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The problem is people thinking love is a transaction and it comes from how one is raised. If you only received love respect and/or attention when you do something good. Then you believe love is conditional. In order to recieve love, I have to go above and beyond.

Yall do not not realize that the same things you say about the female is also reflected in the male. The nice guy wants love from a female who does not appreciate him, so he tries to win her love. The girl wants love from a "bad boy" who does not appreciate her, so she tries to win his love.

Because they do not believe love is easy. They've always had to pay and perform for love so if they get it without effort, it does not register as love, but "thirst".

There is also the issue of entitlement. If I give you all this love and attention (though unsolicited), you owe me. Which is not true at all.
I guess I consider myself a nice guy

The statement in bold isn't true. I don't and have never chose to chase a woman just because "she doesn't want me".

fukk I look like?

That's why I say it's a majority female trait. Men don't think like this, women are the only ones i see defending their decision then complaining about there not being any good men 10 years later

Even dudes who get tail know that shyt is retarded, that's why the men you desperately want attention from are busy callin ya'll hoes behind ya back and expose you guys whenever they get the chance :mjpls: then callin u up when they wanna fukk

Especially on the internet
 

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I guess I consider myself a nice guy

The statement in bold isn't true. I don't and have never chose to chase a woman just because "she doesn't want me".

fukk I look like?

That's why I say it's a majority female trait. Men don't think like this, women are the only ones i see defending their decision then complaining about there not being any good men 10 years later

Even dudes who get tail know that shyt is retarded, that's why they call ya'll hoes and expose you guys whenever they get the chance :mjpls:

Especially on the internet
Just because you don't, doesn't mean men don't do it.

The point is people of both genders have this mindset. They may not always go after females who do not want them but when dating, men go after the women they want and court the woman in hopes that they will want them back.
 

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Just because you don't, doesn't mean men don't do it.

The point is people of both genders have this mindset. They may not always go after females who do not want them but when dating, men go after the women they want and court the woman in hopes that they will want them back.

:wtf:

Well, yah, y'know because men can't like...y'know just take any woman he wants without getting her consent first.
That's like.....rape.
'Courting' is also a far cry from actively pursuing women who openly claim from the get go they aren't available to you or flat out don't want to be with you.
Two very different circumstances that have no correlation whatsoever.

:mjlol:
 

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The problem is people thinking love is a transaction and it comes from how one is raised. If you only received love respect and/or attention when you do something good. Then you believe love is conditional. In order to recieve love, I have to go above and beyond.

Yall do not not realize that the same things you say about the female is also reflected in the male. The nice guy wants love from a female who does not appreciate him, so he tries to win her love. The girl wants love from a "bad boy" who does not appreciate her, so she tries to win his love.

Because they do not believe love is easy. They've always had to pay and perform for love so if they get it without effort, it does not register as love, but "thirst".

There is also the issue of entitlement. If I give you all this love and attention (though unsolicited), you owe me. Which is not true at all.
Meh

Maybe people were just raised to believe you shouldn't act like a c*nt to people

Dating is offically the olympics of mental gymnastics
 

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:wtf:

Well, yah, y'know because men can't like...y'know just take any woman he wants without getting her consent first.
That's like.....rape.
'Courting' is also a far cry from actively pursuing women who openly claim from the get go they aren't available to you or flat out don't want to be with you.
Two very different circumstances that have no correlation whatsoever.

:mjlol:
Courting is not the issue. Please stop twisting what Im saying.

I'll make it simple. The point is the mindset of conditional love is not gendered, neither is attaching to people who show little interest in you.

Many people will entertain you, but that doesn't make them love or want you back. Look at all these guys dating women who see them as a comeup. The modern idea of love has become about a transaction,
 

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Nice guys finish last, but that's their fault lol not hers. If she's not interested, take your L and move on. Don't spend your time insulting her behind her back because she wanted a dude that was a little more rough around the edges. There are too many people in the world to be stressed out, writing anecdotes and throwing subs at a girl that doesn't like you because you're "too nice."
 

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Black women love an emotionally unavailable nikka :wow:
Not all black women are like this but I wont lie I have had this issue in past relationships and im talking when things where going extremely well.
 

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Nice guys finish last, but that's their fault lol not hers. If she's not interested, take your L and move on. Don't spend your time insulting her behind her back because she wanted a dude that was a little more rough around the edges. There are too many people in the world to be stressed out, writing anecdotes and throwing subs at a girl that doesn't like you because you're "too nice."
These terms don't carry any weight man
 

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Not all black women are like this but I wont lie I have had this issue in past relationships and im talking when things where going extremely well.
And that's you in the avatar?

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