i heard someshyt yesterday that made me feel sick to my stomach.
the kid that works part time on the weekend at my job came thru yesterday to cover for my other co-worker who called out. i never see him so we sitting chit chatting and i remembered he told me in passing once that his kid wasnt his. we couldnt speak much on it but he seemed happy when he told me so i assumed it was some newborn. so i asked him about that situation and he told me the story.
so he leaves his ex and meets up with a new chick(fine ass pawg
by the way). 1 month into the new relationship the ex tells him she pregnant. the timing seemed to match up so he manned up and did what he had to do even tho he was a little dubious about it as were his parents.
he takes care of this little girl and even his new chick is in her life. his parents feel blessed to have their first and only grandchild. he does the best he can to maintain a decent relationship with baby momma even tho she is beasting for him to get back with her. then baby momma decides to put him on child support even tho he was already taking care of her.
dude decided to take an at home paternity test. not the father. then he took a court admissible test. not the father.
even tho a part of him is glad he gets his freedom from his baby momma back again, you could tell dude got attached to the baby and the pain he was trying to hide snuck its way out. then he told me how his mom and dad took it and i felt like crying too. little girl is 2 years old. even his wifey broken up about it.
so you know what, if u have even 0.000001% doubt that the kid is yours, i advise getting a paternity test done AS SOON as that baby is born. save yourself some pain down the line brehs.