"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist

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excessive niceness is boring and exposes the insecurities in women.

If a woman doesn't have the self-love to accept herself unconditionally. How can she be comfortable when another person does?

That yearning to be accepted by those who don't want us is a universal human struggle. Some people just can't get past It.
It's not really though that's just a female trait
 

KENNY DA COOKER

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gotta salute her for acknowledge the TRUTH...a lot of these women seek ENTERTAINMENT over RESPONSIBLITY

so the GOOD RESPONSIBLE dude gets fukked over.....cause she values the ENTERTAINMENT of the GOON, PLAYER..THUG etc.

but they will eventually learn....50 lbs later...3 kids later with no man in sight and debt up to their neck....

 

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gotta salute her for acknowledge the TRUTH...a lot of these women seek ENTERTAINMENT over RESPONSIBLITY

so the GOOD RESPONSIBLE dude gets fukked over.....cause she values the ENTERTAINMENT of the GOON, PLAYER..THUG etc.

but they will eventually learn....50 lbs later...3 kids later with no man in sight and debt up to their neck....

the good entertaining responsible dude gets fukked over too though

that's the problem i hate with these philosophies

it's like you gotta be one or the other
 

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The problem is people thinking love is a transaction and it comes from how one is raised. If you only received love respect and/or attention when you do something good. Then you believe love is conditional. In order to recieve love, I have to go above and beyond.

Yall do not not realize that the same things you say about the female is also reflected in the male. The nice guy wants love from a female who does not appreciate him, so he tries to win her love. The girl wants love from a "bad boy" who does not appreciate her, so she tries to win his love.

Because they do not believe love is easy. They've always had to pay and perform for love so if they get it without effort, it does not register as love, but "thirst".

There is also the issue of entitlement. If I give you all this love and attention (though unsolicited), you owe me. Which is not true at all.
 

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