Yup. I flipped out on my folks a while back cause they were recklessly expecting me to live my life the way they want. Boy, was it a flip. It’s your life my dude. As long as you not out here doing anything illegal or engaging in activities that can cause hardship for your family, I say u tell anyone with ideas on your life to go straight to hell.
It really is quite wild because
most folks are miserable and gain a sense of comfort from you being in the same boat as them because if you shift your wavelength it signals they are stagnant and haven't done a thing. Most will never admit this, not even in private as they like to blame anything, everywhen but themselves so seeing you flip the script is a reminder they didn't choose that option.
In one respect you can truly tell you're growing when you lose friends and family as so much of what we call connection is actually resonance to the lower level whereas development is done for delf and that pushes you to another level where you meet others ascending in the spectrum.
There are people with fixed mindsets that can’t adjust what they were indoctrinated with. To achieve anything you gonna have to break false beliefs and develop a growth mindset
They can't because they won't consider another option, this is why I said it all comes down the questions you ask yourself and if you're being real or BSing about why its not happening. Like Scarface said -
the mind plays tricks because it is a slippery bish so if you don't master it you'll be its servant and its a terrible king as it never wanted that position, nor is it equipped to handle it.
Also a lot of people do not wish to be unplugged and reconnect with Self because they feel they're too far gone and invested in the paradigm to even dare to think different. Same folks have lots of back pain and stiffness and never seem to draw the link with rigid thinking and the flesh in resonance...
Dap and Repped. I think a lot of people are afraid of the criticism they get if they break away from that cookie-cutter approach to life.
They are.
People on the whole are afraid of realness. Viciously allergic in a sense because the current paradigm offers just enough of a mix of misery and distraction to make it pleasurable enough not to flip. Therein lies the trick because finding five isn't the same as ten you made.
I was born to be a Pornstar but the shame from my family is what’s holding me back. I can’t imagine traumatizing my kids like that
I don't know if you're trolling or being real but that is an interesting topic.
What is your primary motivation beyond ass slamming and are you getting it how you wish without cameras because a lot of people think they want one thing when its really something different hence know thyself as each investment pays dividends.
It changes every day. Yesterday it was marry a supermodel, the day before it was pass my exam. Thursday it was finishing my 3D model, tomorrow it'll be spending this summer somewhere else
From what you've said it sounds like
your main issue is focus, or lack of it. So many of those I speak need to be shown how to be real because even though I said you know intuitively a lot of those pseudo-goals are based on false memories or socially implanted wishes. Especially when they keep shifting as that is whats most telling that the person has no solidity within which is exceedingly common as we live in times of mass disconnection and alienation from Self.