breadwinner, some were saying she didn’t have to get married yet, etc.



Literally NO ONE was talking about her choosing a side, preferring to be around one race over the other, finding random pictures online showing who her “best friends” are, etc.


I don’t even know how we got here.

I was defending her choice from another poster, You quoted me acting as if i was attacking her is all that happened.

 

[jilla82]

I don't feel like this answers the question , but she clearly used to hang around black people back in the day at least. like i said, dumping a black man, and immediately never being seen around any black people ever again looks sus to me.

she was never super black like that

she went the black route to get her way in Hollywood but once that was over she went back to how she really is

I remember something about her hair and she saying people were being racist towards her...
im thinking "this bytch has white people hair"

aint nothing wrong with who she dates/marries but folks need to realize the race/gender shyt is used as a tool for those trying to get ahead and gain power...
pulling on the heart strings of fans

in reality they dont care like that

 

[Gloxina]

It’s funny you mention this. I bumped into an old friend recently. Biracial too, fine as hell and cool as hell. She was with her recently married husband… and let’s just say he’s the complete opposite of her previous boyfriends physically.

She dated Morris Chestnut, Michael B Jordan looking men. This guy looked like a chubby Aziz Anzari. But she looked extremely happy and dude seemed chill and is a business owner.

So yeah, weird coincidence with this thread popping up.

Thing is, out of the guys she dated…which one popped the question? Probably the one she’s with now. Sometimes it be like that.

And everyone goes on to live their lives. Ah well.

 

[Gloxina]

I was defending her choice from another poster, You quoted me acting as if i was attacking her is all that happened.

If that’s the case, my bad.

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Thing is, out of the guys she dated…which one popped the question? Probably the one she’s with now. Sometimes it be like that.

And everyone goes on to live their lives. Ah well.

Exactly. Too many black men are marriage averse. And I’m talking the corporate ones. I call her a friend but she was a work colleague I just got on well with.

If we were both single at the time, I’m sure we would’ve dated but our dating lives didn’t align like that. She would always complain about her boyfriends not making an honest woman out of her so it doesn’t surprise me. She had no problem attracting quality men but they’d string her along.

On the one hand, we have a lot of shallowness from both men and women, choosing superficial values over other important qualities… leading to women willing to share the same man while those same men having a roster and never settling down.

I’m not surprised our ‘community’ is in such a state. Shallowness and an aversion to commit. Instead, choosing to be a baby mama/dad than wife/husband.

 

[degu9089]

This thread is spiraling

 

[Gloxina]

Exactly. Too many black men are marriage averse. And I’m talking the corporate ones. I call her a friend but she was a work colleague I just got on well with.

If we were both single at the time, I’m sure we would’ve dated but our dating lives didn’t align like that. She would always complain about her boyfriends not making an honest woman out of her so it doesn’t surprise me. She had no problem attracting quality men but they’d string her along.

On the one hand, we have a lot of shallowness from both men and women, choosing superficial values over other important qualities… leading to women willing to share the same man while those same men having a roster and never settling down.

I’m not surprised our ‘community’ is in such a state. Shallowness and an aversion to commit. Instead, choosing to be a baby mama/dad than wife/husband.

/thread

You brought it home with this one.

Same way it played out for your colleague is probably the same way it played out for Zendaya. And like I said earlier, she learned quickly to not be too shallow (not that Tom is unattractive!) and is sticking with the guy who actually loves her and treats her well.

Young, rich, famous MOVIE STAR in his 20s.
Is he playing the field and “living the dream” like Leo DiCaprio?
NOPE.

Impregnating and making a successful young woman a single babymomma like Cordae?
NOPE.

He’s locking down an amazing girl before HE turns 30. Before HE gets her pregnant.

No one wants to point that out either. Lol

He isn’t wasting her time, or tarnishing her rep by making her a babymomma.

He cares enough to do things in the proper order in a timely fashion.


Maybe the taller, cuter guys weren’t moving like this.

 

[Won Won]

Dude really posted a pic of her with a bunch of 47 year old white women and called them her besties

 

[Gloxina]

Dude really posted a pic of her with a bunch of 47 year old white women and called them her besties