"***** your names not even on the lease

[Blown Moon]

Unbeknownst to you, you're giving her ammunition for a future argument

You assume you're punishing her by 'jetting off for the weekend' and in her minds eye you're probably out fcuking the next female (The reason she's blowing up your phone).

No good will come of this, especially if you're the more logical one.

Next time she pop's off, show her who wears the pants in the relationship. If not, you'll put on her Victoria Secret panty draws whenever she deems fit.

Naw, she knows I'm at work and she knows where I went last night. I wear the pants and we both know it. She got crazy like that becasue I pushed all her buttons and then got real cold and calculated with my responses which made her go even crazier. I just didn't like her going to plan z which was trying to punk me about the living situation, which is why I was gonna go to San Deigo but this thread made me realize I'm over it. When I get back home, I'm going to let her know to never try me in that way again, she's going to accept that and we're gonna have make up sex.

 

[Blown Moon]

Hold up Neko and KIQ both just made very good and conflicting points... I was just gonna go back home on some don't try me again type shyt but she might think a nikka can't go somewhere esle if i wanted. A nikka is back at square one.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Naw, she knows I'm at work and she knows where I went last night. I wear the pants and we both know it. She got crazy like that becasue I pushed all her buttons and then got real cold and calculated with my responses which made her go even crazier. I just didn't like her going to plan z which was trying to punk me about the living situation, which is why I was gonna go to San Deigo but this thread made me realize I'm over it. When I get back home, I'm going to let her know to never try me in that way again, she's going to accept that and we're gonna have make up sex.

Hold up Neko and KIQ both just made very good and conflicting points...A nikka is back at square one

NOOOOOOOOOOOO!!

Take yo ass home! Tell her what it is and have angry passionate sex with her.

You can spit a lil game and tell her you push her buttons because you love it:

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PU6-2RSkA_c&feature=youtu.be

 

[Peruvian Connect]

What's the purpose of playing mind games when you're paying half? FOH!

Men need to use their testosterone to their advantage. Regardless of what she stated (words are just words) can she physically make him leave their home? Absolutely not! She cannot overpower him and remove him from the premises.

Whenever she throws one of her lil bytch fits. Hit her with the or continue to do whatever you're doing and tell her you're not going any where.

The fact that you actually get up to leave and adhere to her attitude let's her know you're a weakling. Rendering yourself a puppet on a string that jumps at her will

Sometimes it's better to leave. If she call them people and start making claims, you fukked.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

Sometimes it's better to leave. If she call them people and start making claims, you fukked.

The only way she'll get to the phone is if you ALLOW her to...

Gotta learn how to strong arm a female (without hurting her) and call her bluff.

 

[fendi_mane]

When I stayed with my girl, I kept a wham spot in the hood she knew about just in case. A man should always have his own. That extra $600/month was worth the peace of mind.

 

[Peruvian Connect]

The only way she'll get to the phone is if you ALLOW her to...

Gotta learn how to strong arm a female (without hurting her) and call her bluff.

The fukk? And then get a kidnapping charge on top. You a stupid bytch.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

The fukk? And then get a kidnapping charge on top. You a stupid bytch.

How are you catching a kidnapping charge by not giving into her nagging?

The fact that a female has no respect for you and comes out the side of her face, is because she see's the femininity in you. And your ass will go a running whenever she wants. <--- now that's stupid

The majority of the men on this board state "females wants bad guys or a$$holes" Nah, half the females you attract look down upon you for your bytch made ways.

 

[Blown Moon]

fukk it, I'm just gonna go home and lay down law and pipe. I don't even feel like making that trip just to play games.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

fukk it, I'm just gonna go home and lay down law and pipe. I don't even feel like making that trip just to play games.

Another thing to ponder: If you give into her "your name isn't on the lease" stunt NOW. She'll pull it every other month, you'll leave, then she'll let you back in once the bills need to get paid.

If you subject yourself to her nonsense now, what's suppose to be both of your home will become a revolving door..... TRUST!

 

[neko_804]

What's the purpose of playing mind games when you're paying half? FOH!

Men need to use their testosterone to their advantage. Regardless of what she stated (words are just words) can she physically make him leave their home? Absolutely not! She cannot overpower him and remove him from the premises.

Whenever she throws one of her lil bytch fits. Hit her with the or continue to do whatever you're doing and tell her you're not going any where.

The fact that you actually get up to leave and adhere to her attitude let's her know you're a weakling. Rendering yourself a puppet on a string that jumps at her will

It's funny that you say that because we had several heated moments where she would say "get out my house" and I would never leave. Until the night I packed a bag and left for a couple days had her on some . Its not about giving in to her or being a "weakling" as you put it but its a bigger picture that has to be drawn here. I realized that as long as she felt she had that "lease" over my head she was as soon as I took that away by letting her know IDGAF bout her crib I will be good anyway. I never had that problem again, and I made damn sure my name was on the lease the next time we moved.

But Im not saying your advice is def wrong but merely stating my experiences on that.

 

[Blown Moon]

How are you catching a kidnapping charge by not giving into her nagging?

The fact that a female has no respect for you and comes out the side of her face, is because she see's the femininity in you. And your ass will go a running whenever she wants. <--- now that's stupid

The majority of the men on this board state "females wants bad guys or a$$holes" Nah, half the females you attract look down upon you for your bytch made ways.

whoa, thats not the case here. My superior arguing skills just got to her and she threw a hail mary, you're making it seem like she punked me or something. I didn't have to leave but leaving was the best option with my swag I had going at this point in the argument.

 

[Cat piss martini]

never move in with a woman.....
a bytch will hold that shyt like the big joker.....(dying to slam it down)
always have your own spot or have it in your name
so when she get on that bullshyt throw her stankin ass out.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

It's funny that you say that because we had several heated moments where she would say "get out my house" and I would never leave. Until the night I packed a bag and left for a couple days had her on some . Its not about giving in to her or being a "weakling" as you put it but its a bigger picture that has to be drawn here. I realized that as long as she felt she had that "lease" over my head she was as soon as I took that away by letting her know IDGAF bout her crib I will be good anyway. I never had that problem again, and I made damn sure my name was on the lease the next time we moved.

But Im not saying your advice is def wrong but merely stating my experiences on that.

I respect that.

The difference between you and the TS is you were told several times, didn't leave, then called her bluff. If I'm not mistaken this is her 1st time pulling this on him.

As a female (not speaking for them all) but if a man rubs you the wrong way ONE TIME or lets you get away with nonsense behavior, more times than not he will never get a chance to redeem himself. If he doesn't nip this in the bud now, she'll be trying to kick him out every chance she gets, because he allowed her to.

 

[KnowledgeIsQueen]

whoa, thats not the case here. My superior arguing skills just got to her and she threw a hail mary, you're making it seem like she punked me or something. I didn't have to leave but leaving was the best option with my swag I had going at this point in the argument.

That comment wasn't directed at you,

If you have superior arguing skills, shows you're the level headed one. Understand: She's prolonging a moment in time that didn't go in her favor and throwing a tantrum (telling you what she did) Eventually she'll get over it.