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Blown Moon

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I respect that.

The difference between you and the TS is you were told several times, didn't leave, then called her bluff. If I'm not mistaken this is her 1st time pulling this on him.

As a female (not speaking for them all) but if a man rubs you the wrong way ONE TIME or lets you get away with nonsense behavior, more times than not he will never get a chance to redeem himself. If he doesn't nip this in the bud now, she'll be trying to kick him out every chance she gets, because he allowed her to.

but she didn't tell me to get out, she just threatened that she would and I rolled out. I think thats a little better than her telling me I HAD to leave and the leaving, right?
 

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How are you catching a kidnapping charge by not giving into her nagging?

The fact that a female has no respect for you and comes out the side of her face, is because she see's the femininity in you. And your ass will go a running whenever she wants. <--- now that's stupid

The majority of the men on this board state "females wants bad guys or a$$holes" Nah, half the females you attract look down upon you for your bytch made ways.

I don't care what these idiots say. Flexing on a bytch is bad business. If you keeping her from using the phone or leaving thats kidnapping/ holding her against her will and ya ass going to jail if and when she decides to call the cops. Men and women ain't the same. They both the fukk crazy, a nikka can punch a bytch face in repeatedly and she'll still get buck cut you stab you, call the cops on you, and then get you out. I don't play them bullshyt games.
 

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but she didn't tell me to get out, she just threatened that she would and I rolled out. I think thats a little better than her telling me I HAD to leave and the leaving, right?

In the heat of the moment most people state things they regret the second it escapes their mouth. She'll be alright, and so will you!

Go home like nothing ever happened. I bet she won't bring it up, if you don't ;)

I don't care what these idiots say. Flexing on a bytch is bad business. If you keeping her from using the phone or leaving thats kidnapping/ holding her against her will and ya ass going to jail if and when she decides to call the cops. Men and women ain't the same. They both the fukk crazy, a nikka can punch a bytch face in repeatedly and she'll still get buck cut you stab you, call the cops on you, and then get you out. I don't play them bullshyt games.

Did we date in the past? :guilty:

Nah, I feel you. I have a few domestic violence charges :snoop:

It's easier for a female to get out of them than a man, so I understand your stance.
 

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This is why you shouldn't live with someone unless you are married. Then she'd have to suck whatever it is up. She's tryin to flex her power on you. Unfortunately, you put her in the position to do so.
 

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I'm with the crowd saying bounce for a couple of days and have her begging you back. Just to show her you have options and then let her know next time she pulls that shyt you out for good.

My ex moved across the country with me. She tried to get all pissed off and threaten to leave to try to get my attention or a reaction out of me. I told her do what she needed. So she packed all her shyt in front of me hoping I'd stop her. Nothing. She loaded her car up. Still nothing. Then she says she's about to drive back. Still nothing. Then she broke down crying begging to stay and didn't pull that shyt again. I let her know if she's gone be with me ain't gone be no extreme bullshyt like she was trying to pull and if there was she's out. Got her ass in line quick.
 

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Moral of the story, get your own place or get your name on the lease.
 

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i just had this happen to me...we been goin thru it for a while...i pissed her tha fukk off and went to the studio, left there went to my homegirl house wit my nikkas and got drunk high and ate good...and stayed tha night

i lost my key (come to find out i left it in the house) and was at my mama house till like 1:30 wit the kids while she was gettin her hair done...brought them, took my clothes off and laid down...she started wit the bullshyt, called the police, they told me they couldnt make me leave...she called my homeboy too and it was just a big ass fukkin mess...aint even go to sleep until 6:30 am and had to be at work at 8

all this happened sunday, monday on my lunch break i met her and removed my name from the lease and packed all my clothes....shyt didnt feel right bein at my moms house i wasnt comfortable

as we were apart we had time to talk and shyt, now all of a sudden she beggin me to come back home and put my name on the lease :childplease: we been doin good, she aint been havin no attitude none of dat shyt, but she straight up told me she didnt think i would really leave and all dat shyt

i think she think shyt all roses now, but i dnt think im wit this shyt anymore
 

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i just had this happen to me...we been goin thru it for a while...i pissed her tha fukk off and went to the studio, left there went to my homegirl house wit my nikkas and got drunk high and ate good...and stayed tha night

i lost my key (come to find out i left it in the house) and was at my mama house till like 1:30 wit the kids while she was gettin her hair done...brought them, took my clothes off and laid down...she started wit the bullshyt, called the police, they told me they couldnt make me leave...she called my homeboy too and it was just a big ass fukkin mess...aint even go to sleep until 6:30 am and had to be at work at 8

all this happened sunday, monday on my lunch break i met her and removed my name from the lease and packed all my clothes....shyt didnt feel right bein at my moms house i wasnt comfortable

as we were apart we had time to talk and shyt, now all of a sudden she beggin me to come back home and put my name on the lease :childplease: we been doin good, she aint been havin no attitude none of dat shyt, but she straight up told me she didnt think i would really leave and all dat shyt

i think she think shyt all roses now, but i dnt think im wit this shyt anymore


How long have you been together and how old are the kids?











Me and my baby are all good now by the way folks....
 
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you'll be in your car tonight"


I just hit her with the :leon::ufdup: and went and played madden and dodirtys crib all night.

Should I go to her home, when I get off or should I wait this out? I can go to San Deigo with my homie and dead my phone to piss her off.

I can't believe she threw that in my face, bytch acts like I just live there and don't pay half of the rent.

You :ufdup: by not having your name on the lease. Dont even go back for a while and let her figure out how shes gonna pay her half.
 
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Naw, she knows I'm at work and she knows where I went last night. I wear the pants and we both know it. She got crazy like that becasue I pushed all her buttons and then got real cold and calculated with my responses which made her go even crazier. I just didn't like her going to plan z which was trying to punk me about the living situation, which is why I was gonna go to San Deigo but this thread made me realize I'm over it. When I get back home, I'm going to let her know to never try me in that way again, she's going to accept that and we're gonna have make up sex.

You wear the pants but you left your own apartment when she told you to? :childplease:

She threw you out in a fit of anger.....then she calmed down and realized she wanted you back. Now you think you're winning by staying out and making her feel guilty. A guilt trip isn't winning bro. That's a feminine way to handle things. You lost by leaving your own apartment just because she got emotional. Only way you can win by leaving is if you're leaving for good.
 

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You wear the pants but you left your own apartment when she told you to? :childplease:

She threw you out in a fit of anger.....then she calmed down and realized she wanted you back. Now you think you're winning by staying out and making her feel guilty. A guilt trip isn't winning bro. That's a feminine way to handle things. You lost by leaving your own apartment just because she got emotional. Only way you can win by leaving is if you're leaving for good.

Its already over breh. It went down just like I said it would. I told her what the deal was and how not to come at me, she apologized, cried and then got fukked really hard. Breakfast in bed and more apologizing in the morning:obama:
 

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So youre telling us, you pay half the rent to share her? Sounds like a loss to me
 

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you'll be in your car tonight"


I just hit her with the :leon::ufdup: and went and played madden and dodirtys crib all night.

Should I go to her home, when I get off or should I wait this out? I can go to San Deigo with my homie and dead my phone to piss her off.

I can't believe she threw that in my face, bytch acts like I just live there and don't pay half of the rent.

what city u stay in fam?

The only way she'll get to the phone is if you ALLOW her to... :smh:

Gotta learn how to strong arm a female (without hurting her) and call her bluff.

whooaaa...u bout to turn a lil argument into a nikka serving 20 years. u talkin bout kidnapping, coercion, assault...them cacs will prolly throw a rape charge at u for fun too.
 
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