"You're not fit to be a wife. Period"

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If she’s working just the same hours as her man, not really fair to ask her to do duties that are only being assigned to her because of her gender. But in every relationship, for it to work, both parties need to willingly do selfless acts of care that lets it be known they love each other.
 
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They're both attractive-looking women 😌 so I don't think they'd have trouble getting married.

As far as the conversation goes, he's right; job or not, a woman shouldn't have any problems with cooking or cleaning around the house. With that said, nobody is saying that women in relationships' only duties are to be cleaning and cooking around the house to no avail, while their men are just sitting there kick-backing and relaxing.

It's a 50/50 agreement, teamwork makes the dream work.

This is something every adult should know how to do without catching an attitude. Employed or unemployed, married or unmarried, cooking and cleaning are a must as an adult.
 

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How is he wrong?

Putting out the trash, being the protector EVERY DAY, mowing the yard, etc. The list is extensive for men too.
Man whenever I hear the protection argument it sounds like a G-Unit scenario where she just gonna inherit your beefs
 

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Men who are in relationships....

Do any of ya'll actually do 0% of the cleaning in your houses?

Real question.
this.Im a clean freak so I tend to clean everything up tho.

this argument is a thing because they vast majority of women can't cook and clean for shyt nowadays tho. We losing recipes.
 

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The problem with 50/50 on the chores - is that women want you to do things their specific way. So it creates an environment, where you're no longer partners, but master and servant.
Had this with my aunt growing up. She does this. Tells people she wants something done but she wants it done HER way. Just do it yourself :mjlol:

Also adults should know how to cook/clean in 2024. My friends wife can cook but she doesn't clean as good as my friend so he will end up cleaning. It works for them. I don't know why keeping a functioning home is beneath people.
 

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Men who are in relationships....

Do any of ya'll actually do 0% of the cleaning in your houses?

Real question.
This has never been a point of contention for me in any of my relationships. Outside of the minor thing like when I cook I don't tend to clean as I cook I haven't seen it.

I don't know where these guys are that don't keep a clean place unless they're 21 or something.
 

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I used to think this, until I grew up.
In today’s society, this is a weird thing to expect.

Every grown man and woman should know how to cook, clean and wash your own clothes.

We have all the technologies where we don’t need to spend all day in the kitchen
:francis:Similar thread from two years ago

The tire thing depends on my mood but 8/10 times we calling out someone to come change it

Tf am I paying extra service for my insurance
 
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