"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Proves my point to a muthafukkin T

See, the thing about cats like you is I need to be standing in front of you breaking it down.

You read my words but you don't feel me. Some of y'all dudes are so stuck in internet world and your own heads that it's hard to point these things out.

But hey, do you.

 

[FTBS]

lets be honest even a lot of the nice guys just want the p*ssy and would act like a jerk once they get it, especially applies to below average and average girls, so i can't blame some women for their choices, they've been burnt by guys who they thought were nice the same way theyve been burnt by hoodrats, only difference is the hoodrat is probably more transparent which makes it all the worst for a 'nice guy'

There is always at least one in every thread like this. Why would a guy pretend to be nice to get p*ssy when it has been proven that that isn't effective? If the nice guy just wants the p*ssy why not be the jerk that you are suggesting that he truly is and get all that he can stand without putting in all that effort to be nice? That line of thinking is nothing more than a way of excusing poor decision making.

The reality is that it's up to men to step up and be men a demand respect and not allow chicks to use them as time hoes (RIP ). Unfortunately we live in a society that not only allows weakness in men but it actually encourages it .

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

You find a lot of rich ugly nikkas hoes cheating on them with the young Adonis in the face

You speak authoritatively about this, but how many guys do you actually know about this happening to? I'm not talking about internet forums, YouTube videos, instagram comments, or twitter narratives. I'm not talking about some whack scenario you heard about. I mean how many "rich ugly" dudes do you personally know, whose wives cheated on them with a "young Adonis?"

I'm not trying to pick on you dude, but some of this venom you cats spew is dangerous. A lot of dudes are trying to figure things out and when they run across a line of bitterness and resentment that fits their worldview or reflects their lack of success, they latch on to it. There is a narcissism with a lot of y'all cats that makes it difficult to improve yourself.

Like, you don't truly know anything, but you believe you know everything. You think you're smarter than the girls, you think you're smarter than other guys who have success, then you wonder why you ain't got it like that and find a forum to complain.

I can see where girls get worn out by y'all.

No offense my man, but are you looking to be entertained and escape or looking to improve yourself?

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

There's no reason to.

Maybe I'm confused about your point because, from what I read, that proves the opposite of what you're trying to say.

Their looks got them attention initially but their lack of social skills ruined any shot they had.

Nobody is saying looks are unimportant, but I don't think they're not the most important thing. Getting in the door with your looks doesn't mean anything if you can't hold a conversation.

Exactly, on point.

Women seem to appreciate looks, sure, but they aren't nearly as superficial as we are in that regard. The only women who are truly truly pressed about looks are lower class girls projecting a bunch of their insecurities. Because of this, a lot of times the dudes I referenced were operating well below their potential and even those girls messed them over (lied, cheated, got with other far less handsome nikkas).

Girls get sick of that "good looking" stuff real quick if dude doesn't have a personality. And girls get attracted to dudes who have a personality (humor, wit, intelligence, etc) and show leadership skills all the time (in spite of their "looks").

Gotta let these brothas live though I guess.

if only people knew how important this is. We are biologically programmed to respond to authority positively, men and women. Cant school dudes though, its either they want to know n learn themselves or they stuck in the matrix n moan and complain about why women aint feeling them, like alot of dudes on this site.

This whole joint is nothing but truth sir.

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

I feel like I would be. I just don't think they'd be receptive to someone of my size.

im not much bigger than that. i just need to be able to stand up with more confidence. i have the voice that commands it. i just get nervous about displaying that potential.

i can. i usually expect a no. which is bad but i usually avoided materializing that no.

So my man, I know you've been going back and forth on figuring out your mouthpiece/game/sex appeal and I'm just going to add a bit.

In your case, I just recommend losing the weight. You don't have to be super cut up, but it's clear the size is bothering you which is much more important than how any woman ever feels about it. What's clear to me in the bolded is that you don't have the confidence to even handle a relationship or any intimate interaction right now because you don't believe in yourself. If you don't like yourself you're always going to wonder why other people like you. If you're extremely insecure, that insecurity is going to rear its head all the time and effect you in all sorts of messed up ways, half the time you won't even understand it.

There was a time when you couldn't identity your insecurity; you either weren't self-aware enough or you just didn't know (probably the former). Well, now you know (or you think you do) so direct your energy toward handling your fukking business before trying to firebomb the city with your dikk.

This is much more important than getting any piece of p*ssy out there. Women/p*ssy cannot complete you my dude (quite the opposite, women need men for completion), only you can complete you.

Take care of yourself.

 

[Lo-Co]

im starting up already. and completely changing my diet. and my weight is the only thing in my way. i feel there is someone worthwhile under the weight. i just want to unlock the possibilities.

@Rick Fox at UNC

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

im starting up already. and completely changing my diet. and my weight is the only thing in my way. i feel there is someone worthwhile under the weight. i just want to unlock the possibilities.

@Rick Fox at UNC

Just so you know, there is someone worthwhile with the weight on, you just don't see it. Always remember that you have value homie.

The best investment is in your health, style, and knowledge. Max a year or two before you see a dramatic dramatic change.

 

[BaggerofTea]

You speak authoritatively about this, but how many guys do you actually know about this happening to? I'm not talking about internet forums, YouTube videos, instagram comments, or twitter narratives. I'm not talking about some whack scenario you heard about. I mean how many "rich ugly" dudes do you personally know, whose wives cheated on them with a "young Adonis?"

I'm not trying to pick on you dude, but some of this venom you cats spew is dangerous. A lot of dudes are trying to figure things out and when they run across a line of bitterness and resentment that fits their worldview or reflects their lack of success, they latch on to it. There is a narcissism with a lot of y'all cats that makes it difficult to improve yourself.

Like, you don't truly know anything, but you believe you know everything. You think you're smarter than the girls, you think you're smarter than other guys who have success, then you wonder why you ain't got it like that and find a forum to complain.

I can see where girls get worn out by y'all.

No offense my man, but are you looking to be entertained and escape or looking to improve yourself?

Again another smart dumb internet nikka attempting to psychoanalyze cats through a screen

 

[feelosofer]

I feel like we have talked about this ad nauseam.

 

[Lo-Co]

Just so you know, there is someone worthwhile with the weight on, you just don't see it. Always remember that you have value homie.

The best investment is in your health, style, and knowledge. Max a year or two before you see a dramatic dramatic change.

I have a lot more time this semester now. So I can easily just go workout and I'll be good

 

[Rick Fox at UNC]

Again another smart dumb internet nikka attempting to psychoanalyze cats through a screen

Yep. Your lack of success and bitterness speaks for itself though. Some of you brothers expose insecurities all day long.

But again, do you.

 

[BaggerofTea]

Yep. Your lack of success and bitterness speaks for itself though. Some of you brothers expose insecurities all day long.

But again, do you.

I spit facts and you start talking nonsense

 

[Lo-Co]

Just so you know, there is someone worthwhile with the weight on, you just don't see it. Always remember that you have value homie.

The best investment is in your health, style, and knowledge. Max a year or two before you see a dramatic dramatic change.

im stubborn at times. theres times where i get shyt right away and theres times where its like having to break a mountain.

 

[philmonroe]

I feel like we have talked about this ad nauseam.

We have but you know its really only a few similar topics that get brought up time and time again on here. We just can't stay away from them few topics. This will come back up in some form in a week or two after this thread dies down.

 

[thatdude954]

Great post.One of the best I've ever read on here.


I've met women like the bolded.They tend to be the biggest nymphos.


The only time they really "let loose" is in the bedroom.

They'll literally break your dikk.Prostate & ligaments burnt the fukk out

But where does one find said neurotic home-body nympho?