Eh, this idea is overblown. This is like saying that there are some square looking players/macks in the world walking around picking up on all these women. While there are
some the vast majority of people who can truly handle themselves
look like they can handle themselves (or at the very least, give off that vibe). On top of that, a lot of folks who seriously train are pretty good at avoiding fights and deescalating situations so that it never gets to that point.
On top of that, there is always that great equalizer...
That's former UFC Heavyweight Champ Frank Mir. Dude can beat the dog shyt out of 99.X% of the population but rarely leaves the house without packing. Why? shyt, do you honestly believe a dude is going to scrap it up with a guy who is 6'3"+/225+? Trained or not, the average cat is looking for his boys or looking for that heat.
So really, who gives a shyt about any of this?