"You're not fit to be a wife. Period"

[Canon]

This is what's on her vision board right now..

haha yup to bad the economics of today make this out of reach for 97% of women

 

[Sccit]

MARRIED WOMEN RAISING CHILDREN SHOULDNT WORK

MARRIED MEN PROVIDING FOR THEIR FAMILY SHOULDNT COOK N CLEAN

PRETTY SIMPLE

 

[GhostfacexDOOM]

It's 2024, everybody does everything. She wants to be stay at home, there's dudes that want that and can afford that. Everybody's relationship is different, whatever you two agree upon is between ya'll. Too much going on in the world to reduce a person's whole value to domestic chores or annual income.

 

[Gold]

this.Im a clean freak so I tend to clean everything up tho.

this argument is a thing because they vast majority of women can't cook and clean for shyt nowadays tho. We losing recipes.

This has never been a point of contention for me in any of my relationships. Outside of the minor thing like when I cook I don't tend to clean as I cook I haven't seen it.

I don't know where these guys are that don't keep a clean place unless they're 21 or something.

This is a question you know the answer to. We have to clean whether we're in a relationship or not so it's extremely unlikely that a man does 0% of the cleaning in a cohabitated house. The issue is the same women arguing for men to split domestic work generally won't reciprocate "splitting" duties on a financial level and want to be traditional.

That's not how this works..

I do 100% of the real cooking and cleaning: toilets, floors, daily meals, sides for when he bbq's, etc. He grills and re- organizes.

I couldn't deal with it if I had to work for the wm and then come home and work for the bm. I'm sorry, it don't work like that. I would be tight than a mfer.

Appreciate the responses. I'm a huge fan of letting people who are actually in relationships do their thing as long as it works for them.

I could never be a man who doesn't clean. I clean more than my wife because I cant stand mess. But if someone like @HarlemHottie enjoys doing all the cleaning and her relationship works, more power to her.


Its the people who aren't in healthy relationships who are screaming and crying over shyt that are the ones really hurting imo.

 

[Carl Tethers]

I pray for an independent wife or spouse who is smart , intelligent and can speak freely. I also want one who is submissive, respects her man, and respect his role as the head of the household, thats all

First of all - you're a fakkit. Secondly, you want a submissive wife but she should be also be independent and speak freely? You're a fukking idiot

 

[Soda Papi]

Imagine coming home after working dawn to dusk and this lazy heifer tryna tell you she “tired and needs some sleep”

 

[Shadow King]

Appreciate the responses. I'm a huge fan of letting people who are actually in relationships do their thing as long as it works for them.

I could never be a man who doesn't clean. I clean more than my wife because I cant stand mess. But if someone like @HarlemHottie enjoys doing all the cleaning and her relationship works, more power to her.


Its the people who aren't in healthy relationships who are screaming and crying over shyt that are the ones really hurting imo.

I'm actually not in a relationship but the intensity at which this gender roles fire burns is interesting to me and why I'm not in one. Truthfully I'm done with dating until...

 

[MikelArteta]

 

[ItsPeople]

Tire breh is most definitely a pawger, Asian Latina, Filipino dater lol

Breh can you expound on how you came up with this theory?

 

[HARLEM AL]

Men who are in relationships....

Do any of ya'll actually do 0% of the cleaning in your houses?

Real question.

Any household with black men in do house work. in some houses more than women. I cook way more than my shorty. clan up more to.

 

[Sauce Mane]

Relationships are all about helping each other

 

[jadillac]

This is what's on her vision board right now..

This is what women say they want, the "soft life".

I don't trust that a woman, unless y'all have kids, is going to really do this.

If she's childless and doing nothing all day but going to the gym, going out shopping, running the city, I don't trust it. You are working hard, gonna be tired, want to unwind and she's going to get "bored", especially when you tell her to ease up on the spending

 

[Smokin Rider]

The man is wrong
How often you gotta change a tire and change oil vs do dishes & cleaning.

He is right he didn't word it right though, you have to be the protector everyday. Most and hopefully all days, nothing will happen, but, if death comes knocking at your door looking for her, you have to be the one to answer that door

 

[Tribal Outkast]

 

[Creepn]

Lol so the wife gon come home to a messy house from work and has to cook but he don't have to do any housework because he has one of these?