You people who are in love, how do u do it???????????????????????????????????????????

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I dunno breh I don't normally say this cause it's usually for bird brain bytches, but you might wanna consider celibacy for a while so you can connect w/ a woman on a level other than sex. That is, if you're serious about wanting to find love. Personally, I don't see anything wrong with your lifestyle. You know what you want and what you don't want, and it doesn't line up with what a bunch of other people want... so what? If you never love, you'll never have to deal with a broken fukking heart, and trust me, you do NOT want to deal with that shyt.

:huhldup::beli::dead:

i tried that back in 09
i even chronicled it on sohh in a thread- i lasted about 2 months and met this 20 yr old who was divorced and introduced me to a swinger's club:ohlawd: i chronicled that too

and im not trying to be funny brah cause im serious with this thread
 

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all i'm saying is just being patient and open minded. it doesn't happen when you're seeking it out, at least in my case.

:why: man im bout to return to America- how much longer will i have to endure being into some woman- having wild kinky sex then hating the way she chews her food and tossing her in the bushes and feeling bad about it
 

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I wasn't necessarily looking for it when I found my wife. My relationship with her squashed my interest in other people. It's not for everybody though and its a lot harder than being single.

If you are having fun and you like what's going on with you then keep doing it. I have a homeboy who isn't built for it at all and he keeps on trying to prove that he is. I feel awful for the girl thats caught in the middle of it. :scusthov:
 

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I wasn't necessarily looking for it when I found my wife. My relationship with her squashed my interest in other people. It's not for everybody though and its a lot harder than being single.

If you are having fun and you like what's going on with you then keep doing it. I have a homeboy who isn't built for it at all and he keeps on trying to prove that he is. I feel awful for the girl thats caught in the middle of it. :scusthov:
:wow: lawd forgive me
 

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:why: man im bout to return to America- how much longer will i have to endure being into some woman- having wild kinky sex then hating the way she chews her food and tossing her in the bushes and feeling bad about it

until you realize how insignificant the way she chews her food is and you realize the other things that are more important that you do like about her outweigh those small flaws. everyone is imperfect breh. :manny:
 

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until you realize how insignificant the way she chews her food is and you realize the other things that are more important that you do like about her outweigh those small flaws. everyone is imperfect breh. :manny:

:beli: if i could do that i would

that's my whole prob

i toss em in the bushes over the smallest shyt
and i just dont understand why i cant force myself to have feelings
 

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:beli: if i could do that i would

that's my whole prob

i toss em in the bushes over the smallest shyt
and i just dont understand why i cant force myself to have feelings

you're just overthinking it, let it happen naturally
 

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so break it down brah:confused:

Sometimes we focus on the insignificant because we think we're missing something. Something's supposed to happen or something hasn't happened yet and that's preventing us from whatever or however we're supposed to feel. It's a common thing we all share and it's pretty terrible. You seem to think you're incapable of love based on how little you show to women but we're all capable of love. Do you feel like you're lacking something in your life? I'm gonna assume that you have: your health, a home, decent supply of food to keep you full, friends, family. What more would you need?
 
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