Young women fall out of love with dating apps

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To me, dating apps were never it.

The best was always Facebook. You can get a good read and make a smart decision.

IG is shyt decision central.

Snap and TikTok is pointless for dating.

Dating apps always will have upside as you have the basics but the issue is, intentions is the killer
 

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Dang I gotta dump my fiancé based on this :sadcam:

No, it’s too late for you lol.

You need to accept the fact that women love to fukk too. Make sure she is done using those apps and you’re just gonna have to trust her.

However, if you see what I saw early in the game, just fukk and leave too. Otherwise, assume the risk. My ego is too big to accept the fact that possibly a good amount of strangers online fukked my girl for free… and I’m the one that decided to take her seriously.
 
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No, it’s too late for you lol.

You need to accept the fact that women love to fukk too. Make sure she is done using those apps and you’re just gonna have to trust her.

However, if you see what I saw early in the game, just fukk and leave too. Otherwise, assume the risk. My ego is too big to accept the fact that possibly a good amount of strangers online fukked my girl for free… and I’m the one that decided to take her seriously.
Already bushed based on your advice

Preciate it!
 
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Apps are tough because each side has different strategies.

Men - have to cast a wide net unless you're Top 10-15% in looks, height, income etc. You have to volume swipe and volume message A LOT of women because you're going to fail more often than not. Out of 100 women, you might get 10 or 20 that show any interest and only a fraction of that number will progress to actual phone conversations and dates. Men that are genuinely looking for a relationship and convey that well in their profiles, can have success if they are open to dating normal looking broads. A lot of dudes just want puzzy and the females can sniff it out quickly if you have a shyt mouthpiece.

Women - you're almost always going to have some male interest with OLD but you'll end up rejecting most guys either because they do dumb shyt (sending unsolicited dikk pics) or you're not attracted to them (most common). Women just looking for fun will have endless options but women looking for something serious....that's tricky. Mainly because women can smash random brehs wayyyyy outta their league but can't get higher than a "6" to commit for a serious relationship. Ladies got options but they're always convinced something better is just over that hill.
 

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Met my current girl off hinge. She said her experience on the apps felt like a full time job. Said most of the guys were unattractive, boring, creepy, and didn’t put effort into their profiles with good pics .

She showed me her feed and it was a lot of dudes with pics at their crib just chilling or using the fat girl angles


Damn so if you a decent man you should be able to eat easily?
 
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Every woman thinks she deserves the rich handsome guy. Even if she matches with a hundred dudes in her mind it’s zero matches and must be the app. Women only count the guys they want. Lol
Truth.

A woman matches with 50 guys but she only views 3 of them as attractive/good enough to pursue. In her mind, she has 3 matches. A man with 50 matches, would be hitting up every last one of em.
 

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I’m married and I went out to a bar/club a two weeks ago and I got approached by atleast 4 white chicks and two black chicks said I was a cute and handsome. I’m also up in Canada but I don’t know how nikkaz ain’t eating in the real world and I’m pushing 40 almost.

It seems like shyt is easier to me.

I said this before, but most men's problems is not socializing and not knowing where to go to meet women. That's all it boils down to. After college you're 100% on your own. You can't smash women at your job. Clubs are trash. You gotta find some type of event and even that may be tough because women tend to be in groups. Having a social circle is how a vast majority of men met their wife.

This why I never knocked cold approaching while a lot of dudes will laugh at it.
 

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The downside of dating apps is it gives women so many options that they find it difficult to make a decision on what they want. :manny: For men this is a lack of effort but that happens when matching with multiple women who aren't talking about anything. Dating apps can change the experience for everyone but they are making too much money as is.
Not true. The problem is everyone wants the same guy
 

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Don’t get in a relationship with a girl that uses dating apps.

All they do is get fukked by the nikkas they choose and dumped… then repeat the cycle.

Bodies be high on those women trust me on this.

Saw this one girl iPad when she unlocked it. Her IG and iMessage was full of nikkas from BLCK (I think that’s the dating app) … she was calling them all baby and going to their house. One nikka hair she retwisted and he nutted in her first link. Saw the message saying she “took the pill , don’t worry “ :francis:

One nikka said “I already fukked, no need to talk to you “ … I was like holy shyt lol

How did she look so I can get a mental picture.
 

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I said this before, but most men's problems is not socializing and not knowing where to go to meet women. That's all it boils down to. After college you're 100% on your own. You can't smash women at your job. Clubs are trash. You gotta find some type of event and even that may be tough because women tend to be in groups. Having a social circle is how a vast majority of men met their wife.

This why I never knocked cold approaching while a lot of dudes will laugh at it.
I said this before, but most men's problems is not socializing and not knowing where to go to meet women. That's all it boils down to. After college you're 100% on your own. You can't smash women at your job. Clubs are trash. You gotta find some type of event and even that may be tough because women tend to be in groups. Having a social circle is how a vast majority of men met their wife.

This why I never knocked cold approaching while a lot of dudes will laugh at it.

If you know how to put yourself together and smell good that goes along way too. If you look good and feel good women are receptive to that energy. Like no word of a lie soon as I walked in the bar I heared two girls say that I was beautiful. Then I went to the bar and one white dude came up to me and told me these two white chicks that wanted to talk to me. But I told him I was married and he respected it. My one homie gets a kick out of the reactions some women give me when I’m out.
 
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Men are looked at as "pay pigs" by these dating apps. Pigs that have to be farmed and have to be bled dry of every penny. Women (especially attractive women) will never pay to see who viewed their profile. These apps have to maintain the illusion that there are interested women on the app waiting to message men first and that she's only a "click away" from meeting up with the average man. The tactics are disgusting and if they were done on women it would be considered "predatory" , it's a nasty game.
Are you preyed on when you pay a cover charge where women get in free, when you make it rain on a stripper whore, when you buy dinner for a date, when you pay a whore for a blow job, when you don't have a prenuptial, when you pay her family a dowry, etc? It seems like it's the same concept on apps and you can only blame yourselves :yeshrug:
 
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