"You find him Attractive..but his NICENESS...BORES YOU"- Female Spoken Word artist

[Wiles]

ath the end of the day, a woman's opinion on a man is meaningless. Men create kingdoms/empires everyday and 99% of women just hope they can marry into one.

 

[Rarebird77]

True, it is rare to find people who really go beyond the base level. Being online causes people to think there's a lot of nice guys out here, but a lot of it is just people claiming a label. It's a strange thing to see to me because some of them are so blinded that they never really get that they're selection in women are the problem. A lot of these dudes who vent online are the main ones with this issue.

Exactly!

They're attracted to the wrong types of women and can't seem to understand it.

 

[Rarebird77]

The issue with a lot of truly nice guys is their selection in women. They have a lot of trash to weave through and avoid. For men who are kind, caring. loyal and want to treat women well they need to go after women who appreciate these qualities.

Some of these nice men are the types that are introverted, stays at home a lot, watches movies, watches sports, plays video games etc... yet they want women who go out every chance they get and are outgoing. That's why they get bored. There's not enough true compatibility.

These dudes who are struggling should understand that they can still find attractive and nice women that like their qualities and no these women don't have to look fat or goofy looking. The options aren't act like an a$$hole to women to have success or settle for a goofy looking chick if they want women. This only applies to guys who are truly nice dudes and aren't hiding behind a label to excuse their issues with women though.

Truth!

Having a bad picker will ruin your life.

 

[3rdWorld]

Nice guys should identify and chase after nice girls..
Problem solved..
chasing a raw hoodrat as a good guy is an extreme mismatch and you'll never conquer her. Let the thugs and rats be..

 

[Voice of Reason]

women dont know what they want, they want everything....and even if they got everything they'll make up some shyt in their irrational little minds


thats why I cant wait to this dollar collapse...and well find out how submissive they become when they need a man to provide

women dont know what they want, they want everything....and even if they got everything they'll make up some shyt in their irrational little minds


thats why I cant wait to this dollar collapse...and well find out how submissive they become when they need a man to provide

You think we're about about to revert back to the cave man days?

 

[philmonroe]

True, it is rare to find people who really go beyond the base level. Being online causes people to think there's a lot of nice guys out here, but a lot of it is just people claiming a label. It's a strange thing to see to me because some of them are so blinded that they never really get that they're selection in women are the problem. A lot of these dudes who vent online are the main ones with this issue.

Exactly online bring this up because the anonymity of it. We can't see what most look like, how they living, interact with girls, confidence level, etc so dudes can say any ole thing and think we supposed to take it at face value. I can't on this issue and a lot of mainly online issues because offline people ain't trying these cons that will get them laughed out the building.

 

[Rarebird77]

Yea. We're not interested in fat chicks, single mothers and ugly girls. That's what you wanted to say, so just say it instead of being obtuse.

How about this.......nobody is owed anything. women can fukk whoever they want. We won't get angry. And ten years from now, when those women are old, have b*stard kids and are unmarried, in turn, don't get angry at us when we avoid them like the plague. Agreed? Cool.

Firstly you have to take a true assessment of your own looks.

If you don't want someone on your own look level well then you're setting yourself up for a fail.

You do the best to look your best and present yourself well, but after you've done all you can, self acceptance is key.

Water rises to its own level, so if you're chasing women who look wise pretty much match you then you should be ok.

Hell, I say do a Tinder test, that shyt will let you know real quick who's feeling you back solely based on looks.

After that you got to work on shared values. Not shared interests mind you, but values.

Stop chasing chicks who don't value kindness. Stop trying to figure out why these women don't value kindness if you think being nice is important.

 

[Arithmetic]

ath the end of the day, a woman's opinion on a man is meaningless. Men create kingdoms/empires everyday and 99% of women just hope they can marry into one.

 

[philmonroe]

Exactly!

They're attracted to the wrong types of women and can't seem to understand it.

