Your boy asks you to cover for him so he can step out on his lady

[Doin2Much Williams]

Wait what?

I'm not trying to fukk his wife

1- I got a girl
2- Even if I didn't and was walking the Sahara, I'm not cut from that cloth. Only married woman I wanna fukk is my wife.
3- These aren't randoms. These are my people from back in the day.

Man, i'm a vile human being (just for the thoughts in my head alone).



Taking my homegirl out for dinner/drinks cuz she just finished school (she's married to one of my best homies).



While i'm not going to do anything, she's one of the most attractive women i've ever met in my life.




Just saying.




Like... perfect shape, great face, head on her shoulders, intelligent, works hard, very compassionate, can talk to her aboot anything cuz she grew up with all brothers, etc.




Only thing is if say, her husband died and I took over, i wouldn't be able to support her fancy lifestyle.





Everything's got a price.



.

 

[NinoBrown]

In college we had revolving doors and misdirection....the main chicks be trying to come thru but the side pieces/jump offs be on the couch baed up or vice versa and we all had to run interference.

We had one friend posted at the door to say..."Yeah Nino or such and such went to the gym...probably why he isn't txting back"

This one jump off kept sweating me but the bros formed like voltron and pretended to leave the dorm while I was in the spare room with the 2nd main....

Fun times..

 

[Savvir]

Let it play out. Have the OP ask the chick if she knows and I'd put money on it that she probably got her own side and been waiting for old boy to leave.

that has nothing to do with OP fukking her...



i already know what type of nikka you are

 

[Savvir]

My college roommate took our other homeboy on a out of town trip where he was planning on cheating on his girl . On some more the merrier shyt I guess.


When they came back we riding around town and the topic of cheating/ the side piece came up. The friend that went along was on bullshyt talking about he would tell my roommates' girl about the whole thing if it came down to it


Had to give him a lecture about keeping his damn mouth shut and staying outta people's business

did they take a trip to the mountains?

 

[Wayans Brehs]

Y'all need to be careful around dudes like this. If they openly and brazenly disrespecting their girl like this, they will do you just as dirty.

 

[Indeed]

Leave me out you BS

 

[mattw1313]

I don't have p*ssy friends so idk

tell him to man up and keep it real


how does he even need you to cover? is she gonna call you, like a parent making sure a kid is where they said they'd be?

 

[Atlrocafella]

Wouldn’t actively assist, but wouldn’t snitch.

 

[Thsnnor]

Proverbs 6:32 KJV
But whoso committeth adultery with a woman lacketh understanding: he that doeth it destroyeth his own soul.

 

[Fiji Water]

that has nothing to do with OP fukking her...



i already know what type of nikka you are

Ok.

 

[rabbid]

I've been there. Although i didnt know his girl like that. Had to hold onto the room key so she wouldnt get suspicious or find anything in his pockets.. smh. Then his girl started suspecting and tried to hit on me, grabbing my arms, aggressive eye contact, texting me late at night shyt. Just a messy situation all around. His girl was much badder but relatively boring. Ultimately, next time i would just stay out of it altogether. But im not snitching, its not my relationship and its not my business. I wouldnt even know her if it wasn't for him.

 

[Commish]

OP..

Why did ya homie bring you into his business? Also, why would his wife call you asking about her husband's whereabouts?

If she know what time it is, then her intuition should tell her all she needs to know...

I am a proponent for minding my business! I don't want no parts in getting into people's love triangles because it can backfire and you end up being the a$$hole/bad guy/snitch.

If ya homie's wife call you, then don't answer!

 

[Studious one]

Respectfully breh, ur "homie"(good choice of words, cause "friend" doesnt seem to apply here imo-dont know if that was ur intent, just kinda interesting, and and ironically appropriate distinction) sounds pretty self centered. A true friend does not involve another friend in their dirt. The fact they are pitting u against another friend is a whole other series of violations. Ultimately it feels like he basically has no qualms using all of u involved here. Not just the other chick, but his wife and u as well.

I dont know any of yall one bit, so this is merely my observation based on the info available and my own personal experience. I may be way off base. Or i may be right. I may be somewhere in the middle. But if he is asking u to do something that goes against ur principles and puts u in a position to have to betray someone u care about, u should probably take a good hard look at his character, and not just whether or not he is really ur friend, but whether or not u should even want him to be.

Respectfully.

All of this!

Homie just called me talking about do me this solid:
I got this heaux flying in, cover for me so I can spend the day with her

Background: I been knowing his wife since HS. Me and him been homies since we were 18. We all tight, I know her fam and his fam.
They're on the outs but still married. One of those "staying for the kid" shyt
She knows what time it is, but he's not gonna disrespect her by doing dirt in the open you know?
That's where I come in

I've been in this situation before and like the camel said
I'm like the dog, I don't speak but I understand
[/QUOTE That’s fukked up to even contemplate that shyt. I hate it when my female friends used to do that shyt to me. It says a lot about his character…and yours. Respectfully.

 

[Rev Leon Lonnie Love]

How would you feel about your woman if she told you she's babysitting their kid for a day so the friend's wife can go and get some dikk on the side?

That should help you decide whats right for you and your peace of mind

 

[Solomon Caine]

Wouldn’t outright snitch. But I’d try to talk him out of it. If he don’t listen, I can’t associate myself wit people like that.

If his own wife and kids can’t get loyalty from him he’s finished.