1. Most of them don't go for black guys because black guys don't go for them...
2. remember gender norms are still a thing and women still expect to be pursued.
3. Many of them that do get approached get approached by the most lame of us...the urkels of the nikka community.
4. Internalized bad luck is a thing, especially with geeky women. Many of them feel like a dude who is too popular/attractive/wealthy/etc is too good for them and they can't accept it for what it is.
5. It's hard for them to find some one as geeky as they are.
I've lived through all 5 examples of this. In fact, the last girl I tried to actually talk to before my current girl (who isn' a geek at all but for some reason finds my nerd interests attractive) was a huge gamer and loved Sailor Moon to a fault. And she literally did not understand the concept that I may actually like her beyond smoking some trees and playing Time Crisis.
Smh, some of u dudes man, i never put down another man for how they approach because men are the ones doing the approaching most of the time which is
more than the woman is doing.
I can't think of nothing more as the reason some of these black women do what they do other than self hate, colonial mentality, yellow fever.
I won't worry about it tho, one of the things a man can do for himself is value yourself. When u step out be on point, not cus of no bytch or to please anybody else but just cus u care about ur appearance and value.
U kill two birds with one stone, anybody that u run into will value u, and as bonus u might get to meet a female or two.