I,think they know it but come on here looking for sympathy. That's why these dudes too often are mentioning these Instagram chicks as the culprit of playing them instead of the "regular" girls. Nerd dudes that want to be into untraditional things them chicks into then get mad when them chicks don't want them. That's like me being mad some goth chick ain't checking for me. shyt I'm setting myself up

 

[Rarebird77]

I,think they know it but come on here looking for sympathy. That's why these dudes too often are mentioning these Instagram chicks as the culprit of playing them instead of the "regular" girls. Nerd dudes that want to be into untraditional things them chicks into then get mad when them chicks don't want them. That's like me being mad some goth chick ain't checking for me. shyt I'm setting myself up

Aww, they're just chasing sex and mad they have to pay for it if they caught up in the whole instagram chick thing.

Those women are nothing more then hair weave, surgery, make up and instafilters. . .be caught up in a fake image and expect a real women brehs.

Sad.

 

[GoPro]

Again, I respect honesty.

I despise dishonesty, duplicity and hypocrisy.

I respect a woman who says she's a hoe and that she loves sex.

I don't respect a woman who has boned 75 men but, goes through mental gymnastics to prove she isn't a hoe and lies about her past.

In the same way, I can respect women who say they love bad boys.

I don't respect these women (the avg female) who swear up and down they don't eventhough all signs suggest otherwise.

If these chicks admitted the truth, I'd have nothing to post about.

Ever consider that maybe there are a few women who don't like bad boys?

 

[Dominicansbelit]

ath the end of the day, a woman's opinion on a man is meaningless. Men create kingdoms/empires everyday and 99% of women just hope they can marry into one.

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[MalikReloaded]

Firstly you have to take a true assessment of your own looks.

If you don't want someone on your own look level well then you're setting yourself up for a fail.

You do the best to look your best and present yourself well, but after you've done all you can, self acceptance is key.

Water rises to its own level, so if you're chasing women who look wise pretty much match you then you should be ok.

Hell, I say do a Tinder test, that shyt will let you know real quick who's feeling you back solely based on looks.

After that you got to work on shared values. Not shared interests mind you, but values.

Stop chasing chicks who don't value kindness. Stop trying to figure out why these women don't value kindness if you think being nice is important.

The average American woman doesn't find 80% of American men attractive so your assessment is dead in the water before it started.

How can "water rise to it's level" when women find the majority of their male equals unattractive? Kinda proves my point and proves what you're saying to be empty platitudes, don't ya think? Are you even going to address the study or move smooth over it like it's not there

Survey finds women find 80% of men to be unattractive/undesirable. (dating, how to) - Relationships -Dating, marriage, boyfriends, girlfriends, men, women, friends, attraction ... - City-Data Forum

Your Looks and Your Inbox


And I don't recall asking for dating advice.

 

[I Lord Justice]

Yea. We're not interested in fat chicks, single mothers and ugly girls. That's what you wanted to say, so just say it instead of being obtuse.

This part is interesting. If "nice girls" is simply code word for the above, what is "nice guy" code for?

Please answer without being obtuse.

 

[rosie93]

I have a 30 year old friend who has never had a girlfriend. He's always rushing on (younger) women but never gets the guts to ask them out. He thinks he's a nice guy, but his issue is that he has a below minimum wage job and needs to work on his sex appeal. His nice guyness isn't what's holding him back. It's his confidence and his sex appeal. You don't need to be bad or an a$$hole, just change your confidence level.

Men also tend to equate being shy with being "nice". It's not the case. When i think of nice, I think of someone who is kind to others, smiles a lot, has manners etc. Being nice doesnt mean you don't have a personality, don't joke around. you can be shy and be an a$$hole too. Hop on over to a social anxiety forum and see how many dikks there are there. Bet they think they're all "nice guys" too.

My best friend doesn't smile because he has fukked up teeth. This kind of explains a lot now. Is he basically fukked for life