You people who are in love, how do u do it???????????????????????????????????????????

[Huellz Santana]

Now you know me gawd?


I dont need to front and act hard


but I just dont have love in my heart

Like I have mad passion and I love the ideal of love but I keed dealing with these females who claim to love me and I just cant love them back

I would like to have that love in my heart g
but real shyt im more disgusted when ole girl acts all lovely dovey and shyt

i hate to constantly toss women in the bushes but i cant help it

i would like to one day have a fam like Lil Nukka,OCMF,ole married dude from Chicago and the other married posters with kids n shyt g

1. be glad. for what goes up, must come down. and that down is a terrible place to be for a man.

2. you just haven't met the right girl yet. I used to be just like you honestly. you'll meet one that will have you actin all out of character and everything. she'll possess the proper combination of traits to mentally and physically stimulate you.​

 

[Sad Bunny]

I read an article recently that broke it down really well.

Basically, choosing a person to love is easy. You can fall in love over a weekend, that's why it's called "falling". The difficult part is LOVING the person you've CHOSEN over a long period.

Link

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

1. be glad. for what goes up, must come down. and that down is a terrible place to be for a man.

2. you just haven't met the right girl yet. I used to be just like you honestly. you'll meet one that will have you actin all out of character and everything. she'll possess the proper combination of traits to mentally and physically stimulate you.​

shyt sounds like a myth-- if onlyit could be gawd

Talk to me 5 years ago and I would've been like "fukk that shyt. It ain't for me. I got better things to do."

That shyt will hit you like a Mack truck though. Everyone who has every been in love knows what I'm talking about.

I don't know what else to tell you. I wouldn't go looking for love though. I don't know why people do it.

cause meeting a broad and getting excited over phone calls and dates for 2 weeks only to fukk and lose all interest eventhough she ready to move in is depressing

 

[Anothergirl]

when i was on leave i tried

I bought it at CVS

i couldnt find the oil treatment tho
then i ended up going to Belize so i didnt have time to look anymore

it was great but shyt is high

if you can't find the brand treatment i told you about.....Garnier Fructis makes a argan oil now that's like 5 bucks. you can get it at CVS..Walmart etc... try that one...

 

[jwall123]

all i'm saying is just being patient and open minded. it doesn't happen when you're seeking it out, at least in my case.

The gospel has been spoken!

that is exactly what I tell people. Focus on getting yourself together and It'll come to you. Work towards your goals my dude!

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

if you can't find the brand treatment i told you about.....Garnier Fructis makes a argan oil now that's like 5 bucks. you can get it at CVS..Walmart etc... try that one...

imagine the gawd with the curls oiled up buck naked in a tub of milk

The gospel has been spoken!

that is exactly what I tell people. Focus on getting yourself together and It'll come to you. Work towards your goals my dude!

props brah

 

[Steve Piffler]

At the end of the day Loyalty and Respect >>>> Love
Get you a woman that loves you to death....and just keep it 100 with her and that love shyt doesn't matter

You'll still have to say it tho

i would say that loyalty, respect, and admiration = love. i actually came in here to say that. it takes a while and a lot of trial and error to recognize it. also (and i know i'm gonna get a lot of after i say this), when a nikka realize that all p*ssy is pretty much the same, you can start to look at women as more than a sexual conquest. you can look at the non physical attributes and form a genuine admiration for the woman as a PERSON and not just as a sexual object. THATS when love creeps its way into the equation.

love is complicated.....at first. but it's easy when you understand what its really supposed to be. and it has 0% to do with looks or anything physical.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Sometimes we focus on the insignificant because we think we're missing something. Something's supposed to happen or something hasn't happened yet and that's preventing us from whatever or however we're supposed to feel. It's a common thing we all share and it's pretty terrible. You seem to think you're incapable of love based on how little you show to women but we're all capable of love. Do you feel like you're lacking something in your life? I'm gonna assume that you have: your health, a home, decent supply of food to keep you full, friends, family. What more would you need?

This was a good ass post

 

[skeetsinternal]

My girl saved my life, she makes me a better man, she makes me act rather than react, she inspires me, she motivates....a few reasons why I remain faithful to her and to her only. Some of yaw know my background and any woman than can transform me from what I was is worthy of my love. Her deep dimples, soothing voice, calm presence...mmm...im about to go kidnap her from work today.

 

[Mr. Somebody]

Discipline.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

My girl saved my life, she makes me a better man, she makes me act rather than react, she inspires me, she motivates....a few reasons why I remain faithful to her and to her only. Some of yaw know my background and any woman than can transform me from what I was is worthy of my love. Her deep dimples, soothing voice, calm presence...mmm...im about to go kidnap her from work today.

nikka u with just one woman?

 

[OPTiMO]

In love nah I don't believe In that




Compromising your thought of what being in love is supposed to be to hold down a relationship is how I feel it goes. Too many times people will throw out a good relationship because it doesn't match up to The Notebook. That shyt fukks people up.

 

[bouncy]

Now you know me gawd?


I dont need to front and act hard


but I just dont have love in my heart

Like I have mad passion and I love the ideal of love but I keed dealing with these females who claim to love me and I just cant love them back

I would like to have that love in my heart g
but real shyt im more disgusted when ole girl acts all lovely dovey and shyt

i hate to constantly toss women in the bushes but i cant help it

i would like to one day have a fam like Lil Nukka,OCMF,ole married dude from Chicago and the other married posters with kids n shyt g

Do you have things you LOVE doing?

I found out that when I had things that were so enjoyable that they took up a lot of my time, or gave me a nice natural high, I wasn't getting that feeling of "needing love", but when I was just doing the everyday routine of work, school, and just living, then I would start thinking about finding love. I still wanted some female friendship that included sex, but spending most of my time with her, and being with her most of my life wasn't a thought, living MY life the way I wanted to was, and just enjoying my days.

I really think people who need to fall in love or end up signing a contract to be with someone for the rest of their life, is because they lost the love of something in their life, that gave them a high. Or they never really had one to begin with, and being with someone IS their enjoyment. I think a lot of women are like this, and that's why they are always talking about relationships.

 

[Heelish]

In & out of a relationship for 4 years & finally done with it. It's not worth it IMO. I'm so much more at peace these days. But I never knock anyone for being in love or looking for it.

 

[Huellz Santana]

Do you have things you LOVE doing?

I found out that when I had things that were so enjoyable that they took up a lot of my time, or gave me a nice natural high, I wasn't getting that feeling of "needing love", but when I was just doing the everyday routine of work, school, and just living, then I would start thinking about finding love. I still wanted some female friendship that included sex, but spending most of my time with her, and being with her most of my life wasn't a thought, living MY life the way I wanted to was, and just enjoying my days.

I really think people who need to fall in love or end up signing a contract to be with someone for the rest of their life, is because they lost the love of something in their life, that gave them a high. Or they never really had one to begin with, and being with someone IS their enjoyment. I think a lot of women are like this, and that's why they are always talking about relationships.

"If you are looking for the love of your life, stop; they will be waiting for you when you start doing things you love."​