Your boy asks you to cover for him so he can step out on his lady

[Ironman]

I don't want anything to do with that

 

[UpAndComing]

"My boy" is getting hung up on if he asks me a question like that

 

[CrushedGroove]

I ain't helping with that. I ain't running my mouth about stuff that don't concern me, but I ain't aiding and abetting either.

 

[The Half-Blood FKA Prince]

Homie just called me talking about do me this solid:
I got this heaux flying in, cover for me so I can spend the day with her

Background: I been knowing his wife since HS. Me and him been homies since we were 18. We all tight, I know her fam and his fam.
They're on the outs but still married. One of those "staying for the kid" shyt
She knows what time it is, but he's not gonna disrespect her by doing dirt in the open you know?
That's where I come in

I've been in this situation before and like the camel said
I'm like the dog, I don't speak but I understand

Respectfully breh, ur "homie"(good choice of words, cause "friend" doesnt seem to apply here imo-dont know if that was ur intent, just kinda interesting, and and ironically appropriate distinction) sounds pretty self centered. A true friend does not involve another friend in their dirt. The fact they are pitting u against another friend is a whole other series of violations. Ultimately it feels like he basically has no qualms using all of u involved here. Not just the other chick, but his wife and u as well.

I dont know any of yall one bit, so this is merely my observation based on the info available and my own personal experience. I may be way off base. Or i may be right. I may be somewhere in the middle. But if he is asking u to do something that goes against ur principles and puts u in a position to have to betray someone u care about, u should probably take a good hard look at his character, and not just whether or not he is really ur friend, but whether or not u should even want him to be.

Respectfully.

 

[Flywin Lannister]

Is this a spin thread? He basically asking you to fukk his girl. And head ain't cheating. What the girl look like that you even asking???

She must be busted cuz if you know all this and have the request to "cover", he basically asking you to get under some covers. nikka, go fukk that chick. He giving you a straight up pass.

That is what you took from OPs post?

Get help

 

[Black Excellence]

Be married to someone you can’t be honest to brehs & brehettes.

 

[zayk35]

It's just something about calling ppl family or a good friend and then looking them in the eye knowing they spouse or significant other is fukkking around on them. I can't do that and I won't do it. I'm telling. If I lose a friend fukk it

 

[big bun]

 

[old pig]

for me it’ll boil down to how long he’s been with her and my relationship with her/them

 

[old pig]

Homie just called me talking about do me this solid:
I got this heaux flying in, cover for me so I can spend the day with her

Background: I been knowing his wife since HS. Me and him been homies since we were 18. We all tight, I know her fam and his fam.
They're on the outs but still married. One of those "staying for the kid" shyt
She knows what time it is, but he's not gonna disrespect her by doing dirt in the open you know?
That's where I come in

I've been in this situation before and like the camel said
I'm like the dog, I don't speak but I understand

just read the scenario…he’s disrespectful for putting you in that position smh…my shyt would be don’t involve me in it

 

[AlbertPullhoez]

Yeah yeah naw......yeah homie naw. shyt like that a nikka like me will tell...yeah nikka i'll tell his bytch what he doing

 

[Dontdoit3]

Nope. Can’t help you with that. Especially if I’m actually cool with your spouse.

Imagine the disgust you would have if you found out your wife’s best friend who you’re also good friends with has been smiling in your face while covering for your wife’s foolery every weekend

 

[concise]

Block his number and don't answer their calls for the next few months.

 

[Still Benefited]

Lying to save a loveless marriage?count me out.


Lying to help a man who loves his wife with all his heart. Doesnt want to lose his family? I might can help with that depending on the homie,and depending on the bond.


Ive cheated righteously before,but part of cheating righteously is not involving any one else.Because it increases your chances of getting caught. So Im already calling your homies intentions into question.


Sometimes its like those movies where the former bank robber who turned his life around, is enticed to do one last heist. And this final heist will have him set for life. I could be convinced to help with that if you think its going to save your marriage. But I refuse to help somebody who I believe will continue to recklessy rob 7-11's

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Nope

You could be my boy for life but when it comes to crime and cheating you are on your own. I won't hold nobody secrets from the law or their spouse and don't ask or expect it.